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how do i find realy friends I moved to a new school in the 8th grade and i am now on 9th. I had really good friends but i let them go becuase they werent popular and i kno its sounds really dumb and shallow but thats how i used to think i really want to become friends with the popular girls and they arnt liek snobby or anythign they can keeo secrets and they r just as good as real friends. But i dont know how to become good friends with people anymore.
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omg babe i can totally relate, this same thing happend to me 7th through 8th grade. i was a wreck cause i didnt know who my TRUE friends were which i really wanted to find. Its okay to try to fit in..but dont be a bitch or act all cool and shit. I mean you should try to be yourself and not try to fit in cause maybe your just born to stand out! Just find who you are and be happy with it. i mean im sure not happy but i do have a good life! ]
That was stupid of you dumping good friends because they werent poular but just be yourself and surely youll find a group of people who youll be frens with but the shouldnt have to be popular..i mean cuz thats pretty dum, dont worry youll have friends sooner or later, like i said just be yourself.
xoxo
~becca~ ]
Ok, that was really really really dumb of you. Choose ur friends by interest, not by "popularity" because thats nothing. ]
You messed up there and I don't know what to tell you ]
ok..I am not going to call u a bitch or w/e but I think I am doing the same thing... I am popular and my friends r sometimes a bitch to me.. I have other friends but they rn't as popular, but treat me better... so if u just wanna talk im me on texasluvinboy or email on kaydeeurbaby@hotmail.com -Kaydee ]
Ok im sorry but that is really bitchy! Im not saying you a bad person but you dont need to be popular just as long as they care about you would you rather have friends that care about you or would you just rather be popular, to tell you the truth in high school people think the popular people are losers, so don't sweat it hun just introduce yourself talk to people anyone is good you need a friend ]
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