Hola pplz!
Look, i love to give advice to ppl who just need help and it could be anything.
You can email me any question ud like and ill be sure to get it back to you as soon as possible!
Luv yaz
xoxo
~becca~
Member Since: December 30, 2004
Answers: 38
Last Update: January 1, 2005
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I'm 16/f, and I have 3 friends who always do stuff withought me. I feel like i'm never included in anything they do. And I always feel like they're talking about me at theyre little get togethers. I'm always sitting at home while they're out having fun and they don't even bother to call me. I also think they're parents hate me as well, which sucks even more. My question is, what should I do when they DO call me and what should I tell them? (link)
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Get new friends!But b4 you do i would call them and try to make plans or tell them how you feel, that you feel they are leaving you out and ask why..it doesnt matter that there parents odnt like you because well your frens with the kid not the parent! hope i helped :) plz rate
xoxo
~becca~
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I moved to a new school in the 8th grade and i am now on 9th. I had really good friends but i let them go becuase they werent popular and i kno its sounds really dumb and shallow but thats how i used to think i really want to become friends with the popular girls and they arnt liek snobby or anythign they can keeo secrets and they r just as good as real friends. But i dont know how to become good friends with people anymore. (link)
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That was stupid of you dumping good friends because they werent poular but just be yourself and surely youll find a group of people who youll be frens with but the shouldnt have to be popular..i mean cuz thats pretty dum, dont worry youll have friends sooner or later, like i said just be yourself.
xoxo
~becca~
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ok i am best friends with a really popular girl but it seems like everytime we hang out she wants to invite guys along. It can never be just us hanging out as a girls night. I think that maybe shes just using me. What should i do? (link)
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Just talk to her, and ask her if she can have just a girls night with JUST GIRLS..duh but anyway..if she doesnt like want 2 then tell her you feel like shes using you..but i dont understand why would she be using you by inviting guys...
xoxo
~becca~
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Alright me and my ex are really close and we talk about having sex alot...I mean all the time..I feel ready and I think Im ready...I'm only 14...He is 15...I have never hasd sex before and I'm not sure if I should wait or what I should do??? I mean he doesnt push me into anything and never has and never will... Will someone give me some advice on what to do??? (link)
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Just wait..but why would you have sex with ir EX??anyway..ur only 14, you should wait.
xoxo
~becca~
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omg.. ok there was this whole rumor going around at school that all of me and my friends are lesbians... well they only think that because a couple of my friends told them what we did at partys.. Its true what we did but its not true we are lesbians.. what should I do????? (link)
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You shouldnt care, i mean like dont let it get to you, cuz well the rumor will fade away sooner or later and if you dont want to be called a lesbo then dont do that "thing" at parties!
hope i helped
xoxo
~becca~
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ok so im goin to start off with the story..me and my boyfriend have been goin out for a year and 9 months...and this new gurl popped up in the picture and shes "just a friend"...and me im not liking this..well one night he left my house and acted like he was goin home and goes over to her house to show her his new car soo he says..well i fliped out and yelled at him..soo now its been about 2 months and this is still goin on and i have told him i didnt like it and to stop..but its like he doesnt care what i say they hug in the hall talk on the phone text eachother when im with him..and i cant take it anymore..i have tried to talk to her about it and told her she need to lay off but she just dont get it..i need to know what to do about this cause im all out of clues..please help me soon..thanks..--BabyGurl-- (link)
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dump him!
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I'm inviting 4 of my best friends over for a small group gathering party. We're going to the movies, which'll take up like 4 hours.. But do you guys have anymore ideas.. Thanks XO (link)
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Play truth or dare, bored games, go to the mall and shop, go out for something to eat, if its boys included..spin the bottle, lol jk, alot of things but id go to the mall and SHOP!!!
xoxo
~becca~
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(How many times has THIS question been asked?) Okay, my stepmother hates me, or rather, she hates my mother and takes it out on me. Everything I do is wrong to her. Once, my cousin and I were fighting over a pillow, and she tells me to stop pulling on the pillow or I'll rip it, and my cousin didn't get in trouble, even though he hit me several times. She insults my choice of clothing/music/accessories. She once told me my mother cheated on my father, and I know that isn't true. She used to go into my room and go through my stuff. It drives me insane. Does anyone have any advice? (link)
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What i would do is tell her to back off, and to leave you the hell alone..pick on someone her own size(lol) anyway..or you can talk to your dad about whats shes doing, or your mom.
