Member Since: December 29, 2004
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Last Update: December 30, 2004
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im a 15/f see its like this all of my friends are all really fast i mean to tell the truth i kind of am fast too but i mean i havent lost my virginity yet but most of them have so yeah i dont know what to do like they kind of like leave me out of conversations and stuff and i think that i am ready to do it but i dont know what age you should be?? (link)
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Ok first of all dont feel any less than them for being a virgin, that's actually a great virtue. If you wait I'm sure you will be very proud of yourself and men will respect you. As for the right age I believe it is somewere around 18. [Good luck, feedback & rates are appreciated]
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I am a very shy, quiet person. I guess that you could also say that I am also somewhat of a geek... I kinda live on the computer... but. I have two friends, and don't get me wrong, I love them and appreciate them soooo much! But neither of them go to my church. The kids at my church are very rude and mean to me. They always leave me out. I am the outcast. I hate it! I mean, I am too shy to do anything about it, but I can't stand them just being so rude! I sit by myself, I talk to myself, I am always by myself because they are so mean! They make fun of me and stuff all the time! I don't care what they say, I have learned to let it bounce off. But I still don't have friends at my church. I also dress differently. I am very self conscious, and I can't help it. I dress in non-form fitting clothes, and I don't wear skirts. I don't put myself out there. I don't have a b/f. I do have a lot of family/home problems, that kindof makes me really quiet and insecure. Am I being too shy and quiet? What are some ways to get over being so insecure? Is there a way to get over self consciousness? I have several mental blocks against : guys, men, letting my hair down, form fitting clothes, and large crowds. I know that I can't get over some of it because of my home life. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!! I am so sorry that it was this long, but I had to make myself clear. (link)
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First dont let the 'fitting in thing get in over your head'. Those people dont sound too nice let along to have them as friends. I think you're better off being yourself (thats the best thing a human been can be), if people like you how you are good if not than forget about them. Just learn to be a strong individual and accept yourself how you are. [Good luck, feedback & rates are appreciated]
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I'm 15/f in highschool and I know this girl who is pregnant. This isn't about wether its right or wrong, but, she's 15 also, and in my grade. I've known her since 4th grade(just about). She just found out she was pregnant, and I'm on good terms with her and everything, but were not best friends. Y'know? I was thinking I should go up to her and tell her that if she needs anything, I'd be there for her. Should I? Would it be inappropiate? -Sarah (link)
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I think that would be a very nice hting to do to her. I suppose in time like that people need all the help and support they can get. [Good luck, feedback & rates are appreciated]
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13/M and i have liked this one girl for about a year now and her and her bf (my friend) of about 1 year and a half just broke up. How long should i wait before i do anything and should i just drop hints. i'm a really good friend of hers and i dont want to do something at the wrong time.
p.s- i was thinking of sending her flowers w/ a card in them or something any good ideas greatly appreciated. (link)
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That flower idea sounds really sweet you sound like a nice guy. Well if she's feeling low I suggest you be there for her try to comfort her, just dont rush into things or wait too long either. [Good luck, feedback & rates are appreciated]
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OK I asked before about what the things on my legs were, turnrs out yes they are stretch marks. Now, my mom refuses to buy more cream so i cant buy any cocoa butter stuff but I raided my closet and foudn hand cream with cocoa butter... will that work even tho it's for your hands? (link)
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Well try. If it doesnt work than at least it will moisturize your skin. [good luck, feedback & rates are appreciated]
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I have this friend and she is really nice on weekend
But when we have school she id do mean to me and using bad words. She sometimes can be nice but not
all the time. Help me
Rachel (link)
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I belive she's not a friend, that she's just a moody person. If you would like to be friends with her I suggest you talk to her about it.
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okay i've been in this fight with my guy friend and well i brought him soup because he was sick and so i could say sorry and i did! well he hasn't talked to me and my friend i tried to invite him 2 dinner with us 2morrow nite! he said he can't he's busy with his so called "friends" who smoke and drink and so does he ever since he started hangingout with them! he's hanging out with the wrong crowd! what should i do? (link)
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Well tell him DUH! People should really use common sense...
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No rude comments like the last time, but heres my situation. my bf had to get tested for a sperm count and it turns out that he has a low sperm count or is possibly infertile. We had sex a few days ago and while we were, his condom broke. He didnt cum yet though and he pulled right out and put on a new one. My question is, after hearing about everything related to this. Do you think theres a chance I could be pregnant? All info would help or anyone ever being in the 'broken condom' situation. Thanx. (link)
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-.-; Have you tryed getting the little plastic testing things? I think those will help much more than anyone here can. From what you've said here I believe there's a low possibility but still you should run a test.
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I dont want to make out with my boyfriend but everytime i want to kiss him he trys to stick his tounge in my mouth. it kinda grosses me out. but lately ive been wanting to kiss him. how can i tell him i just want to kiss him but not make out?
CiArA (link)
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Umm I dont know why you would feel that making out is gross since its normal human behavior but anyway you should tell him. Tell him that you feel comfortable making out and that you would just like to kiss him and if he understands than go ahead with your relationship if he doesnt that he's not worth it.
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I decided to get a hair cut today but I don't what kind i want! I have dirty blonde hair and it's very long! I'm 17 and a female! Any suggestions? (link)
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How about cutting your hair a shorter and in layers, I think that style is nice.
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Is there anybody out there who Role-Plays? If so, do you know of any good sites I can go too? (link)
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You can go to go-gaia.com its a fun site. If you do sign up my screen name is 7blackroses. n.n
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I have bumps on my pubic area. Not alot but alittle.
when i pop them puss comes out is this normal is something wrong with me. (link)
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You should clean well and if you shave be careful, if it continues I think you should go to the doctor a.s.a.p.
