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Age: 13
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Answers: 13
Last Update: July 29, 2005
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I went away with my friend a couple of weeks ago, and she was being a jerk, and now I don't really wanna be her friend anymore, what do I do? (link)
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i personally think you should talk to your friend about how you feel towards her jerkieness. i mean, how long have you been friends with her? you said it happened a couple of weeks ago. if you started off being her friend, you must have liked something about her right? i don't think you should end a friendship because she acted jerkish a couple of weeks ago. just explain to her and according to her reaction, decide if you want to be her friend anymore or not. i know you already decided to not be her friend anymore, but give her one more chance. if she continues to be jerkie then, don't be her friend anymore
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me and my family are fighting alot lately.. I have a really bad attitude! and I need help! please give me advice! FAST! I'll try anything! (link)
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all i can say is that you need to control yourself and whenever your attitude gets out of hand, i suggest you go punch on a pillow or something and release your anger or maybe go outside and take a walk and calm yourself
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I was just worried because I try and try to do my work but I still fail, and now I might fail the hole year, what should I do? Can anyone help me? (link)
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i think you could maybe get a tutor from a smart kid at school or tell your teachers to help you.
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sorry if this is long, but there is this guy that i like and we used to go out. he now has a girlfriend but i dont care, i still like him. This one girl likes him, so someone asked if he would ever go out with her and he said no. but then this girl asked if he would ever go back out with me and he smiled nad said "umm .. i gotta get to class" so the next day the girl asked again and so he was like "umm .. i gotta girlfriend" so he didnt say yes or no. Do you htink i still have a chance? (link)
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well if hes been avoiding your friend when she asks him if you and him still have a chance then i think ya, i think you should keep on doing what your doing now and maybe try to remember things that you did to impress him before you and him got together and do that and maybe you and him will go out again, hope i helped
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I'm 15 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. Pathetic, I know. The main problem people keep telling me is that when i like a guy i tend to be shy around him. I like this one guy right now and he knows i like him thanks to one of my big mouth friends. We've talked only maybe twice before he found out i liked him but thats the only time we've ever talked. When i see him in the halls he looks at me...what does that mean? How can i get him to like me without coming on to him as a stalker? (link)
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first of all, i think you and him should develop a friendsihp first. you talk to him online rite? that is a great way to have conversations and not feel awkward and flirt with him alot so start with that. and once u've developed a friendship maybe he developed a crush on you too since he knows that you like him and he mite ask you out. hope i helped
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see i have this friend that is like bulimic & i tell her to stop but she never listens to me. i tell her that she is skinney but she doesn`t believe me. we have known eachother since we were small. she also talks painkillers & i kno its dangerous but she told me not to tell anyone...but i think she might die..she is already in rehab & is very sneaky.. (link)
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like the other people said, you should tell somebody that can help your friend stop. i had a friend who was bulimic and by telling someone, you can make your friend realize that sticking things down her throat is bad for your health and you wouldn't want to end up in a hospital or rehab or w/e just because you couldn't control yourself. make her realize how much you care about her and how much it'll mean to her if she stops. hope i helped
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okay there is this guy i like but he is in 11th grade and im in 9th and he sits at my lunch table n all of a sudden like a few months ago he just stated to sit next to me and stuff and flirt kinda and ive had ppl at my table come up 2 me and say i think you 2 should go out. But hes also a big partier if u kno what i mean n ive heard stories about him that arnt too good like hes always partying n stuff like that. And i know that he used to smoke but he swears he hasnt for like 6 months and says that he is quitting so thats good i guess... right? but he rly is a nice kid dont get me wrong there and plus hes madd funny. and i had a friend ask him who he liked and he said no1 at our lunch table right now but possibly in the future. And im rly confused... should i like this kid?
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if you really think he is the one, you should go for it. regardless if he smokes or partys or that hes 2 years older than you. just don't let it turn into an obsession. i think you should follow whatever your heart tells you.
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sorry it's long...
okay. i'm depressed. yesterday was the worst day ever. it was two of my sisters birthdays. my youngest sister passed away before she saw her first birthday. my older sister... well she was like drinking all the time and sneaking out of the house al the time and sleeping around. well she moved down to my dads and upset the whole family. yesterday just reminded me of all the bad things that happened and i was really cranky. i yelled at my b/f and best friend and now i feel really guilty. how can i make it up to them when i'm so upset? (link)
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awww.. thats so sad.. if your bf and best friend know about your sisters they'll probably understand. i'm sorry about your sisters and all and i hope it all works out.. i didn't help much buh wut wud i no... i'm sry
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I am 14 (soon to be 15 in march)
well I have a stupid crush. Its not that the guy is stupid its just me having a crush. Feeling this way is of no use to me. I mean I was perfectly fine walking by a hot guy and thinking now he is "FINE" but when I get around my crush I get this weird tingling thing in my stomach and feeling kinda warm in my face. The weirdest thing is when ever I am around him I feel pretty. Stupid I know. I just want to be normal again. Its not like I act silly with Alex its just that I don't want to have any crushes. Crushes are stupid in my case...they never work out.
