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ok, at my dads house my brother and sister constantly make fun of me. last night they kept calling me a pig, and a special ed. and they will pysically abuse me sometimes. and they call me "g" casue i listen to rap music. and they like sing a song about me eating all the time. they are really mean. and i don't do anthing to them, and i tell my dad and he sazys either, i start it or get over it, or say something back, but when i say something back he says i start it!! what do i do?? please help!
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okay well first of all if they are physically abusing you.. you need to tell your dad.. or even your mom should know whats going on. when they say bad things to you, stand up for yourself and let them know that what they are saying doesnt bother you,even if it really does. If they know that you are getting hurt then they will keep doing it over and over because thats what they are trying to do. hope i helped <3sarah
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Ok I think that you should tell all of this you wrote right here to your dad... get him to understand. If he doesnt than just play pranks on your brother and sister. Show them you are not to be messed around with. . . I dont know if I should encourage this but... if you're gonna do something do it to them while they're sleeping and then laugh at it in the morning. Good luck.
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Talk to your mom. I would try and get out of that household. How mean. You shouldnt be in that sort of sit. so try n get out!-trix
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Your dad sounds like a real prick. If I were you, I'd stay with your mom instead of your dad. Or wherever you can go you're not around any of them. They are rude, inconsiderate, ignorant and immature people. Including your father. I suggest you avoid them or tell your mother about them and how they treat you and see what she can do about it all.
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try talking to your sis and brother and tell them what is bothering you n that what they say really hurts ur feelings! Dont hold back just do it..chances r they'll realize that it really hurts you and wont do it again~!
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lol grow up and just dont take things to seriously.. i dont mean too be all bitchy or anything but you need to learn to like take things and laugh it off or like do it back too them or something, if you contunie to let them stomp all over you they just will not even realise it and keep doing it over and over becuase you arent doing naything about it.. just take a stand see what happens then!
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Heyy sweetie. The teasing may not be such a humongous deal, but the physical abuse is too much. I would tell ur Mom or any other family members you think can help you. Try and avoid your brother and sister as much as you possibly can. Sounds like they're so bored with their own pitiful lives that they don't have anything better to do than pick on you. Talk to someone about it, because this is not the kind of relationship that you need to be in with your family. Hope it helped xoxo
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Siblings will always fight. So start coming up with some good comebacks or tell them how it really hurts your feelings and you dont like how they make fun of you and you would like them to be nicer.
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AW! You do not deserve that! Save up money, and start seeing a therapist-I'm dead serious! You do NOT deserve this! Also, for the time being try do just ignor them and start a journal. Good luck!
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tell your dad he is bothering you. if he doesn't listen write your feelings in a dairy, and/or talk to your mom about it. also, try to ignore it. when i was about ten i would get angry at my big brother because he teased me. the things i have listed helped me. i hope i helped :)
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Hi Sweetie,
That sucks. Bastards that brother and sister of yours (no offense). You need to do something drastic. Talking to them may not help very much since they'll probably be too immature to actually listen and understand you. I have two sugggestions. What you should try first is being nice to them. And I don't mean like not being mean to them. I mean being nice to them. Buy them an ice cream sundae or... give them a lollypop.... make them a sandwhich.... I don't know, just be nice and make them feel sorry they are bastads to you. If this doesn't work then talk to your counsler at school and tell him/her (its usually a her... i never thought about that but its pretty weird how its usually a her... hmm.... creepy. Anyways) tell the counsler you're depressed and about your family issues. Maybe you guys need family counsling. The reasoon I suggest this drastic messure is because your father (the authorithy) figure refuses to listen. Oh! But BEFORE going to the school counsler talk to your dad one last time. Tell him seriously what the issue is and what he pruposes to stop your siblings from harrasing you. If he offers no solution.... family counsling.
I do wish you happiness. Take good care. ~Blessed Be...
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Get help from someone you trust.. sorry not your dad he's great but not helpful. Are they younger? Try to stay ayay from them if possible, keep yourself busy. Ignore them , they want feed back and f they dont get it, they will get board. Don't let their comments bother you and ruin YOUR LIFE! Hope we helped!
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That sux. Either you need to spend less time with your dad's famiyl or just ignore them. They are being immature and are getting to you. When they something to you just be like hey you are right and just like tak it as a joke and agree with them. They won't have a clue what's going on and that will annoy them. Hope I helped. ~Calie~
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Tell your dad this is really bothering you. When your dad tells you it's your fault or get over it say no and make him stop and listen to what you have to say. If he wpn't listen write it down in a letter and give it to him. I hope I helped!
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Get revenge, sweet revenge. You shouldn't be treated like that, really get to them though, in front of their friends or something so that it really traumatizes them, then they will NEVER think of making fun of you again. Trust me, it works pretty damn well. Hope I helped. -Angel
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well wow have you told your mom.. and if it bothers you tell them to fuck off!! or just ignore it and just realize that people who take the time to make fun of you oviousily are jealouse of you for some reason and just don't worry about it and if you eat alot and they'er calling you Pig if you over weight you might wanna start excersizing maybe they'er trying to tell you something but i really think they'er just jealouse..
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thats really annoyin if ur fam to do that to u..but i think that this is pretty common in most families. You could try to just put your foot down and tell ur bro and sis to just stop and lleave you alone. I suggest just ignoring them though because then they will realize it doesn't bother you and then they will stop.
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first of all i would like to say i am so sorry. no one deserves to go through that even if they did bring it upon themselves (im not saying that you did) my brother and dad make fun of me alot too.. theyve never physicaly hurt me but they have emotionally. i used to hold it in. everytime i went to bed i would cry and if someone saw me i would say my eyes were watering. lately though ive learned to fight the fire with fire. i know its not a very mature thing to do but it works. everytime brandon (my brother) tries to make fun of me i just make fun of him. the reason people do these things is to feel better about themselves. if you cry you are only giving them what they want you need to fight back. it takes practice but when you are a flaming bitch back to them they'll get threatened and step down. eventually you'll need to confront them and say "look im sorry.. you guys hurt me so bad and i wanted to show you how it feels" and them simply ask them to stop. it sounds weird but it really has worked for me. my dad and brother never make fun of me anymore. if they ever do again i will just be an ass right back to them. oh but never say "yeah well.." before starting a come back. trust me that gives them more reasons to make fun of you. i tired that too..ok well i hope i helped. my email is TicketToRide@rock.com if you ever want to talk about anything else. keep me posted and tell me how everything goes. hope to hear from you soon.
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i would kick there asses
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giirrllll plzzzz if they made fun of me i would be bustin their asses. i listen 2 rap muzic its da best music wtf do they listen 2 gay shit music like punk and rock?? i would hit dem back or make fun of them
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