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Getting rid of crush
I am 14 (soon to be 15 in march)
well I have a stupid crush. Its not that the guy is stupid its just me having a crush. Feeling this way is of no use to me. I mean I was perfectly fine walking by a hot guy and thinking now he is "FINE" but when I get around my crush I get this weird tingling thing in my stomach and feeling kinda warm in my face. The weirdest thing is when ever I am around him I feel pretty. Stupid I know. I just want to be normal again. Its not like I act silly with Alex its just that I don't want to have any crushes. Crushes are stupid in my case...they never work out.
The problem is I know how to give myself advice and its some pretty good stuff its just that my crush's acts of kindness toward me makes the feeling in the pit my stomach increase somehow...I just want to be normal and to have a clear mind.
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He could have the same feelings as you and belive me I used to feel the same way about crushes I thought they were useless but the fact is they arn't it helps build up courage. Oh and I know what you are going through I have had 10 crushes and I'm in grade8. None of the crushes ever worked out because 9 of them I didn't have the courage to ask out and the tenth one I asked out and after a month he showed his true colors and turned out to be a total jerk.
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maybe his kindness is to show you that he has the same feelings for you.. maybe its really more than a crush if you feel the way you do.. dunput so much pressure on yourself and have fun with the friendship that you already have with him.. maybe its better being his friend than his gf.. that way you won't get hurt.. or maybe you can tell him that you have a crush on him... its really no big deal if hes your friend... if he makes fun of you, then why would you want to be friends with sum1 like that? iunno if this'll help cuz i really dunno much about anything
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If you like him then why wouldnt you want to have a crush on him? This guy could actually like you a lot to. Its alright to like someone and get hurt it just prepares you for the future when you meet that speacial guy. My grandma and grandpa met when they were 16 and are married! So you never know.....
~Brina~
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Everyone is going to have a crush and its not bad or anything so dont think that! Its find and normal and if your a girl its a good sign! Theres nothing thats going to solve the problem here, you jusdt have to get over him on your own! It might be easy or it might take a long time its just depends on how much you like him. You might want to get to know him if you dont, he might be a real cool guy.
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it doens't seem to me that you want to go out with him, am i right? just have your friend alex around when your around this boy, and soon youll be acting normal around him and you wont get butterflies in your stomach, everythings okay, its nice to have little crushes, thats the fun of it, you just like guys thats all. well just be with your friend when your around the guy. x0 Renee
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i dont know of any remedies to get over a crush. trust me there are some i wish i wouldnt of had on people. but they will come and go. you cant really help who you like. The only thing i can tell you is to try and find someone or something else as a distraction to get you mind off of Alex. Having a crush is normal, sweetie. everyone has them. i am sorry that i have nothing more to say but i hope this little bit helps. Good Luck.
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i would say its hormones lol i mean hey he attracted you and makes oyu have butterflies you'll get over it soon it will pass on don't worry just toughen it up and wait it out and try to liek stay awa yfrom him and maybe you will forget about your "silly" crush.,
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