xoxo
~becca~
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i have alot of friends and stuff, but iv just started to realize that they might not be as true as i thought. i love them but i hate them, they just seem not to care anymore. i also have people calling me a whore and a slut and stuff like that wenever i walk by because my "friends" tell them stuff thats not true. how do i avoid something like that..and how do i know if my friends are true? (link)
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Those "frens" of yours dont sound like good frens spreading rumors about you, just go out and make new ones, that actually are true and wont say soemthing thats not true.
xoxo
~becca~
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ok so i finally got the nerve to talk to my crush..and we talked about sports and about what school we go to..but we dont go to the same high school he goes to an all boy and i go an all girl school..so i want to know what else i could talk to him about and mayb get a good conversation going on with him..please help!!! (link)
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music and movies!
xoxo
~becca~
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I am sick with the flu and my grandmother want to give me some medicine that they used to use in her childhood days.Viniger and greentea.how can i get out of this?quick i am getting my next treatment in 30 minutes! (link)
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Be honest with your grandma but if you dont want to hurt her feelings then just tell her your alllergic to that or just dont like it..cuz it taste like shit!
Feel better:)
xoxo
~becca~
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this kid is trying to set up a relationship between me and my crush! he recently asked my crush are you talking to her? and my crush said yeah! should i be happy he is setting us up? and what's the deal with the whole "talking" thing? (i don't get it)
signed,
Confused-n-in Love (link)
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Dear confused-n-in love, of course you should be happy happy abou tthe setting up thing with the guy you like, and i think the reason he asked him if he was talking to you is becuz he wanted to knoe if he was avoiding you or anything..hope i helped :)
xoxo
~becca~
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Ok there is this girl at school..ill call her Kristen and we were like best friends in 5th and 6th grade and the beginning of 7th grade..we are now in 8th grade and i think Kristen hates my guts but im not really sure..but i still sorta wanna be Kristen's friend. My other friend ill call her Brittany..who is still my friend..is like best friends with Kristen. And whenever its just me and Kristen together..shes so mean to me and doesn't talk to me or anything. and whenever Brittany is around me and kristen..like we are all together..Kristen is super nice to me.. i think its because ive told brittany about kristen being like this and kristen doesn't want brittany to yell at her.I want us all to be friends..but i don't know how to because kristen is sorta 1 of the popular girls and im more in the middle and i don't know how to talk to the popular ppl. Sorry it was long..but does anyone have any ideas of how i could become friends with kristen? Or why she does is mean to me usually..but when brittany is there she isn't? Thanks in advance! (link)
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Just talk to kristen, and just because shes popular doesnt mean you have to talk to her differently then you would talk to someone who isnt as popular as her but anyway..just ask her whats her problem is with you and why she has multiple personalities meaning shes nice to you one time but mean to you another, which does not make sense. but if she doesnt understand or is still a bitch to you at times then just get over it, whats so good abot this girl whos rude to you usually, and why the hell would you wanna be frens with her? hope it works out but if it doesnt then there are other nice people in this world that woulnt act like her..hope i helped :)
xoxo
~becca~
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i am 13 years old an have two really good friends. One of my friends asked me and my other good friend over. we both could go so we were excited. but that day my good friend got invited to go somewhere else and told me and the girl whos house we were going to she couldnt come. She said she was leaving people out. And she had told the girl whos house we were going to she couldnt go. I think she should have come. And i need to talk to her about it. What do i say? (link)
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Ask her why she couldnt come..and if the only reason is to be w/ her other friends then well theres nothing you can do about it becuz she has other frens and its not only you and that girl whos house she didnt go to. Let it go..its not like she did something wrong even though u think she should of gone..i guess she wanted to go to her other frens house that time but maybe next time she wont cancel on you.
xoxo
~becca~
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My husband and I of 1.3 years of marriage got into a huge fight yesterday and he hit me several times, twice in the head. He kicked my butt real hard, threw something at my leg or my arm-can't remember which over something that was really stupid. I did say somethings I know I shouldn't have like I didn't love him, hated him and wanted a divorce. But does my saying those things warrant him hitting me? And that wasn't the first time. He normally hits me real hard on the legs when he gets real mad or he feels I've pushed his buttons.
