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What should I do?
I'm 13/f in the 8th grade
There's this guy at my school, he's smart, funny, good looking, and mature. His friend told my friend that he liked me and I'm pretty sure he does since he treats me special and flirts with me a lot. Now I'm not really sure if I want to go out with him (I like guys with a more goth character), or I should just wait until highschool since maybe we're going to different ones. Well I believe he wont ask me out because he thinks I like this other kid (who I dont like anymore). What should I do?
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well give him a chance, if he really likes you and flirts with you he does like you most likely, and you should flirt back with him and give him a chance and say yes when he does ask u out. you never know since hes a good kid maybe things will work out. good luck x0
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flirt back! you know what they say opposites atract!
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I think that you should go out with him IF he asks you. Now I am not saying this as an offense towards you believe me I am not I have a few goth friends but do you know what they stand for? They are devilish people. And the only reason I am friends with my goth friends are because they used to not be goth BUT some goths aren't necesarily devilish so maybe the people you like aren't. But I do think that you should give this guy a chance.
XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21
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you shouldnt go out with that guy that likes if you dont feel the same way bout him. if you can wait till highschool thats great.
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what you should do is talk to the guy and ask him if he likes anyone and if he says yes be all buddy buddy and ask him who and all this stuff and then just kinda slip in there well i mean i dont really like anyone right now unless he tells you that he likes you in which case you tell him that you him but remember one thing you cant always trust things that you hear unless you hear it straight from that person
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Well, if your unsure you might want to wait till high school, but see if I think you should talk to him and get to know him better, and maybe after that you will like him even if he isn't goth. Also, talk to him, and tell him that you don't like that other guy anymore, he might just ask you out! Hope I helped you!
<3 xoxo *Becky* xoxo <3
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If your unsure to like him or not then i think that you should wait until highschool. BUT if you change your mind then i think that you should give it a try. If he really likes you then he would ask you out...maybe, the reason he's not asking you out is becuz he's just unsure about that one guy that he's claiming you like, of coarse. and you kno what that means...he's jealous, he does like you i just think that he wants you to talk to him about it and then he can be sure if he wants to ask you out or not. see what i mean.
hope i helped
~sammie~
p.s. HIGHSCHOOL so much drauma...LOL :)
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Well,if you really truly like this guy,his "style" or "look" isn't a big deal. And it does sound to me like you really like this guy.Plus,if his friend is coming up to you and telling you he likes you,it's a pretty safe bet he's pretty into you!As far as going to different schools in the future,you never know what may happen,and plus with you guys living near each other you could make it work.Just because you might not attend the same school,doesn't mean you can't be a couple.I saw that all the time when I was in school.I say go for it and ask him out before another girl scoops him up!Let him know that you are into a guy,but it's certainly not the other kid he thinks you like! ;) I hope this helps some!Lemme know how it goes!!
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Hey sweetie,
If you like him, give him a chance. I like surfer guys, yet I still go out with other "types" it should be all about personality. You should flirt, to only him, back to show him that you only have eyes for him. You could wait til high school, It might be more easier to go out with someone that (probably) goes to a different school. That way, if you guys do break-up you won't see eachother walking in the halls, etc. Plus when you see each other you will enjoy it more than seeing him more often. You guys I think should start going out this summer.
Good Luck with snagging your guy :)
xo0x adriana
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well if you liike this guy give him a try i don't see why you can't other then high school! yes it's hard being an 8th grader and going off and into high school and maintaining a boyfriend but if you love him you'll do it! or wait to get a bf in high school! if you feel he won't ask oyu out bbecuz he thinks oyu like another guy let him know how you feel! FLIRT like CrAzY! show him how interested you are, that is if you you are! happy holidays!
*BeSs*
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Ok, I don't usually answer this type of question anymore but I'm bored so yeah. I know this is going to be hard but you're going to have to give it to him straight. Call him up/talk to him face to face/online and be totally honest with him. Tell him that you think you like him and you want to know if he feels the same. If he does, then think long and hard about whether it's worth the effort. If he knocks you back, then that's fine. You're 13 years old, it's very unlikely you're going to end up marrying this guy. I do know what it's like to be a 13 year old girl, on account that I am one. I know how you feel. So go after the guy, then move on and forget him, because the beauty of being a teenager, you can forget people that easily.
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