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I can't get aroused enough
I am a 16/m and I have a girlfriend who is 21 and we have been going out for 5 months. I just recently lost my virginity to her. After that, we have been having sex, but there is one problem. I don't get aroused enough. I feel horrible about this. I want to have sex with her so bad when I am not with her but then when I am there and we are foreplaying or she is on top of me I do not get fully aroused. What should I do so I can be fully aroused because I really want to enjoy it?
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don't listen to those other people! she can't just randomly get arrested for having sex with you.. she could only get arrested if your parents disagreed with it!.. but i'm sure they know your dating.. and they don't have a problem with that so the sex thing they shouldnt have a problem with them either!.. but about your problem.. just tell her what you want! and what you want her to do to help you you can't just kinda expect her to know what feels good for you and stuff because you don't know what feels good to her do you? well its the same way with you just tell her what you think yall could try to help you out! good luck
xoXo*-Katie
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wow dude 16 and getting some to an experience chick!? congrats lol.. jk soo anywways.. look practice makes perfect, if you recently lost your virginity you haven't had much experience..it gets better.. just do a lot of foreplay to get you in the mood and RELAX..try touching each other slowly WITHOUT kissing for a while, this will turn on anyone..remember IT GETS BETTER soo again relax..good luck ..
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your only 16 you havent developed enough yet and what are you doing dating a 21 year old you need find someone your own age...
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concentrate on her touch, and everything she is doing. get on top of her. There are lots of things you can do to get turned on more. Maybe try new things like dry sex, sucking on earlobes, kissing EVERYWHERE on the body before sex ... things like that. If it's still not working ... maybe it just aint it for you. What i mean is, maybe she's not your type.
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well if you dont have sex as often, and when you do it will feel really good and you will get fully aroused. that should work for you guys, but remember sex isn't everything in a relationship, and your too young for her, you can get her into alot of trouble. x0
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sex isnt everything. try some other things to get you *in the mood*
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On the off hand, I always enjoy a shower before sex, give you and your girl time to relax and clear your minds. Also it can do the trick if you know what I mean.
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Its not ALL about foreplay. Try roleplaying or something completly different. Sex is suppose to be fun. Not just "stick it in, hump a few times, cum like crazy". Its more complicated, but can also be more fun.
-Danny
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