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Okay, there is this teacher at school that I feel very close to, she is amazing and helps me all of the time with my problems, i think of her as a mom. I spend all of my study hall time with her because its her free period. I call her at home all of the time and we talk and joke around. I am 16 (17 in feb) and she is 26, i call her by her first name and we are really good "friends". I am going through a rough time with my mom and may be going into foster care, well, she said if that happens i can live with her. AM I weird for being this close to a teacher? (link)
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Absolutle not. Teachers are normal human beens too, they enlighten us with knowledge and its ok that you feel this close to her. I hope everything works out for you. Good luck.
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there is this kid i like but he is in rehab and he kinda perverted but he said that terapy and rehab are going to help change him and i reallyt like him and i dont know what to do. i just broke up with my boyfriend but not for this guy and now i lied to him telling him i didnt want to hurt my friend b/c she liked him and he founf out and he knows i might go out with the other kid and now he is mad and i just dont want to hurt them but i really like the kid in rehab so what should i do?? signed,
rehab boys? (link)
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Let me start by saying that people dont change so fast, be very careful with who you hang out with. Now I dont know the rehab guy ofcoarse but I dont advice you to go for him, and anyway he shouldn't get mad for that. Hope it helps.
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i am beginning to do crazy with all of this rain i have gotten in my area.
i need ideas on things to do at home by myself. i have gone through every board game, read every book, and am out of ideas. any websites i can go to? any other ideas? because with every drop of rain the runs off of my window, a piece of my sanity goes with it! (link)
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go-gaia.com
neopets.com
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i'm in 8th grade and i liked this guy since like.. grade 5 or 6.. sumwhere there.. i was pretty stupid then.. i'd do these stupid pranks on him and i feel really shitty about it and all.. hes acts like a shithead to me and i no that thats my fault but i wanna know wut i can do about it now.. i can't seem to get over him but i want him and me to be friends again.. i cud tell him i'm sorry or w/e but he seems like a really. uh... u no.. like unforgiving kinda guy or w/e i'm totally freaking out! plz help! thx (link)
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Well you should lay things down for him straigh. Tell him (on the phone, face to face, or on the net) that you're really sorry for what you did in the past and if he can give you another chance to be his friend. Good luck.
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Okay, my ex best friend Lana betrayed me. How? Well, she went and slept with this boy that I had a MAJOR crush on! And not once, but twice! I can't believe she would ever do that to me. And to make it worst, she told me she might be pregnant!! So you could imagine how much I hated her at this point. Anyway, to get her back, I told the boy (Clad) that she WAS pregnant, and that he was the father. So she was really pissed at me. But can you blame me? Now she's saying that what I did was 10 times worse then what she did to me. But I dont think so. What's your opinion? (Thanx for helping me out) (link)
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Well I think that what you did doesnt begin to measure up to what she did. Most probably Clad was going to find out sooner or later. Anyway, honey if she did that she's no good friend. Dont feel bad about what you did at all she should be the one to go to hell. Good luck.
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ok, at my dads house my brother and sister constantly make fun of me. last night they kept calling me a pig, and a special ed. and they will pysically abuse me sometimes. and they call me "g" casue i listen to rap music. and they like sing a song about me eating all the time. they are really mean. and i don't do anthing to them, and i tell my dad and he sazys either, i start it or get over it, or say something back, but when i say something back he says i start it!! what do i do?? please help!
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Ok I think that you should tell all of this you wrote right here to your dad... get him to understand. If he doesnt than just play pranks on your brother and sister. Show them you are not to be messed around with. . . I dont know if I should encourage this but... if you're gonna do something do it to them while they're sleeping and then laugh at it in the morning. Good luck.
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im 14/f a Freshman..my brother-in-law has a nephew which is 16-Junior...if me and him were to start going owt..do u think it would b weird to tell my friends im goin owt wit my brotherinlawz nephew?..i mean would that make us 2 related?...nd do u think im considered a hoe for dating a junior when im only a freshman? (link)
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To begin with no that does not make you a 'hoe' at all, girls usually tend to go for the older guys since they are so much mature than the ones our age. And if you and him are not related by blood than I believe it is perfectly normal for you to go out.
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Theres this boy I like, Zach. I only met him once and that was at my almost but now ex-almost-boyfriend. My ex-almost-boyfriend-and-now-ex-friend(Lets call him MEABANEF) Well, MEABANEF had a birthday party and thats where I met Zach. MEABANEF paid no attention to me hardly and only to his ex-girlfriend who is now his girlfriend. Zach did pay attention to me though. A lot. And in a flirty way. Like, when I fell asleep, coming downstairs a lot to try and wake me up so I wouldn't miss out on stuff. Just basically paying me a lot of attention and in more flirty ways as time went on.(Oh, yes, I fell asleep at MEABANEF's party. It was so much fun, I just couldn't stay awake) So I got his(Zach) screenname and I've been talking to him but I'm not sure if he likes me. We exchanged phone numbers and we plan on chillin together at the mall some time with a few other people but I just don't know how to tell him I like him. I seriously want to and I'm very outgoing with these things but theres a problem with this one. If it turned out he didn't like me, and he started trying to not be around me so much anymore/talk to me much anymore. I would never see him or talk to him because we go to different schools. So, I'm not quite sure what I want or should do. I just know I really want to go out with him and I think this boy is a good choice, I just need help going about getting him. (link)
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Ok first I would like to say he sounds like a nice guy. I think you should give him clues that you like him, dont make him feel too special though (trust me, that gets to guy's heads). Just give him hints and wait for him to make the first move... if after a while he hasn't done anything and you really think he likes you than you make it. Good luck.
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