Question Posted Tuesday December 28 2004, 12:45 pm
I know someone who is really big on theater just as I am, but I don't think she likes me very much. I have tried talking to her, but she doesn't listen. What should I do?
AngelofMusic answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 9:14 pm: Oh goodness, the drama that goes on with the theater people. Theres a huge gang of us at my school and we are all so clicky. I think a lot of it is just based on eachothers talent ex "I don't like her because she isn't talented" or "I don't like her because she is way better then me". I had a person like that, now a friend. The random talking just didn't work but we worked together on a project and all that hanging around doing it brought us together. Hope I helped. If you have any more questions ask me. [ AngelofMusic's advice column | Ask AngelofMusic A Question ]
o0psychicwish0o answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 8:22 pm: Are you a guy and trying her to get to like you? Then start up a convo. with her about theater and try to flirt with her. That will get her attention.
Or are you a girl trying to make a friend? Dont try to hard cause that just scares people. Start up a convo. and share intrest about theater and music and such. Once she sees you are a great person she will want to do stuff together
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CoKeIzZle answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 8:13 pm: Hey hun, You just have to be nice to her. Show her the example. Be so nice to her that it kills her. She may not be interested in you, but you have to keep trying. She'll realize that you really want to get to know her eventually. I hope I helped xoxo NiCoLe [ CoKeIzZle's advice column | Ask CoKeIzZle A Question ]
xluvinux answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 8:11 pm: If she won't pay attention to you, she's probably not interested in you. You can't make her like you, so you'll have to move on until you find another girl who likes you. There's plenty of girls out there for you, don't worry. =)
FRYahyavi answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 7:14 pm: hunny, if she wont even listen to ya, move on. i cant believe anyone would be so rude. but who knows, try something more clever to get her attention if you want it that bad. [ FRYahyavi's advice column | Ask FRYahyavi A Question ]
Advice_x33 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 6:54 pm: Well, if she doesnt like you, then back off..
But maybe your wrong, talk to her friends about what she thinks about you..and what she says about you..
You should also talk to her about it and ask her why she wont listen [ Advice_x33's advice column | Ask Advice_x33 A Question ]
Cath answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 6:21 pm: Hi Sweetie,
What you need to do is not focus on making HER like you but making yourself likable to all. Do something impressive on theater.... get yourself involved in theather stuff.... do volunteer work... be inspiering, be a role-model... and be really nice to E-V-E-R-Y-B-O-DY. Oh, and be heard when your friends have the "politic discussions". This builds personality and people know who you are. Being nice to everyone-including her-will make her feel either guilt or it will show her you atre better than her OR she'll be impressed by you.
I do hope everything concludes in some cool way. Take good care. My best wishes!!! Happy holidays! ~Blessed Be... [ Cath's advice column | Ask Cath A Question ]
caliexoxo13 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 5:42 pm: Ask her what her problem is. She is probably just intimidated by you. Also if she is rude and doesn't want to talk to you, be rude back. She might think you are better than her. Good Luck! ~Calie~ [ caliexoxo13's advice column | Ask caliexoxo13 A Question ]
americangirl101 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 5:11 pm: I love THEATER! Well if she doesn't like you after you tried to be friends with her maybe you should find somone else with the same intrest. Maybe even a girl/boy what ever gender you are. And maybe since you have the same intrest well maybe it will work out ;).
dancinqueen08 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 3:18 pm: If she doesn't like you, then she doesn't like you. There isn't much you can do. Be nice to her and everything, but if she doesn't like you then get over it. Everyone is not going to like you and you aren't going to like everyone. [ dancinqueen08's advice column | Ask dancinqueen08 A Question ]
nUtCaSe answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 3:07 pm: ask her to the theatre as it is your common interest then take it from there.You may want to learn how to spell it as you like it so much [ nUtCaSe's advice column | Ask nUtCaSe A Question ]
XxRockon answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 2:21 pm: Hm....she cud just be nervous or shy or she doesn't kno what to say. Try not talking to her for a day or two and see if she comes over to talk then you will see if she likes you or not. Hope this helps [ XxRockon's advice column | Ask XxRockon A Question ]
AdviceMistress answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 2:11 pm: ignore her she just probably being a jerk or maybe listen in on one of her "theatre" conversations and put in your opinion to let her know ur into theatre too! happy holidays!
*ashlee* answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 2:09 pm: its obvious she doesnt care, and yea, probably doesnt like you. get over it, and talk to someone else. dont you have other friends? [ *ashlee*'s advice column | Ask *ashlee* A Question ]
You just have to be nice to her. Show her the example. Be so nice to her that it kills her. She may not be interested in you, but you have to keep trying. She'll realize that you really want to get to know her eventually.
I hope I helped and good luck !!
Pura Morena :)
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