Last night, he went to a motel with his son to get away and he would not talk to me at all. I didn't even know if we were going to be together. I was hurt and upset about the whole situation and did something real stupid. I filled out one of those eharmony personality profile things. I didn't chat with anyone or nothing like that. I just did it, don't know why. I was depressed and I did pop a lot of pills as I have tonight to try and sleep. None of it his an excuse. He found the eharmony thing today when he came back and now he won't have anything to do with me. I love him and want to work it out and I know I have to change also, not just him. All the times he's accused me of doing things I never ever did, I guess I just filled out that eharmony thing out of spite. He has called me a slut and a whore and that I'm so big now vaginally wise that no man could do me any good. I have apologized for filling out that personality profile. It was dumb of me. How can I save this marriage and convince him that I don't want anyone else, PERIOD. I love him and want to work this out more than anything in this world. Help me please. (link)
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I can see you love him very much but are you for sure he now has second thoughts or feels the same way about you..(im sry to say) but i dont think anyone whos normal would hit someone they love real hard, what kind of perosn would do that?
xoxo
~becca~
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I really really really hate my moms boyfriend and everyone thinks he's so nice and that im crazy but im not. It's hard to explain but what should I do! Im thinking of moving with my dad is that the right choice? I've talked to my mom but its like she wont listen she always tells me to be open minded but shes the one who need to know that I cry every night and I'm really hurt inside because I dont like him. please help!
-moms boyfriends a jerk
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Talk to your mom about her bf and tell her exactly what you think of that jerk..and if she doesnt listen or doesnt want to hear it then move in with your dad because you tried to talk to your mom and she chose her jerk bf over you..and since you cry everynight about him you SHOULD move in w/ your dad!
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Ok there's this girl she's my old girlfriend and i still like her but i don't know if she likes me and i like love her should i ask her back out or just let it go (link)
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Before you ask her anything, would go over the reason you both broke up..because that might help and let you realize if she feels the same way
xoxo
~becca~
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Since its winter time my face is getting very dry , does anyone know any good daily face moisturizers. Thanks (link)
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Keri, nivea cream are the creams i use, but only one thing, i use nutrogena(cant spell it sry)anyway..i got a rash from it so i definatly wont use that but i dunno about you, and i usually dont get rashes from anything cuz theres really nothing(that i know of) that im allergic 2.
hope i helped
xoxo
~becca~
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My ex-bf and I started talking again online. Sure, we worked everything out. It still feels funny when talking to him though, especially if I still like him, and he has no idea. Well last night, I asked him wut he was doing online, he told me he was talking to people and "his" girl. At first I thought, "is he refering to me?", but then I was like no, he can't be, he has another girl in his life. Well I was babysitting today and i was watching 3 kids play outside in the front, and what do you know...my ex comes walking down the street (he lives in my neighborhood) with 2 girls. I pretended not to even notice him because, look at me, I'm a loser babysitting, and look at him hanging out with girls from MY school and MY classes. I KNEW he saw me because right when he was in front of my house his face was no where near the direction in looking at me. So my questions are,
1) Should I ask him what he meant by "his" girl? I don't wanna look nosy though...can there be a way to make it sounds "non-nosy??"
2)Why didn't he even bother to say hi, or call my name, even if I wasn't looking his way?
Thanks soooo much
and you'd never guess who'd be asking this question...yes, I am a person on advicenators who gives advice :) (link)
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#1, i dont think you should ask him becuz there isnt a way that might seem non-nosy, you could find out da gossip from skool and just find out if hes going out with someone or not..#2,he probaly wanted to make you jealous and see your reaction with being with 2 other girls. u know since hes ur ex.#3, who cares if you give and get advice,no one has the answers to everything.
hope i helped
xoxo
~becca
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i want to gain more confidence and have an attitude that gives the impression that i don't give a damn what they say! anyone have any advice that would help me obtain this attitude? (link)
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keep your head up and think higly of urself, wear clothes that make you look hott!lol anyway..just dont take shit from people and dont let them get to you.
xoxo
~becca
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