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Im a freshmen in high school most people say that i look much older for my age. Im extremely popular in my school all the girls want to be like me and all the guys want a piece of me but sometimes i think my friends just use me because of this im me on xodanielle432ox.. a friends sn how do i know if i hve true friends or not
if you have to wonder if someone is your true frind or not, they arent. you know for sure when you have a real friend.
ok well me and one of my thought to be good friends got in such a huge fight that she wont even look at me during school or even speak to me. and i just dont know wat to do ive tried everything! i tried apologizing and everything but i mean i dont want to be mean but..she's a fucking bitch and a whore! and i dont really wanna be her friend..but i mean i hate havin someone mad at me and like we have funn times but i mean she can be a huge fucking bitch! and now she has her best friends which i thought was another good friend of mine in on it to and they are playin the old trick of oo im gonna act like im not over at her house and see wat mean things she says about you! and it fucking pissin the shit out of me seriously! i have no idea wat to do i hope you can help or basicially ive screwed myself pretty fucking hard!
she isnt worth worrying about. if she treats you that way, then shes not someone you will ever be able to trust. it will probably take a long time for her to get the point where she realizes how shes treating you. ive been in the same situation, and now we arent that great of friends, but we arent at all enemies. dont let anything she says about you hurt you, bc if she knows youre getting hurt, she will continue to abuse you like that. this shit is always tough to deal with, hope i helped! xoxo sara
Hello, I'm a 17 year old girl who has a problem, guys. I don't have any self-esteem issues so i agree I'm good looking (many guys think so also), I do really well in school (one of the top ranks), and I am devoting most of my school week time to studying, keeping my grades up and preparing for the SAT. However, on weekends I go out, party , socialize, have fun and forget about school work. So i would have to say my life is kind of balanced although I have a lot of school work. This is just some background information. Now, my problems are guys. I have no trouble getting guys interested/attracted to me without even trying. Most of the boys my age, and those a bit older (i tend to get along better with guys who are 2-3 years older) are interested, maybe cause of my looks, I don't know. Something always goes wrong though. I am the type of girl who likes the chase, who likes guys that are harder to get and have something different about them. I don't like to be an ordinary person. I never have serious relationships, and I am kind of glad because I dont want it to interferre with my school work, but it would be nice to date once in a while. I am not gullible or easily deceived, therefore "sweet talks" or any false attempts don't really work with me cause i can see right through it. However, the two past guys i've been interested in HAVE turned out pretty deceiving. First guy I deeply connected, date went well, but in a few days he decided to "ignore" me at one of our get-togethers/parties and kiss somebody else. Of course I would never put up with that, so the very next day when he tried talking to me I told him off. Second guy had been interested in meeting me for quite a while, and after the "1st guy altercation" we met kind of a double date sort of thing. Everything went well and it was extremely fun, until I found out he's been in a VERY serious relationship with someone for quite a while (but they cheat on each other quite often??? i don't get that). I was glad I was able to stop both cases before getting hurt. What really bothers me is the fact that I couldn't realize the way these guys were (i can usually read everyone) and I still can't clearly see it. It really bothers me I was gullible like that, and that I go for these kinds of guys!! What do u think about this? Sorry its extremely long.!
hey i think you should just chill for a while with no b/f. any of the guys-- you like or you did like-- time and space, they will eventually come around. in the mean time, dont worry so much about being gullible, just blow that off and not let it bother you.. you know youve found the right guy when you can trust him and he doest trick you like that. i hope i helped! xoxox sara
hey im terribly surrering from being overweight for about 1 year. ive tried many diets and other formulas and none of them helped! what should i do?!!!!!!!!
dont believe those stupid diets. people who make those are just trying to get money. you dont need to go on a diet, excercise is the key thing. burn more calories than you eat. try not to eat things like bread and pasta, sweets, and sodas. instead get your carbs from fruits and veggies, and drink a lot of water to speed up your matabolism. eat only snacks every 2 to 3 hours, and if you can, excercise first thing in the morning, and dont eat after 9 pm. if you have any other questions just ask me! hope i helped!! xoxo sarah.
