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MI go to Texas like, every summer. And two years ago my older cousin met a boy (let's call him ****). He hung out with us, and I didn't think much about him. This year they became A LOT closer. They love each other. And now that I think about it, **** is really hot and funny and nice. I LIKE him. And my cousin has him, what do I do?? (link)
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whatever you do DO NOT STEAL HIM FROM YOUR COUSIN that will create enemies. just keep a close friendship with **** and ya gotta remember, you LIKE him and **** and ur cousin LOVE eachother- hope this helped *ara*
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Alright, this might take a minute, I have this really good friend Jake. He tells me he's "in love with me", and is planning on asking me out this friday. We have went out once before for a short time, and broke up because I had alot going on and didnt really want to deal with a boyfriend. He got really upset and hurt himself. He knows that I'm not so sure if i want to go out with him or not, but still, his hopes are high. I do like him sometimes, but it's weird and when i'm in certain moods i just dont like him like that at all.
Then, I really really like this other friend (Nick) of mine. He is alot older than me, and at our age difference right now nothing would happen. But I still do like him and he's one of my good friends. I have no idea if he likes me like that, but sometimes he does give me weird signals.
Anyway, I am not sure if I want to go out with Jake or not. I am in a few classes where there is Nick and Jake and (they are friends, but nobody knows I like Nick except my best friend.) I know that it would be weird, Nick wouldnt say anything but I know he would be kind of disappointed in me. Either way, if i say yes or no, i know that I am going to be unhappy with my answer. if i say yes i'll wish i said no and if i say no i'll wish i said yes. I don't really know what Im getting at, but this is my problem and i need to know soon.
Thanks for the help. (link)
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lay out the pros and cons for saying yes or no. age does not matter right now. i know hearts get broken and i would turn jake down but softly. go for nick and see how things go. hope this kinda helped *ara*
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there is this kid i like but he is in rehab and he kinda perverted but he said that terapy and rehab are going to help change him and i reallyt like him and i dont know what to do. i just broke up with my boyfriend but not for this guy and now i lied to him telling him i didnt want to hurt my friend b/c she liked him and he founf out and he knows i might go out with the other kid and now he is mad and i just dont want to hurt them but i really like the kid in rehab so what should i do?? signed,
rehab boys? (link)
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hhmm very confuzzled. i wouldnt believe a guy in rehab. when he gets out of rehab see how much he changes and if you approve of it or not. lying to your boyfriend was an iffy move but i think you should have told him that you like the guy in rehab and that hes gunna have to deal with that. *ara*
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hi i asked...
im always sad inside , but no body knows cosz i dont show it... how can i get the emptiness in my heart to go away... signed , confused and lonely.
well i no whats bothering me inside.. its that my X boyfriend has gone out with at least 4 of my best friends.. and now hes going out with my closest one .. lets call her shelly - i think hes just using shelly but i really really still like him and i think im crazy for dumping him =\ i dont no how to tell him this .. can you PLEASE give me as much advice as possible..
signed , lonely - again . (link)
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ouch, you must really like this guy. well i think you should atleast try to tell him how you feel and that your still crazy about him. i cant see why you would wanna pimp like that guy but oh well if hes worth it to you.
