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I'm gonna get straight to the point.My dad hates me he said it himself he told me last yr. in New Years Day that he was gonna make it hell for me and he kept his promise now he's doing the same thing this year.Im 14/f and I'm really tired of it.And my sister doesn't make it any better because she looks through my things constantly I can't hide anything cause she finds it and uses it against me.She is 2 years younger and makes life living hell for me.My older brother is going to the Army soon and he barly is never there and me and him don't get along.Then there is my mom she doesnt understand all she can say is calm down be patient and soon this will end.PLZ HELP what can I do.Thank you on advance.
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well if your not shy or anything go talk to your school counciler!! i think that would deffenetly help alot.. or talk to someone you trust thats an adult so they have the power to do something!!!!!!!!!!! no dad can hate their son!! does he have a drinking problem because my mom and grandfather were both like that but now that my dad doesnt drink hes better and a better person but my grandfather still says he hates people that he loves the most and beats my grandmother soo yeah umm i.m me if you want to talk jilliix3
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why does your dad feel that way? like did something happen? depending on what it was or something...talk 2 him about it...why does he want to make your life hell? tell him its really hurting you and stuff, and talk to someone that your close to about it also.
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Figure out why your dad % s" you so much. Try to bring something up that both of you enjoy and over time get comfortable enough around him to bring up the time that he said this. ask him if he ment it...or if it was just something he said at the moment when he was angry. Talk to your sister. Tell her to stay out of your room, or just put things that you hid in a different place (not in your room). I would suggest talking to your mom about her input on how things are in the family. Ask your mom if you can go somewhere (out to eat) alone with her, and ask her about your father. Find out about his past. maybe there is a reason for this.
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Maybe you should talk to your mom, and explain it to her more in detail. Also, you should tell your sister to stop going through your stuff.
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I know how you feel, my dad said something similar to me too, but my parents are divorced so my mom helped me out. But in your case, idk. All I can say is to have faith in God and trust that he will get you through all of this. Srry I couldn't help more.
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Oh geez hunny,Talk to a counslor you need to tell someone!And get out of that house for a couple weeks to put yourself back together.Like with a close friend or a close relative.Hunny I hope it works out and feel free to IM me on CoKeIzZle X 13 or ask me anything you want!GoD BlESs!Hope i helped!XoXo NiCoLe P.S Try prayers!
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Geez, it makes you wish you could put yourself up for adoption eh? I'd call social services in your State and tel them the problem. Find out if you can be placed in foster care or legally moved to a relative's home. Living with that kind of stress is going to lead you down a path of bad self-esteem problems. Keep your chin up and KNOW that you're a good person, despite how your Dad treats you. Just be yourself, and keep clear of him as much as possible, try not to make waves. Easier said than done, but you CAN do it. Do your best in school, keep away from damaging habits, prove to the world that you can overcome his treatment, that you deserve to be treated with respect. Best of luck!
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I think you should get out of there. Any dad who says "im going to make it hell for you" obviously has some problems and issues to work out. Its not fair to you to keep living there. Tell your mom NO it wont end..and i want out. Try living with a friend,relative, etc.
-melissa
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Try to see if you can live with a relative. Aunts, uncles, cousins, grandparents, or godparents. Maybe even a close friend? Time apart from your dad will make him realize how stupid he's being. You'll get along eventually, but it'll take time. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
Happy New Years!
~*Erin*~
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why dont you try to find a relative or a friend to live with, me and my dad didnt really get along but its getting better..who knows maybe somehting will hit him in the head and he will realize how stupid hes being
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