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Friends are cheap!
i have alot of friends and stuff, but iv just started to realize that they might not be as true as i thought. i love them but i hate them, they just seem not to care anymore. i also have people calling me a whore and a slut and stuff like that wenever i walk by because my "friends" tell them stuff thats not true. how do i avoid something like that..and how do i know if my friends are true?
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Those "frens" of yours dont sound like good frens spreading rumors about you, just go out and make new ones, that actually are true and wont say soemthing thats not true.
xoxo
~becca~
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those arent true friends hun...if they are going around spreading rumors about u that arent even true they are not ur real friends and i suggest getting new ones...feel free to IM me with anymore questions.
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Guess what, sweetie, here's the story: You go to school without a friend in the world. Then all through the years you make like a billion friends. Then you find yourself walking out of high school with like a friend or two that you might stay in touch with through college. It sucks. I used to have so many friends and now I am 6 years out of high school and I only talk to like 1. and barely. It's just the sad facts of life. And you're right: most of your "friends" are probably not very good friends. They will lie, cheat, and steel and they laugh with fingers pointed in your face. The important thing is, and my advice is to stay true to yourself, make sure YOU are being a good friend and will be sure you will be remembered that way. :)
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If your friends were true then they wouldnt say that stuff about you. Maybe they are jealous about something. you should tlak to them and if it keeps happening then forget about them and make new friends maybe you out grown them.
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Well obviously they are not tru friends I would talk to them about and ask them why they are calling you a slut and stuff liek that...nd start to hang out wit some new ppl..even if there kinda geeky they ll prob treat u soo much better!!
good luck to ya
(( xo-Kalene-ox))
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I am having the same problems.. I feel like I dont have any friends any more.. but there r some out there that dont do that shit too you.. im sorry :(
Kaydee
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One thing (and you'll probably hear this alot) is talk to them. i HATE when my friends get mad because someone they barely even know tells them i was talking bad behind your back. there's only one person who knows the truth- you friend. but dont get angry or she might lie. also, a true friend u can always tell is by the little things. Like if you make plans and she/ he dosent ditch you. or even just remebering your birthday or getting you something for christmas. it sounds shallow but its not the present- even just a card- its the thought. hope that helped!
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well look.. girls are bakstabbing liars.. like.. seriously.. ugh.. i cant stand girls.. l0l.. i learned mai lesson in 7th when allll mai friends did that to me.. but.. what i did.. and it took a while.. was.. i dropped those friends... and made new ones.. because those friends werent helping me at al!!
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