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im 14 going on 15/f. ive never had a b/f but ive had this one crush for 2 yrs. now! Were good friends now and lately all of my friends have had b/f. i kinda feel left out, but being single is fun 2! i kno this sounds wrong...to me it does 2, but lately all ive wanted 2 do is grab my crush and just kiss him! i think i have a problem...what should i do! please help!~
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Heyy..well first of all i dont think that you have a problem just because you want to kiss your crush. The best thing to do since you guys are close friends is tell him how you feel..honesty always helps! and you never know, mayb he likes you too!! =)
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you dont have a problem every girl goes through a time in there life that they feel left out or vulnerable..but just because everyone else is doin it doesnt give you a reason to feel left out. you hafta be independent stick out from the cround.. that makes people realize wow she doesnt care what others think and more peopl will love you.. and this guy you have a cruch on, well yall are friends.. do yall ever hang out on the weekend do you have his number do yall ever talk outa school? well if it was yes to any you shouldnt be scared to let him know how you feel but if you dont know him and you have said hi to him once in the hall and you think hes a major hottie well step up make plans with him..dont come on to strong but also flirt with him do not be shy no guys like shy girls but let him make the first move thats when you know he likes you too then you can grab him and kiss him!!!
hope i helped out alittle
love
Justina
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get a hot outfit and strut your stuff then ask him out and he might say yess! what do you have to lose?!
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ask him out!!!!!!!!!
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i know that no one likes to come out to their crush about how they feel but it might help. if you and this guy are close friends he will understand and be able to handle and respect your feelings. just a warning(if you tell him how you feel) if he doesnt feel the same you might get hurt. just because you friends had or have boyfriends, doesnt mean you should. you are ready when you are ready. but answer this. do you really like him for who he is? or you just wanna make out with him and fool around?
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Well maybe you should just tell him how you feel about him. Honesty has always helped me. The worst that could happen is that he wont feel the same. If this is the case well you will find someone.
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You should grab him and kiss him. Being spontaeneous is fun.
-Farren
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You dont have a problem..
I used to like this guy too, and i liked him for about as long as you have liked this guy..But i got over him and found someone new, and im pretty sure you will too..give it some time..
maybe you should talk to him about it and see how he feels about you..
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ask him out and when u do u'll feel alot better
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Dont worry about it, I was doing the same thing you were...your getting desperate even if you dont mean to be or even if you deny it, you really are getting desperate, I was too but I held back, im 16 and ive never had a bf. and its not cuz i cant get one its cuz I dont really want one, i dont NEED a guy to make me happy, just think about that :) it should help! love ya babe byee
-Jenn
JSIMT
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You think you have a problem? Because you want to kiss your crush? I see nothing wrong with that.
Now, if the ONLY reason you want to kiss your crush is BECAUSE your friens all have boyfriends, then you might want to think about how you actually feel about your "crush".
Ask yourself. Do you want your crush to be your boyfriend? Really? Or do you prefer being single and just daydreaming/dreaming about your crush? Think about it for a while and if you decide you want a relationship with your crush, go for it and ask him out. Best of luck!
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Umm since you are 15 I am going to guess you weigh 1500lbs and this explains why you do not have a bf. So I am also going to guess if you kissed your crush he would vomit and move to another country due to the embarassment of being kissed by a sumo wrestler!! Sorry for the heartbreak but you might want to consider dating a planet instead of a person.
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i don't think you have a problem. i mean, you've liked this guy for a while and your feelings for him have probably grown. so its probably just somethin' funky goin' on with your feelings. a big crush like that (trust me i know) can effect you in many different ways. hope i helped!
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Hi Sweetie,
Well I guess it can be considered a problem. but a problem a lot of us go through in occassion. I think what has happened is your mind (you're in the stater of infatuation) has gotten too strong about this boy. It will be hard to get over him or to get into other guys. You're going to have to either comfront him somehow or get some space and time apart from him so you canget a hold of yourself and later on start having curshes on other guys.
It's cool that you guys are friends, it really is, but if you stay in the relationship ou are in it can be unhealthy since it seems like you're "tied down" to him emotionally. (L.O.L. Don't I sound like a therapist. Hehe) What I am trying to say is that since you have feelings for him that you cannot control your platonic relationship will not work. What will happen is that you will never notice other guys and they will just pass you by and one day he will get a girlfriend and it will hurt you really bad. You cannot be friends until you learn to be indipendet from him.
Even if you copmfront him about your feelings you need some time apart first. You have to be prepared he'll say no OR yes. Even if he says yes you cannot depend on him so much... it's hard to explain. Anyway, whatever you decide what I would recommend or do in your place is take some time to myself. I would be a bit upset at first, but I would realize its for the best.
You know what the funny part is about having curshes and having boyfriends... when you stop wanting a boyfriend or stop having a crush-when you stop looking, they find you. When I deceided to have no crush... a week or so later I got a boyfriend.
Anyway, sorry this is too long. My best wishes!!! Take good care. Happy holidays. ~Blessed Be...
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That's definitly not a problem by having those feelings. Everyone gets them! You say you like being single but want to have a bf so u dont feel left out...hmmm well i personally think tht you should do watever you feel lke and dont let your friends let peer pressure make you do anything you dont want to do. If you like the guy go for it! Bf's are always great to have!
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Nothing is wrong with that whats so ever, just go up to him and kiss him... that will get things started and it sounds like it woukld surprsize him so d0o it! lol
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Hey ! im the same age- and i definitly say OMG GO FOR HIM RIGHT NOW! you need to take chances and definitly 100% try it out- if you dont want to kiss him, maybe give him a hug... but this time- a hug thats more sexual (so he might get the hint). [sry if that sounded gay but if you were too scared to kiss him, just a hug could do]. But also if every1 else has had a boyfriend and you feel leftout- this could be your chance- especialy if you guys are really good friends now. So goodluck with him, and take it easy- maybe he likes you too. But you should defintily try it out- don't be afraid to try somthing, because you might only have it once and when its gone- you might not have the chance again, and you might be missing out! but anyways, have fun and ask me a question if you need help! ;)
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haha you don't have a problem. it's just hormones, there's nothing wrong with it! everybody thinks about it sometime or another. if you like him this much, just ask him out! simple. it's also better, because you guys are friends.
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Well my advice is for you to ask your crush some questions. You know to make yourself feel more grounded. If you want a boyfriend and still you think you dont have a chance with him I'm sure theres lots of boys out there who want a girlfriend and to scard to admit it to you even. Rember you have a long long life a head of you you dont have to rush. :D
<3 American Girl
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Does your crush seem to like you back? There is no point in dating, thats how I see it. Becuase yeah you'll like him but somehow you guys will break up and you'll be heartbroken. You need to be patient..your time will come. But for now just flirt and hang out with your crush more. Good luck!
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