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I have to choose


Question Posted Tuesday December 28 2004, 7:36 pm

OK.. kind of a complicated situation.. I am currently dating this great guy.. hes 16.. and we just got through a temp. break up.. well.. today.. i found out my ex just moved back to his dads from tennesse.. he was the guy i lost my virginity to..hes now 18.. im 14.. i know im young.. but i love them both.. and i know they both like me.. the 16 year old is in love with me.. i found out the 18 year old was back today when i saw him walking.. i met up with him.. and gave him a hug and a kiss on the cheek.. well.. we ended up in a french kiss.. i told him me n my boyfriend were broken up..

i dont feel bad about the kiss.. it was great.. but i feel bad that i lied to the guy i kissed..

i have to choose between these two guys.. who do u think i should choose?


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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 11:51 pm:
Stick with your boyfriend

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NEVERLETG00 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 9:34 pm:
welli just think that you should stay with your 16 yr old BOYFRIEND because you can get into alot of trouble seeing your 18 year old friend. and i really think tha tyou need to tell the 18 yr old the truth that you never broke up wiht your boyfriend and def tell your boyfriend that you kissed your ex boyfriend.. hope all things work out and choose well! x0

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frenchfries21 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 9:07 pm:
well you obviously like the 18 year old better. you should dump the 16 year old because you need to go with the guy you like better. follow your heart!
hope i helped!!
~~StEf~~

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icey0990 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 8:52 pm:
If you dont feel bad about the kiss...and you feel bad about lying to the guy u kissed..i think you answere your own question. You must like the 18 year old more..so I would dump the 16 yr old. Hope i helped..good luck :)
-melissa

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marchingbandbaby answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 8:40 pm:
listen to your heart, but also take into consideration, the fact that its pretty much illegal to date the 18 year old because he's an adult now and your still a minor

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Briht_knee_89 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 8:37 pm:
hey hunny * first off, listen to your heart. whoever makes you happier or whoever you think about more than anything they're the one you need to be with. Personally, i think you should find out how the boy from Tennessee feels about you before you put your time and effort into making a relationship with him work out. Boys are boys just because you both engaged in a kiss doesn't mean he still loves you like he did before he was gone. I'm not tryin to sound mean so don't take that the wrong way! im just saying, you don't want to regret something later knowing you could have had a great relationship with your 16 year old who you clearly know cares about you compared to the 18 years old who just walked back in your life. not to mention your only 14 hunny, you have your WHOLE life ahead of you to make really important decisions about boys. But like i said just listen to your heart and do what you feel is best for you! hope i helped <3 ask me nething else u might need! Happy New Year! xo0x brittany

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FRYahyavi answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 8:36 pm:
wow this is a tough one....if i were you..i would have to choose the sixteen yrold guy b/c you need to see how it goes and you need to give it a chance. i know the kiss must have been great but lay off that guy for a while if ya can and go with the flow. if ya cant ignore that eighteen yrold guy then i guess hes the one. i hope this helped

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lifegivesyoulemons answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 7:56 pm:
you shoiuld choose the boys whos name u like better. Would you like to live with a carterabert for the rest of your life?

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