i made out with my bf the other day and he has been telling everyone about it ever since, but i only hear that from my friends. he has talked about it to my friends and stuff like that. i dont really like it, should i talk to him about it? i'm not sure what to do, i mean it is true... its not like a false rumour he is passing around or anything. i like him, he's sweet, but i feel like i cant make out with him anymore or else he's guna tell every one about it... also, for the boys out there, why do you think he talked about it so much? thanks
thats just part of what guys do, they will always tell their friends how far they go with girls and its hard to find a guy you can trust. you should talk to him about it, but dont make a big deal about it unless he does it again. hope i helped xox sara
is it alright to not tell your mother baout your period for a few months, because i know if i tell her she will get all emotional and cry and be all my lil baby is growing up and now we have a special bond. i am the only daughter with 2 older brothers. im al right on getting pad and stuff....im just wondering if its safe to not tell for a few months plz help!
you should tell her when you feel comfortable talking about it with her, its not really that bad but dont feel like you have to force yourself to do it. hope i helped xox sara
Me and my mom made a dealy bribe about the PSAT; I read a big book on it and take a practice test, and I could get somethin special. She had been really adamant about not getting a second hole before (I'm 13), and this is the first time shes actually said that I could (I've done a bunch of bribes before that she held out on.) But also, she said, instead that I could get a new, fancy schmancy cell phone instead of a second hole, maybe even she would split the price on a laptop! (But that would be all my $$.) What should I do? lol
-Bribe schmibe
get whatever you think you need the most. if you already have a cell phone that works fine get the laptop- you will probably have to end up getting one sooner or later anyways. but if you already have a nice computer than get the cell phone. but if you still cant choose, i would go with the laptop. who needs a fancy cell phone-- as long as you can call, receive calls, and get messages, the one you already have should be okay. hope i helped. please rate. xox sara
My friend and I went to the movies at the mall and after it was over, we saw my crush and his friend there too. I know that he saw me, because he knows who I am because he goes to my church and all that stuff. Well, after we went to the bathroom, he was still there. I know that he looked at us a few times. What would that mean? And, my friend and I were smiling and whispering to eachother and looking back at him. She doesn't like him though. Anyways, what would that have said to him, us smiling and looking at him. Would it have told him anything? And why was he looking at us (me)? Thanks and I rate. Oh, he's a year older and we're in jr. high.
he might have just recognized you, and noticed that you were looking at him. you should try starting a conversation with him next time you see him. get your friend to ask him, or his friend if he likes you.
ok pacsun makes a brand named kirra do u think its cheap 2 buy kirra since it is a generic brand
nothing in that store is cheap
I'm overweight... I participate in a lot of sports and i think i get enough excercise... i could be doing more... but my big problem is sweets... its like an addiction... i just cant seem to stop eating them!!!!!! does anyone have any ideas on how to help me eat more healthy?
when you get hungry just force yourself to eat something else healthier than sweets.. youll feel good about yourself if you know that youre eating right and getting enough excercise.
i have a question. if you wear skater clothes but you dont skateboard or you used to but not anymore are you considered a poser?
the only people that will call you a poser are the skaters themselves because they think skater clothes are only for them. theres nothing wrong with wearing it if thats what you like and it fits your personality.xoxsara
Ok, well, I weigh 120 lbs. and I'm only 13, female. Well, I want to start all new this year, so how do I lose weight fast! I want to lose 3 pounds a day! please help me. thnx for the tips
xoxox luv always Chelsey
thats pretty hard to loose 3 pounds a day.. 120 isnt really that bad for 13 yrs old, it really depends on how tall you are. the main thing to loosing weight is burning more calories than you eat, so watch what you eat and excercise everyday. if you want to know specific excercises and foods you should eat, just ask me and id be glad to give you some ideas of things you can do. xoxsara
So my mom and my dad fight constantly and they are kind of alcholics...I always find myself crying myself to sleep and wishing that i had different parents...But neway..one night my dad locked me and my mom out of the house and it was so bad that my mom had to call the police on him....I have never done nething to my dad to make him treat me this way....This may sound horribe but im actually terrified of him...What should i do...please i need advice really bad bcuz this is something that has been bothering me for awhile and i never really had the guts to talk to ppl about it......HELP!
go to a counselor to get help.. usually the school ones arent the best but if thats all youve got you really need to talk to them-- you need to get away from your dad asap!