The problem is I know how to give myself advice and its some pretty good stuff its just that my crush's acts of kindness toward me makes the feeling in the pit my stomach increase somehow...I just want to be normal and to have a clear mind. (link)
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maybe his kindness is to show you that he has the same feelings for you.. maybe its really more than a crush if you feel the way you do.. dunput so much pressure on yourself and have fun with the friendship that you already have with him.. maybe its better being his friend than his gf.. that way you won't get hurt.. or maybe you can tell him that you have a crush on him... its really no big deal if hes your friend... if he makes fun of you, then why would you want to be friends with sum1 like that? iunno if this'll help cuz i really dunno much about anything
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Yesterday and today I was with my friend, and when I'm with my friend I'm really hyper n stuff. When she left my boyfriend called and said that he doesn't like when I act the way I do, and he'd rather me act the way I do around my friends n stuff. I do act allot differently. I try not to I'm just really shy when I'm just with my boyfriend. What should I do? (link)
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you shouldn't be shy around your bf. i think you should act the way you normally do with your friends and stuff. maybe he likes you more when your hyper and stuff.. so just act hyper when you're around him don't be shy! ... this probably doesn't help you but what would i no rite?
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ok ya*ll i love to sing and i hate singing in front of people and when itell people this they laugh and say get over it and i think i am a good singer but no1 will belive me if i cant sing out loud help me and please dont say gEt OvA It signed *RaIsE Ur VoIcE* (link)
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um.. when you're singing, think like.. if you don't sing loud you're gonna die... hope that helps..probably won't.. what would i no....
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hi i asked...
im always sad inside , but no body knows cosz i dont show it... how can i get the emptiness in my heart to go away... signed , confused and lonely.
well i no whats bothering me inside.. its that my X boyfriend has gone out with at least 4 of my best friends.. and now hes going out with my closest one .. lets call her shelly - i think hes just using shelly but i really really still like him and i think im crazy for dumping him =\ i dont no how to tell him this .. can you PLEASE give me as much advice as possible..
signed , lonely - again . (link)
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well ya.. i agree with the other peoples answers.. maybe hes using shelly to make you feel the way you are feeling now.. try talking to him about it... i'm sorry if this will lead to heartbreak.. but then again what would i no rite?
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My boyfriend and I have been together for just under two years. We've had our problems and worked through them - we started dating when we were still in high school. (I'm about to turn 18, he's about to turn twenty.) We've always been friends and supported each other, knowing that high school relationships don't tend to last very long. Things have been good lately in the sense that we get along, we spend time with one another and care about eachother very much - but lately I've been bothered about where our relationship is going.
We do not and never have said the words "I Love You", and we both used to agree that too many people misuse those words, causing more problems. He has a bad past when it comes to "love" and relationships, but we've been together for two years. I don't expect him to love me necessarily, or to tell me he does when he isn't ready - but I sometimes doubt his feelings for me relationship -wise. We haven't been talking the same way we had been lately, and I tried talking to him about this and he just stayed silent, (his way of blocking out my questions.) The silence is getting to me. I've even tried asking him flat-out, "how do you feel about me?". He seems to think I shouldn't ask him, and won't tell me why he feels like he shouldn't answer. It's starting to make me feel like we've just hit the end, but we're so connected when it comes to being around eachother, we've been friends and more than friends for so long. In short, his actions are there most of the time, but the words are not. I sometimes feel as if after all this time, I've been with a stranger. We don't have 'fun' as much anymore, and he often seems completely enthralled with his thoughts and less enthusiastic about life in general when around me.
I really would like to be in a relationship where we can say "I love you" after being together for so long - or at least be able to be verbally affectionate. - But I don't want to force him or make him feel like he's being forced. I want him to be happy, too, but I sometimes feel I'm not getting the attention I deserve. Am I being over-insecure? Thanks for anyone willing to read this long thing, and help.
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...hard.. i think you might be a bit too over-insecure.. try thinking in his perspective... maybe he's not the kind of person who's really open to other ppl when talking about his feelings.. give him time.. he'll probably talk to you about his feelings for you sooner or later.. i hope i helped.. but then again wut do i no.. rite...??
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