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hi i asked...
im always sad inside , but no body knows cosz i dont show it... how can i get the emptiness in my heart to go away... signed , confused and lonely.
well i no whats bothering me inside.. its that my X boyfriend has gone out with at least 4 of my best friends.. and now hes going out with my closest one .. lets call her shelly - i think hes just using shelly but i really really still like him and i think im crazy for dumping him =\ i dont no how to tell him this .. can you PLEASE give me as much advice as possible..
signed , lonely - again .
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You should ask your ex-bf if he really loves shelly, even though he will probably say yes. You should also talk to his friends before him though, and shelly of course. Ask as many people as possible, and if that doesn't work, try to get more evidence to why you think this, and check back with me to tell me whats happening. =)Julia
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Well, if he's going out with your BFF, then you really can't o much. You can talk to your friend about it. Or go up to your ex and maybe be friends. Did you know that the best relationships evolve from friendship??? Don't let it bother you, because someday you'll find somebody just right for you. Obiously, he wasn't. Just think positive and contiue hanging out with your friends.
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Just w8 till he brakes up wid ur friend dnt go behind her bak cos she a close friend. thenask him out.
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All you can really do is talk to your ex-boyfriend and your friend and see what they can do to help you. If your friend really cares about you, she will probably be more helpful. If your ex still cares about you, then when you tell him that you're hurt, he might do something, but exes dont usually don't do anything about these kinda things. You could tell him that you still like him and that you feel bad for breaking up with him, that may get something off your chest at least. I'm really sorry if this doesn't help, I'm trying the best I can. But I really do hope things work out for you, good luck and keep me posted sweetie. I'm always here. -Angel
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Tell all of your friends how you feel -- ESPECIALLY SHELLY. maybe if you tell her, she will dump him. but you have to get it in your mind that you have to get over him and move on, no matter how great he is, there are a ton of oppurtunities to go out and find someone new. It sounds hard but get yourself interested in someone else. If you cant opt for a celebrity crush, it totally takes your mind off an old x boyfriend. when you're feelin' down, think whats done is done and take out that picture of Orlando Bloom. good luck with your problem!
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Well first tell some of your friends how you feel inside. I used to hold everything inside until one day i finally broke down in tears and I cried into my friend's shoulder for an hour.
And as for your ex, I think that he is either just trying to make you jealous because he still likes you or that he is a just a total scumbag trying to make you feel bad
*Kate*
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Maybe he misses you.. after all you are the one that dumped him maybe he misses you.. you should tell him i mean dont do it when shelly is going out with him because that could only make her mad at you but wait until they are broken up~Trix (**plz rate**)
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ouch, you must really like this guy. well i think you should atleast try to tell him how you feel and that your still crazy about him. i cant see why you would wanna pimp like that guy but oh well if hes worth it to you.
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You need to talk to (I know this sounds wierd...but....) a counselor. You can get a free counselor at your church or any church. They are the best people you can get advice from. Good Luck! ~*AmAnDa*~
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talk to him and tell him what u said and that you think you were crazy fro dumping him and maybe you two will go back out again because he still has feelings fro you aslo
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Well, sweetheart, there's a million boys out there! :) But since you like this dude so much, wait til him and your best friend break up, then just say it, or you could write him a note. Tell him you're sorry for dumping him and you don't know what you were thinking, and just tell him exactly how you feel.>>>Hope I helped<<<
*Emmy Boo*
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Dear Lonely :),
You need to tell him exactly how feel. Tell him exactly what you told me. You should e-mail him and tell him exactly what you are telling me. I can't really help you anymore, but good luck! ;)
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana
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well ya.. i agree with the other peoples answers.. maybe hes using shelly to make you feel the way you are feeling now.. try talking to him about it... i'm sorry if this will lead to heartbreak.. but then again what would i no rite?
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my thoughts about it are, maybe hes going out with your best friends to try to make you jealous and try to hurt you, some guys do that whenever they are broken up with someone, they try going for their ex's best friends to try to make them jealous, but what i'm wondering is, why are your best friends going out with him after yall broke up?...did they ask you first to see if it was ok?...well anyways back on the subject, try calling him and talking to him on the phone about whats been going on and tell him that you made a mistake in dumping him and that you wish you had him back and if you think he's useing "Shelly" then ask him about it, ask him if hes just trying to hurt you or trying to make you jealous, because its hurting you him dateing the people who are your best friends which isnt right...i hope this advice helps you, talk to him, see whats going on and if you want him back then go get em girl! Dont stop untill hes yours again!.*feedback is greatly appreciated*~Nikki
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U said that he's using 'shelly'? for what? If he's trying to get you back then U should feel happy that he's cming crawling back 2 U. i got that info from my friend who went thru the same situation.
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just tell him how u feel.... i still have feelings for my x..... why do u thin kthat he is using shelly? he mite be.. but i think u should get a friend to tell him.. if u need more advice.. just tell me!!please rate!!
x0x0 abbey x0x0
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thats how i used to be but not for the same reasons. you should tell the rest of your friends what he's like and make a pact for none of you to go out with him. tlel them all that you really still like him *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated*
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Hey hun.. I know you're feeling really hurt right now and that you still have feelings for your ex boyrfriend. The thing is, this kid can't even treat your friends right - think about how he could treat you? It seems hard, but I think the best thing is to take yourself out of the situation. Spend as little time away from him as possible - seeing as he's connected with friends of yours, maybe you should try to have some 'alone time'. You need to sort things out in your own head, and think about what you really want from a boyfriend. Do you want someone trustworthy? Someone who cares about you? Or someone who would use your best friend?
It seems your friends should have noticed that you probably dumped him for a reason. I don't think it was a mistake, by the way he seems to treat people. (maybe he seems to be a nice guy, but gets selfish and ends up two-faced.)
As for your friend, you might want to let her know that you suspect he's using her - but she may not believe you. Don't let yourself get sucked in again by someone who obviously doesn't really care about you. Give yourself some time and find out who you are first, and you'll find someone who really cares about your own personality.
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