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moms freakin boyfriend
I really really really hate my moms boyfriend and everyone thinks he's so nice and that im crazy but im not. It's hard to explain but what should I do! Im thinking of moving with my dad is that the right choice? I've talked to my mom but its like she wont listen she always tells me to be open minded but shes the one who need to know that I cry every night and I'm really hurt inside because I dont like him. please help!
-moms boyfriends a jerk
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now this advise is hard to do but try it.
talk to the dude and tell him you have a promblem
with him and work it out.
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Try talking to your mom in a mature way and explain to her the things that bothers you about him and maybe she can help you to tolerate him more or she can help him to not do those things around you.
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Talk to your mom about her bf and tell her exactly what you think of that jerk..and if she doesnt listen or doesnt want to hear it then move in with your dad because you tried to talk to your mom and she chose her jerk bf over you..and since you cry everynight about him you SHOULD move in w/ your dad!
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Tell your mom exactly why you think he's a jerk. If she doesn't understand, move in with your dad. She shouldn't be choosing a guy over her kid. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
Happy New Years!
~*Erin*~
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omg, its the same thing for me too! my moms bf is a total jerk and i dont like him, i tell my mom i dont but im still nice to the guy because i know that my mom likes him and im thinking of her not myself. you shouldn't cry because of this one guy, and i dont think moving in with your dad is going to make anything better between you and ur moms bf. try to like him, give him a chance, hes helping your mom being a single parent and your mom likes him, give him a chance! xox Renee
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of course your gonna see this guy in a different way than everyone else- hes your moms new boyfriend, enough said. don't let anyone call you crazy. as long as you've given this guy a chance, than you have been open minded. if your crying every night, and hurting inside, you obviously feel something about this guy that others don't. which is absolutely okay. just because they don't feel that way doesn't mean its no alright for you to. if your that unhappy, maybe moving to your dads for now is the right decision, at least for now. if you move in with your dad, make sure you go spend time at your moms frequently. maybe when your not living with her boyfriend, you'll see him in a different way.
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Well its your moms boyfriend so yeah. I dont think she'd wanna leave him. Why dont you move in with your dad if you hate her boyfriend so much. them, their wont be as many problems! Talk to your mom about what you wanna do and see what she says:)
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