Okay, So i wanna get a flat tummy for summer, I know that lot of people ask this question as in "whats the best way to get a flat tummy" I know crunches are good and the sweet 16 thing, but, could you guys give me an estimate as to how long it will take, how many i have to do a night and how long it will take till i get a flat tummy, my stomach isnt fat, its just got a lil extra chub, OH and how do you get rid of love handles?!?!
okay you have plenty of time. every day of the week try a different abs excercise.. like on mondays work on upper abs. tuesday lower. ect... get a video to show you different excercises and to get rid of love handles.. lay on your side with your knees bent under you .. like to where your feet can touch your butt and do side crunches.. it takes a lot of these to feel it but it works. hope i helped
ok so i have this friend, brittany, and we just became friends like over the summer. we were really really good friends and we did a lot stuff together until one month ago. she started blowin me off at skool and not invitin me to her house but other ppl. so i got mad and she did too so we were mad for a while until i decided that our friendship is too good for us to be mad at each other. so i apologized. and i told her that i was only mad cuz i felt left out and stuff like that. well when i told her that she got mad at me!! but then a week later i just said srry and nothin else. so now she doesnt talk to me as much and she still invites friends over but not me. oo yea and i cant just not b friends with her cuz she is on my soccer team and her dads tha coach(i no im screwed) so please help me fix this!!!! 13/f
just find other friends to hang out with, and know that shes not a real friend that includes you in things.
My computer for some odd reason just started to go very slow, and akes awhile for everything to load on it. We just took it to a 'computer doctor' in may, and its doing the same things over again. We have more popups and the internet doesnt come up right away now. So, Instead of paying another 70$ to get it fixed again, what exactly do I have to do to stop all of this? Even as I type this now, the popups keep coming and interupting me. I just cant stand this anymore, can someone just please tell me wht to do!? Thank you very much.
_janine_*
first go out and buy a virus protection.. like at office depot or something. and then get a pop up blocker, and delete any programs on your computer that you dont use. it will speed stuff up a lot. hope this helps.
ok well see the thing is i dont have a boyfriend and all of my friends do and all of my guy friends have girlfriends so i feel so extremely left out its like this ok so they have their couples nights and everything so they go out to the movies or hang out at someones house and everything and they always neglect to invite me because yeah im the only person that is single. what should i do?
theres someone out there for you, so just try and be patient. i know it sounds hard, and in the meantime.. you try planning something for everyone that way you dont get neglected, hope i helped.
I have been weight lifting for a couple of years now and ppl are scared of me cuz they think i am too big what should i do?
dont worry about what people think of you, real friends will see you for who you really are
there is this guy who likes me ALOT, and i can tell he does whenever we're together, but then whenever we get around other people (only gurls) he kind starts flirting with them too. he doesnt flirt with them as much as he does with me at all, but still its the fact that he does flirt that makes me not like him as much.. is he just tryin to use me? or is he tryin to be nice to other people and just doesnt realize he's flirting?
a lot of guys are nice and talk to girls a lot, it makes girls think that he likes her but really its just his personality. if he doesnt act the same way around other girls when they are alone then he probably does like you.. so just be nice to him and he will stop liking you that much if yall are better friends.
ok i have these white dots on my nails. there in any random spot, anywhere on my nail. does anyone else have these or know what they are?? thanks
yes i have them, they are from having thin nails and they get damaged easily. hope this is what you are talking about.. its what i have anyway and my manicurist told me thats what they are from. they can be easily covered up with nail polish and they will eventually go away.