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this is for those of you who are stuck or just worried about something in your life. nows the time to ask me about it. you can just tell me a story, a past time, or how your life is going. but please if you wish to remain anonomyous (SP) then DO NOT use your name. you can make something up or not put anything at all. I will answer your questions quickly and to the best of my knowledge. if you would like to IM me instead then do so. thank you.

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Hey Kraigers!!! What do you do when you are in love with one guy that you have been with for like a really long time and he knows you like better than you even know yourself and then his best friend likes you and wants to go out with you?? Because the guy I'm in love with wants to go to the movies with me on Friday and his friend wants to go to the movies with me on Saturday and I like both of them but it's kinda hoeish of me..lol you know. So, do I keep trying to get the love of my life back or go for the sexy friend with the beautiful eyes?? Tell me what you think! Love you!!

AHHH MY FAVORITE PERSON!!! hmm. well i think that you should give this new guy a try. you have been with corey for soo long. and how many times have you dumped him or vise versa (SP) YOU NEED SOMETHING NEW. i mean it has been like what a year at the least. i think it is time for you to try new ppl. so go with the "friend with the beautiful eyes" and if it dosnt work out then ohh well you tried right. but i mean. i dont define love as someone you call names talk about.. or some one who talks about you. or does those bad things.....COUGH* *COUGH!!

either way shelliee. i know you will make the right descion. i love you!

xixixBIGREDxixix

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Why hasn't anyone had a fitness question??!!? It's gotta be only the GREATEST category EVER!
So, here goes nothin':

Hooooooooow do I stay fit !?

=) *Jessica

( I only did this because I wanted there to be a question in the fitness category and because you just have such grand advice Kraig! )

JESSICA!! thankyou for asking such an unasked question. :) it gives me great pleasure to tell you that you can stay fit by....IDK!! dont ask me!! hahahah..wait maybe you can eat healthy and do some excersises (SP?) but dont like go anerexic (SP) on me or anything!!!

:) one for FITNESS
xixixBIGREDxixix

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ok. i really like this guy but he told me that he thinks i am one of his best friends! but i know dreams don't matter much but i have had some really good dreams about him that have put me in the best moods and have made me so happy. only one thing everything in the dream never really happened. i just want to believe it did. well i always tell people and myself that i don't like him . but the thing is I DO. i just don't want to so i'm telling myself i don't because i don't want to get hurt by thinking i may get him when i never will. i can't just wait for him and not give up because he told me that he just sees me as being a friend and he doesn't want to hurt me cause he knows he would. i appeciate him caring for my emotions BUT he can't tell me if i want to go through being hurt or not. i know i don't but i would and want to take the chance because i like him that much. please help me. besides this guy i like someone else but thats not the point.
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Since i am giving advice and some of my experiences as a guy, please dont be offended by this advice. I think that infact this guy dosnt like you, he is just saying that he does because he is to much of a Derk to tell you. Im saying this because i have done this myself. and i have told ppl that i would hurt them if i ever went out with them just so i wouldnt have to tell them the truth (that i actualy didnt like them). But maybe i am wrong, in that case, tell this guy that you dont care if you get hurt. life is short and you dont wanna pass something like this up. SIMPLY: just tell him how you feel. Ask him to be completly honest with you and that it dosnt matter what the outcome is. you just wanna try it out.

:) xixixBIGREDxixix

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I didn't know what to put this under. My mom and I want to help out with the tsunami disaster by sending $, but my mom doesn't think it'll help. Like it won't be enough. What do you think? Should we send the money or no?
Thanks

SEND THE MONEY! anyway that you can help out others is awesome. Even a dollar will help. Something is better then nothing and im sure if your mom had been in the path of that tsunami she would think the same. You can go to any bank and donate as much money as you would like 100% of the proceeds will go to help the Tsunami Disaster Fund.

:) xixixBIGREDxixix

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ok i am best friends with a really popular girl but it seems like everytime we hang out she wants to invite guys along. It can never be just us hanging out as a girls night. I think that maybe shes just using me. What should i do?

Simply ask her. Tell her that one night you want it to be just "the gurls" see what she says, and how she takes it. This is probably her "boy crazy" faze. Dont let it get to you too much.

:) xixixBIGREDxixix

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(How many times has THIS question been asked?) Okay, my stepmother hates me, or rather, she hates my mother and takes it out on me. Everything I do is wrong to her. Once, my cousin and I were fighting over a pillow, and she tells me to stop pulling on the pillow or I'll rip it, and my cousin didn't get in trouble, even though he hit me several times. She insults my choice of clothing/music/accessories. She once told me my mother cheated on my father, and I know that isn't true. She used to go into my room and go through my stuff. It drives me insane. Does anyone have any advice?

it sounds like you need to ignore her. From my experience she is only doing it to make you mad, and if you show your anger she will know that its working and only get worse. talk to your father about what she is telling you. Write times and dates that she says these things so that you will have proof. But i would simply do what she says. if it is necassary to argue with her on it then do so, but dont take it to a serious level. if you act more mature then her, she will see how much of a child she is being (hopefully).

:) xixixBIGREDxixix

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I cant ever find the right guy for me. Most guys get mad becuase i always turn them down and they think i do it to make myself look to good for them. I just want to be with someone that i can tlak to and someone i find attractive someone who can make me laugh and someone who i can have a good time with. I cant seem to find anyone out there.

My advice: keep looking. if you just give up then you will never find anyone. its good that you are listening to your heart and not falling into pressure. There are plenty of guys that have the qualaties that you are looking for. so dont give up now. Give someone you wouldnt expect to be your type a try. You never know what might happen. he maybe be the "one" you were looking for in the first place.

