Question Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 12:52 pm
ok.. i dunno what to do. me and my bf well he used to live here, and he moved to florida. and we talk all the time, every free minute he has, we are talking. and, he has been talkin to me bout movin to florida when i graduate this summer. and i dunno what to do. i keep thinkin bout it. but all that comes out of it is negative things. like.. what if he dont wanna b with me no more. b/c i dont have a car or anything and he said he would put me on his insurance, and help me find a job and stuff.. but then it just worries me that he will like a girl that looks better than me. i dunno what to do.. there is alot more but i dont feel like sayin it all
lilangl1113 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 8:59 pm: It sounds like your really insecure about the whole thing. Try telling him about your insecurities. Or better yet, talk to a family member about it. It might make this decision a little bit easier for you. ~*AmAnDa*~ [ lilangl1113's advice column | Ask lilangl1113 A Question ]
iLjaG answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 1:50 pm: Trust is the foundation of a relationship, if you both don't have it, there is no relationship. Unless you have previous suspicions of his infidelity, you shouldn't think he would leave you for the next girl that comes along. [ iLjaG's advice column | Ask iLjaG A Question ]
Sherry answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 1:41 pm: Your right. What if you guys break up? You'll be kicked out of his apartment or where-ever..and even if you have a job you'll probably end up having problems. I think you should just tell him that you;ll visit him, but living in Florida with him isint a good idea. Of course its all up to you..and do what you want and all. But think about what your getting into and think about the problems that could happen and all. Good luck! [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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