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Pregnant sorta-friend
I'm 15/f in highschool and I know this girl who is pregnant. This isn't about wether its right or wrong, but, she's 15 also, and in my grade. I've known her since 4th grade(just about). She just found out she was pregnant, and I'm on good terms with her and everything, but were not best friends. Y'know? I was thinking I should go up to her and tell her that if she needs anything, I'd be there for her. Should I? Would it be inappropiate? -Sarah
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I would help her. It would not be inappropiate at all. Go for it.
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I think it'd be really sweet and not inappropriate. At dis point she probably needs a good friend since she's pregnant at such a young age and all...people are probably gonna talk their shit yah know. Just make sure when you tell her that you don't do it in front of anybody. Maybe make plans or get her number..good luck. *Everybodiiez_Fool*
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Sarah, I dont think it would be inappropiate because she needs a friend and telling her that your there for her will make her feel better..but i dont think you should do it in front of people..thats the only thing, but if i were you i would go u 2 her.
hope i helped
~becca~
xoxo
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dont say it to her around a lot of people , because she might feel embarassed, even if she rrejects your offers ,those offers still prbably deep down inside comfort her
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Sarah,
I think that would be wonderful if you said that because when your that age and pregant you feel like a cast away.And I know a lot of girls that are pregant just want someone who is there to help!She'll also be thankful that she has a friend to help her.Hope that helped!
Serena
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definitely tell her you'd be there for her and to let her know you haven't turned your back on her just because she's pregnant. good choice!
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you should definately talk to her... just a simple i'm here for you.. will mean alot 2 her. now more then ever she needs people... and 2 know that she has you... that will make her feel gOOd. shes going through a tough time.. and to know that she has your support will be helpfUl!
good luck!
xOxO, aLeX
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If you are going to talk to her at all i think that you should ask her what she is going to do about it and if she ever needs anything- you will be here. This pregnacey thing is very serius. And i'm sure this girl is confused and scared. RIght now she really needs some one. But make sure that you dont seem like you are trying to but-in to her life. B-cus if she has a best frend and she knows, then she'll b ther 4 her to and might think that your in it for the gossip(take advise from experience)
good luck!
ss
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hey. go up and tell her, if she ever needs someone, its now more than ever, she'll apreciate you caring for her. peace and love.
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Nope. Go up to her and tell her that you're always gonna be there if she needs you. It shows you're a good, caring friend, and she'll appreciate it. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
Happy New Years!
~*Erin*~
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No, I think that would make her feel better. If it were me, id appreciate it. Right now shes going through the toughest time in her life, and she needs plenty of support. So you had a good idea and i think it would put a smile on her face.
Hope i helped
-melissa
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no thats what friends are for, and im glad that you even think about helping a friend in that sort of way! go tell her that! x0 your a good friend
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That is a GREAT idea! Maybe to cheer her up you could bring her her favorite candy sence she'll be very very hungry! You only want whats best for her, she'll understand:)
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No, it wouldn't be inappropriate as long as you truely mean it. I'm sure she needs all the friendship and support she can find right now. Just make sure in your heart that you're willing to follow through with the promise if you make it. Again, it is not wrong as long as you really want to help her. Big Hug!
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I think you shoudl definitely let her know you're there for her. There's not much else to say...but just if you're willing to support her you should let her know so she doesn't feel completely overwhelmed.
That's nice of you.
-Gessyka
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I think that would be a very nice hting to do to her. I suppose in time like that people need all the help and support they can get. [Good luck, feedback & rates are appreciated]
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Well obviously if she lashes out on you for telling her you're there for her there's gotta be something wrong with her. But at the same time she may be emberassed, if you really mean what your saying then im sure you'll be fine.
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ems
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no it would definatley not be inappropriate. tell her that your there for her, shell appreciate it. more people need to do just that, for everyone. not just because someone appears to be in need. if you do it then good for you, i wish i had more friends like you.
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You've known her for practically forever so I don't see how it could be wrong. Plus she's only 15. Can you imagine how scary that would be to find out you were going to become a mother at that age. I'm sure she'd appreciate any help.x0Cassandra
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if you guyz aren't close then i don't see why you should have to help her. i mean i could see why you wanta help her if she's not your closest friends then i say don't. itmight make you ahve alot more pressure.
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No way. Your just helping her out..go ahead and tell her. Its just showing that you care and the girl is probably scared to death.
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