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what's he doing?


Question Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 3:58 am

there is this guy who likes me ALOT, and i can tell he does whenever we're together, but then whenever we get around other people (only gurls) he kind starts flirting with them too. he doesnt flirt with them as much as he does with me at all, but still its the fact that he does flirt that makes me not like him as much.. is he just tryin to use me? or is he tryin to be nice to other people and just doesnt realize he's flirting?

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BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS answered Thursday December 30 2004, 12:54 am:
Yea i think he dosent relise hes doing that, maybe you should ask him like "hey why are you flirting with everyone " or i dont know tht sounded kindas bad.. haha but bring it up and i bet if u did the same thing with other guys hed get madd also.. so just maybe try and talk to him about it and im sure things will work out!

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vickiooos answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 1:46 pm:
maybe he's just naturally a flirtatious guy. i'm kinda like that.. i have alot of guy friends and we're all pretty close and i like to give out hugs lol.. but anyways.... if you like him then try going out with him and see if he's still as flirty.. or if you are brave enough or curious enough you can just talk to him about it.

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bball470gh answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 12:47 pm:
a lot of guys are nice and talk to girls a lot, it makes girls think that he likes her but really its just his personality. if he doesnt act the same way around other girls when they are alone then he probably does like you.. so just be nice to him and he will stop liking you that much if yall are better friends.

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br0ken_x_smile answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 12:43 pm:
he probably is trying too be nice , and doesnt realize what hes doing ! if it bothers you alot let him no that he flirts alot lol
hope i helped
-;- jessie xo

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NEVERLETG00 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 12:30 pm:
well i just think that is the kind of guy that he is, he always flirts to be liked by others, it happens, dont worry to much about it. he def doesn't realize that what hes doing you think is flirting, x0

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americangirl101 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 12:24 pm:
I think you need to ask him if he likes you. Or get one of his friends to ask. And maybe he doesnt know when hes flirting. Talking to him is the best answer and maybe you should flirt back to him so he can get a signal that you sorta like him to. hope it helped. <3 American Girl

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Spark120 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 11:58 am:
i think he doesnt know hes flirting!

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remaloo answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 11:35 am:
He's definitely flirting with others and such, so I think he's just "leading you on" if that makes any sense. I'm not too sure if he likes you as much as you say if he flirts with others and you, 'cause they might even be thinking the same thing! Just ask him straight up if he does or not, that's always a good way to know.

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amelia12290 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 11:19 am:
see the thing with guys is that when they are single they go ahead and flirt with girls a lot and then there is the fact that he might not realize that hes doing it trust me i flirt with guys a lot and dont really realize it just talk to him about it make sure that he likes you a lot and if you like him then ask him out and then he'll have to stop flirting.

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xSammieXlubsXux answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 10:50 am:
hmmmm...well its ok to flirt around a little bit but its only because of the fact that he's not dating anyone. how exactly do you think he's flirting? maybe he is trying to be nice to other girls....he could just be joking around. LOL!! Just dont stress yourself for it cuz if he flirts with you MORE than i think that he likes you way better. dont worry about those other girls, he likes you. :)

~Sammie~

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zapreth answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 9:54 am:
Don't worry about casual flirting. It doesn't mean anything accept that he likes people, girls. This is a healthy and good thing. Be aware that he shows you the most attention and that you are the person he wants to spend time with. Some people just flirt. It's natural and fun and makes a person enjoyable to be around. Don't let your insecurities push him from you. If a person of any gender enjoys flirting it is not possible to change that. I married a flirt. He'd been a flirt all his life and I loved him for it. It was as much a part of him as breathing. There are more important factors to be suspicious of than flirting when choosing a boyfriend. Luck and Love!

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sohojules26 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 9:16 am:
He's probably just being nice, and how can you really tell he's flirting? Just because he makes conversation with another girl, does't qualify as flirting. But if he really acts like he likes these other girls, then you should talk to him if it bothers you. But, it shouldnt bother you at all if you don't like him. So think about it.-Julia

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ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 9:13 am:
Well,there are a couple of possibilities here. He could just be the type who is a flirt,plain and simple,whether he means to or not.He may not realize that he's coming across as flirty with all those girls.Another possibility is that he is trying to make you slightly jealous,or get you to notice him and to see that he can get other girls,but you're the one he wants.In my opinion,the best bet is to just flat out ask him where you stand with him.Is he into you or not? And if he is into you,is it only you he's into right now,or are there others?It might not be the easiest thing in the world to do but believe me it's the best thing to do in the long run,because being open and honest and direct is the best way to go!Hope this helps!Keep me posted on what happens! :)

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AdviceMistress answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 8:49 am:
guys love to flirt and sometimes they don't even know their doing it! a lot of my guy friends are big flirts and you can tell because whenever there are girls in the room they flirt so much! it my just be his wa of being nice or he may like you! ask him! happy holidays!

*BeSs*

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aBsTrAcTwOrLd3 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 8:47 am:
He's most likely just flirting and doesn't realize it. That happens with many people I know including myself. But if you find out he is try to use you DUMP HIM LIKE A BAD HABBIT!!!!! I hope I helped!

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Kissy_Fit_XOXO answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 4:49 am:
He's a guy. He has a penis. Chances are... his hormones are raging. So, yeah he would have a tendency of flirting with a whole bunch of people. If you really like him, then the best thing to do would be to leave him alone. Situations like that could really end up hurting you.

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 4:21 am:
Sometimes people dont relize they are flirting. I get told im a flirt.. but i never notice it. It just might be his way of being nice-trix (plz rate)

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