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me and my family are fighting alot lately.. I have a really bad attitude! and I need help! please give me advice! FAST! I'll try anything!
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look i have the same problem. try to go to your room and cool off walk around take deep breaths. if they won't let you leave tell them that you need to cool off and that you will talk about it later calm and rationaly.
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ok when u feel like your going to blow up at your parents faces just walk to the bathroom and close the door quick. or go to your room. walk around and breathe, then if you have a pillow or something grab it and scream into it or just squeeze it this always works for me, and it will stop you from blowing up at your family and make sure you talk to them and tell them wat is on your mind. hope this helps.
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When you feel your going to shout stop! and take a deep breath and try working it out buy not shouting! Why dont you talk to your family about you lot fight tell them that your sorry about all the stuff in the past that you might have said that upset them. And get on with life!
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Okay, I know what its like. You get really defensive, and you feel like you have to hold your own. Well here's the things, the calmer you are, the better thigns will be. When a fight breaks out, try and calmly explain your side of the story, or how you feel. If you feel yourself starting to get an attitude...just say that you need time and you'll be back when you are calm enough to talk things over
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First you have to get over the bad attitude.Remember that your family members may be big pains in the ass at times but they have your best intrests at heart.
I don't know what causes your attitude so I don't know what to suggest for you to get over it.If it's an anger thing, go outside and scream or get a punching bag and take your rage out on it.:}
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Try seeing a couselor. Get your family involved. I think that their behaviors around you have influenced you, which is the reason you have a bad attitude. If you guys get family couseling then you guys can work out your problems instead of living in anger and fighting. You may not be all into this idea, but hey, you said you'll try anything. I really hope that this works out for you and I hope I helped!
P.S.: If you have any questions then send me a message in my inbow, and I'll be sure to answer them.
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I have the same problem...sometimes I even feel like I was adopted or something because my family picks on me so much. A bad attitude might be the problem... i know it is with me. The first step you should take is improving your attitude...you should probably come home from school and just go in your room and do your homework and mind your own business for a couple days. It'll probably be hard but your parents will probably notice your attempt to change. If you still wind up fighting you should try to tell your family how you're feeling in a calm matter without screaming. See if this helps.
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all i can say is that you need to control yourself and whenever your attitude gets out of hand, i suggest you go punch on a pillow or something and release your anger or maybe go outside and take a walk and calm yourself
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Try talking to them, or instead of fighting with them, be the bigger person and back off. You can get a lot more accomplished when you aren't mad and saying the first thing that comes to mind...trust me!
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