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Question Posted Tuesday December 28 2004, 11:33 am

im 14/f and i really want my belly button peirced! i finally got my mom to say yes its just my dad. he says he doesnt want me to get infected and thinks im too young but i told him id clean it alot and everything but he still doesnt know. how do i get him to say yess?? pleasee helpp

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roxy_gurl2164 answered Thursday December 30 2004, 12:48 am:
i would just go get my belly button peirced and then maybe tell him later. you'd just have to hide it for a little while. (i.e. wear baggy shirts/sweat shirts.)

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Blvd_Of_Brok3n_Dr3ams answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 8:41 pm:
Tell him that this will be your test, if you can take care of it it proves that you can be responsible.

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DeathAngel101 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 4:30 pm:
Ask your mom to ask your dad for you. If you can't persuade him 'cuz UR too young, maybe your mom can tell him 'cuz she's married to your dad.

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americangirl101 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 3:30 pm:
Get a doctor or somone you know to prove to him that its safe. And if it gets infected you'll take it out and let it close up and take medician for it you can get theres special books for it and and effects that happen you can look it up and see what happend if its effected or somthin like that. <3 American Girl

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sohojules26 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 2:35 pm:
Check with your mom to make sure that you need your dads approval if she already said it was fine. I think the best thing to do is to do some research on it, to show that you really care enough, and that you have a point.

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ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 9:32 am:
Do your research!Find out all you can find out about getting your belly button pierced!Call and check around your town for the cleanest,most reputable place.Learn all about the process of keeping a belly button piercing clean,like what products to use,and how to clean it.Show your dad that you're responsible enough to do all this research and find out everything you need to know.Maybe ask him to take you to the piercing place,so he can be right there and watch how they do it,and ask any questions he may have for the piercing artist.I hope this helps you out some! I've had my belly button pierced for almost 3 years now and I LOVE it!Lemme know if you get it! ;)

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Gpsexiemexie11 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 12:15 am:
Hello,well thats happening to me mom said yes but my dad hasnt made up his mind dont think ur the only one in this situation..ok talk to him more like say that you will be very resposible and that you will take good care of it and that u wont get it infected..if that doesnt work wait like 2 weeks or a week and bring it up again and maybe he will say yes..well i hope this works out for u

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krazyk427 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 11:41 pm:
well i got my tongue pierced and it took a little while for my dad to say yea but i think ur best bet is to say ill pay for it my self and if it gets in fected it wasnt ur fault and no one is to blame you

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 11:27 pm:
Well you sound like my twin. Lol my dad doesnt know. Neither does my step dad. I just hide it from him. My mom actually told me to hide it from them. But just talk to him let him know that you will clean and that you'll listen to the piercer tell you the instructions. And show him you can keep things clean.. like around the house and you do have good responsibility! -trix Plz rate me!

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babygirl17 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 10:38 pm:
I didnt get my belly button pierced until i was 16... and my mom was fine with it.. but my stepdad didnt want me to get it done.. But...I told him that I really wanted to get it done.. and that I would pay for it.. So maybe if you had some money saved up... you could tell him you would pay for it yourself.. But if you get it done.. Be very careful.... They get infected easily... Dont play with it with dirty hands.. the oils on your hands will also get it infected... I hope this helps... If you need anything drop one in my inbox.. ~*Jackie~*

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NEVERLETG00 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 9:45 pm:
you dont have to let your dad know.. omg, ive had mine done for 3 years and he has NO clue and when he finds out omg he would kill me! but the thing is, my parents have a divorice so i dont think he would ever see me with my shirt up or off unless he takes us to a amusement park and i go swimming which NEVER happens.. show your dad that your a responsible young lady and show that you can take care of yourself. bellie rings are really pretty! hope you do get it! good luck! x0

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FRYahyavi answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 7:25 pm:
i want the same thing!lol what i did is that i told my dad i would get a doctor to peirce it(its true) and he can give me all these things to keep it from getting infected and that i can always take it out if i dont like it.

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BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 5:22 pm:
dont get it ur 14 ...thats all

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DrAnqel answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 3:32 pm:
Make a deal with him, show him the advantages, and disadvantages, show him how you will keep it clean, you have to soak it in saltwater every day for 20 minutes, you'll use saline solution to clean it every day too. You will do exactly what the piercer says, he may or may not know, but talk to your mom, have her convince him. Beg and plead, you'll probably get your way. But who knows, it took me 2 years to get them to budge. Good luck though. Hope I helped.

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HeLpInYoOoUt answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 3:24 pm:
same darn thing wif my dad..i dont even no what to do no more i give up..sooner or lader if they keep saying no yur jus gunna have to do it behind there bak what do u think they wuld want?..u to be honest or do it behind there bak??..also obey what your parents say too!hopefully u get it done becuz shoot i am ONE OF THESE DAYS!

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TrUtH_hUrTs_1 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 3:07 pm:
try your hardest to be goosd around the house. maybe he doesnt think that you are responsible, so show him that you are by keeping up with chores and other things so that he learns to rely on you and see that your are dependable.


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