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my family and i have a major probleam.... we get into arguments a lot!!!! i think it happenes almost everyday!! and i get pissed by my family so does anybody know how to not have an argument and juss talk??? (link)
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whoa ya need to chill first then try to settle it by talking to your parents if your comfortable with that (which i dont think alot of people are) you can also try to avoid any triggers for an arguement too. for instance, i lock myself in my room and play loud music or just watch tv and play games alone so no one bothers me and theres no one to start a fight with.i think it would be best to atleast try to talk to ur parents but up to u*hope i helped*ara*
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well i got these little worts on my penis but they dont itch they juss look kinda odd, so i didnt get any cream. But the otha day my girl was lyke gonna suck on it but then she saw the warts n knda got scared n now our relationship is kinda on the rocks can u help me?? (link)
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this question was inapropriate to ask on the internet and you should ask a guys advice for that sort of problem *sorry i wasnt much help* if there are any appropriate problems i can help you with lemme know *ara*
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ok well see the thing is i dont have a boyfriend and all of my friends do and all of my guy friends have girlfriends so i feel so extremely left out its like this ok so they have their couples nights and everything so they go out to the movies or hang out at someones house and everything and they always neglect to invite me because yeah im the only person that is single. what should i do? (link)
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you should talk to them and say that just because i dont have a boyfriend doesnt mean that we cant hang out and its true. hope that helped
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i'm a total pimplehead and i have been for a long time.. like.. um.. since grade 5 i think.. i'm in grade8 now.. i've been using these cleanser things they're getting kinda better but i keep on breaking out.. any tips?? *omg i'm so embaressed asking this.. i need help!!* (link)
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try that pro-active stuff or what i do is just wash my face with water and soap every night and morning and put vitamin E lotion on after i wash it.*any other 8th grade problems u have im glad to help*
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I'm 13/f in the 8th grade
There's this guy at my school, he's smart, funny, good looking, and mature. His friend told my friend that he liked me and I'm pretty sure he does since he treats me special and flirts with me a lot. Now I'm not really sure if I want to go out with him (I like guys with a more goth character), or I should just wait until highschool since maybe we're going to different ones. Well I believe he wont ask me out because he thinks I like this other kid (who I dont like anymore). What should I do? (link)
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you shouldnt go out with that guy that likes if you dont feel the same way bout him. if you can wait till highschool thats great.
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ok i have these white dots on my nails. there in any random spot, anywhere on my nail. does anyone else have these or know what they are?? thanks (link)
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i think they mean that your low on calcium
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ok-----I have a stepsister named Danielle. She's 16. She has a boyfriend named DeShaun.---He's 14. (I'm 13.)I don't think they deserve each other because they are always on the phone fighting about something. Secretly, Danielle sucked her ex-boyfriend's dick behind DeShaun's back. He dosn't know. No one knows----but me. They are so dysfunctional and they distrust each other so much. To the point that it irratates anyone around them. It's confusing----some nights they could be on the phone making nasty sounds and the next they are screaming at each other. Danielle has had soooooooooo many boyfriends since she was like 11-----but shes had DeShaun for one and a half years. Now..... Danielle is sort of a slutty gold digger, (if you ask me), and DeShaun just happens to be rich. Well, alot richer than me and Danielle (i dont know your perspective of "rich")Even though I think Danielle is a slutty hoe-bag, (she took my 15 year old summer "boyfriend" Laron(i hung out with him every day in the summer----and she knew we liked each other!!!!) away from me for like a week and got his phone number, (that bitch!!!!)but i feel bad for DeShaun because Danielle constantly cheats on him------and DeShaun's not very smart so he has no idea. What should I do??? (link)
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danielle sounds like i really slutty girl. and just to get back at her with that teenage revenge from what she did to you with that summer boyfriend, i would tell deshaun what shes done and make him want you or something like that. that will teach danielle.but i know two wrongs dont make a right but theres nuthin wrong with a little revenge >:o lol hope i helped and if you have nemore questions go to my advice column *ara*
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OK.. kind of a complicated situation.. I am currently dating this great guy.. hes 16.. and we just got through a temp. break up.. well.. today.. i found out my ex just moved back to his dads from tennesse.. he was the guy i lost my virginity to..hes now 18.. im 14.. i know im young.. but i love them both.. and i know they both like me.. the 16 year old is in love with me.. i found out the 18 year old was back today when i saw him walking.. i met up with him.. and gave him a hug and a kiss on the cheek.. well.. we ended up in a french kiss.. i told him me n my boyfriend were broken up..
i dont feel bad about the kiss.. it was great.. but i feel bad that i lied to the guy i kissed..
i have to choose between these two guys.. who do u think i should choose? (link)
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wow this is a tough one....if i were you..i would have to choose the sixteen yrold guy b/c you need to see how it goes and you need to give it a chance. i know the kiss must have been great but lay off that guy for a while if ya can and go with the flow. if ya cant ignore that eighteen yrold guy then i guess hes the one. i hope this helped
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ok, on dec 22 this guy whom i liked gave me a ring. after skool that day, we started going out. we go places after skool and talk on the phone all the time and we're going to the mall tomorrow (tuesday)...but i still feel kinda distant from him...like on the phone there's long silences.how can i make it so that i don't feel like that without telling him i feel like that?*kinda confuszing but plz help!* (link)
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your right.. this is confusing lol what i would do is to either try tellin him how you feel or just kind of invite him to bring up the subject of the conversation. i normall y ask him what he thinks about so n so, or ask him questions, or play games. see if that works
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I am a 16/m and I have a girlfriend who is 21 and we have been going out for 5 months. I just recently lost my virginity to her. After that, we have been having sex, but there is one problem. I don't get aroused enough. I feel horrible about this. I want to have sex with her so bad when I am not with her but then when I am there and we are foreplaying or she is on top of me I do not get fully aroused. What should I do so I can be fully aroused because I really want to enjoy it? (link)
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sex isnt everything. try some other things to get you *in the mood*
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well i need advice on where to have my new years party. i dont want to have it at my house becuase my parents would never let me and my firend wont have it at her house and we are trying to beat this other party that people are going to so i need advice and help on where we should have it at. i will rate for effort, (link)
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what i did when i had that problem is that i found a place that had rooms you could rent for a day and just party all you want so thats something you could look for.
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ok ya*ll i love to sing and i hate singing in front of people and when itell people this they laugh and say get over it and i think i am a good singer but no1 will belive me if i cant sing out loud help me and please dont say gEt OvA It signed *RaIsE Ur VoIcE* (link)
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i have the same problem. what im tryin ta do is gain confidence and i try singing to my closest friend and see what they think. if they tell you its the best voice they eva heard then dont be afraid to sing to anyone else. and why do you care what ppl think?
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im 14/f and i really want my belly button peirced! i finally got my mom to say yes its just my dad. he says he doesnt want me to get infected and thinks im too young but i told him id clean it alot and everything but he still doesnt know. how do i get him to say yess?? pleasee helpp (link)
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i want the same thing!lol what i did is that i told my dad i would get a doctor to peirce it(its true) and he can give me all these things to keep it from getting infected and that i can always take it out if i dont like it.
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I just have a quick question, shouldn't take long.
See, I'm wanting to lose some weight in the tummy area, but... I've heard that if you work out a lot, your breast size drops. I'm a C cup, and I like it that way. Any tips on things I can do that will drop weight in the stomache and nowhere else?
Thanks! (link)
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i thought the same thing before. dont worry hun, working out doesnt drop your breast size. when i wanna lose weight in the tummy area, i do crunches, planks, and v-ups.
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I know someone who is really big on theater just as I am, but I don't think she likes me very much. I have tried talking to her, but she doesn't listen. What should I do? (link)
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hunny, if she wont even listen to ya, move on. i cant believe anyone would be so rude. but who knows, try something more clever to get her attention if you want it that bad.
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im 14 going on 15/f. ive never had a b/f but ive had this one crush for 2 yrs. now! Were good friends now and lately all of my friends have had b/f. i kinda feel left out, but being single is fun 2! i kno this sounds wrong...to me it does 2, but lately all ive wanted 2 do is grab my crush and just kiss him! i think i have a problem...what should i do! please help!~ (link)
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i know that no one likes to come out to their crush about how they feel but it might help. if you and this guy are close friends he will understand and be able to handle and respect your feelings. just a warning(if you tell him how you feel) if he doesnt feel the same you might get hurt. just because you friends had or have boyfriends, doesnt mean you should. you are ready when you are ready. but answer this. do you really like him for who he is? or you just wanna make out with him and fool around?
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