:) xixixBIGREDxixix

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i am on the cheerleading team for alternate this year because i have never cheered before. All the popular girls are on this team but they girls i want to become friends with dont want to be my friend they just act like it. Im friends with all the wrong people because i just dont liek them i want to be friends with different peope and i know exactly who but i just dont know how.

okay well. cheerleading huh? okay, this is how i felt at the beggining of the year. i was friends with all the ppl i didnt like. so i got out of this by just talking to the ones who didnt like me. they will eventually see the real you and become friends with you. Dont seem desperate though. DESPERATION IS NOT HOTT!!! just act like you dont care. it will take some time but be patient.

:) xixixBIGREDxixix (if i didnt help then use more detail and ask me again :) )

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I am 14 and a freshen in high school. I live in a small town where girls have been friends since they first started school and they dont really like to hang out with anybody but their crew. The popular girls share a lot of the same interests as I do and I really want to become friends with them but they seem as if they could care less. Most guys say I am wicked hot and thats what I though it took to become popular.I want to know how to become close friends with the popular girls also want to know how to become popular.
Sincerly,
Danigurl

wow. this is exactly what i felt like this year. I wanted to be friends with all the popular guys and gurls. So i worked my way up. become friends with anyone. they know ppl. so they will introduce you to others. and eventually you will be at the top. it was hard for me at first but now i have LOADS of friends. about the guys: try not to "steal" anyone one from anyone. just lay low until you get to the top. it worked for me.

:) xixixBIGREDxixix

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I'm gonna get straight to the point.My dad hates me he said it himself he told me last yr. in New Years Day that he was gonna make it hell for me and he kept his promise now he's doing the same thing this year.Im 14/f and I'm really tired of it.And my sister doesn't make it any better because she looks through my things constantly I can't hide anything cause she finds it and uses it against me.She is 2 years younger and makes life living hell for me.My older brother is going to the Army soon and he barly is never there and me and him don't get along.Then there is my mom she doesnt understand all she can say is calm down be patient and soon this will end.PLZ HELP what can I do.Thank you on advance.

to: Outsider

Figure out why your dad % s" you so much. Try to bring something up that both of you enjoy and over time get comfortable enough around him to bring up the time that he said this. ask him if he ment it...or if it was just something he said at the moment when he was angry. Talk to your sister. Tell her to stay out of your room, or just put things that you hid in a different place (not in your room). I would suggest talking to your mom about her input on how things are in the family. Ask your mom if you can go somewhere (out to eat) alone with her, and ask her about your father. Find out about his past. maybe there is a reason for this.

:) xixixBIGREDxixix

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Okay, so some of you may remember me asking a question about going out with a guy 2 days after I broke up with another one. Well, I took that advice and now Ricky and I have been dating upwards of a month.

But lately I've been having second thoughts! Like, everyone I talk to says that we make a weird couple, and I'm starting to agree with them! Like, he's the Great American Redneck (seriously), with almost the entire stereotype of the word! He goes hunting, fishing, drinking, and wears camoflage(sp?) to school, and is in LOVE with country music. He wants to be a mechanic, loves racing and cars. He's like, the complete OPPOSITE of my type. AND he's obsessed with me!

And I'm so much different. I'm the, I guess you could say, rocker chick/goth. I do like country music, but I'd take a good metal/rock song over a country song any day of the week. I can't STAND hunting or camping of any kind, and I will not TOUCH beer. Yes, I'd love to know how to change a tire and possibly fix a few common engine malfunctions, but other than that, I really don't care much about cars. If it runs, GOOD. If it doesn't, OH WELL.

It's not that I don't like him, 'cause I really do. It's just that he's so different from me, and I'm just not sure. I've never dated someone like him. All the guys I've dated have pretty much been "bad boys" or something like that.

My question is, should I stay with him despite our differences? I do like him, but it's just... Strange.

to: too different?

YES! absolutley. if you like this "redneck" guy then nothing should get in the way of that. Like they say "opposites attract". Life is way to short to pass up a chance like this. Dont let what others think mess with your heart. Listen to what your heart says, not your eyes, or your friends. One thing that i have learned to do over the years is look past the outside and INTO others "souls". If you truly like this guy then dont let anything stop you from having a relationship.

:) xixixBIGREDxixix

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Ok there is this guy and he is 25 and i am 14 we were together for a while but then we had to break up because my mom called the police on him.. we still talk but last weekend I lied to him and he started yelling at me about how I can't stop lying to him... I have written him emails saying I am sorry.. But in an email he sent back to me he said he didnt want ne thing to do with me.. he wrote me back saying that maybe he would be with me.. but not for a while.. should I just give up on him or should I still be friends????

to: should i let him go??

25? thats like illegal! either way, you and him should not be together. you need to find someone your age. someone that you can relate to. A 25 year old is not what you need at 14 years old. You can be friends, but i wouldnt let it go farther then that. You need to keep looking, as a 14 year old myself i know that there are alot more options out there.

:) xixixBIGREDxixix

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Haha, I am only asking this because you told me to.


How do I make an enchiladda???

I hope you give good advice, cuz I need a lot of help with this one!lol

Kels

Ingredients:

1 pound ground beef

16 ounce can diced tomatoes

6 ounce can tomato paste

1/2 cup water

1/2 cup chopped onion

1 tablespoon chili powder

salt and pepper to taste

8 ounce package soft tortillas

8 ounces shredded cheddar cheese

Oil

Method:

Brown and drain meat. Add tomatoes, tomato paste, water, onion, and seasonings and simmer for 10 minutes. Fry tortillas in hot oil just until softened, and drain.

Place rounded tablespoon-full of meat sauce and cheese on each tortilla and roll up. Place seam side down in pan.

Top with remaining sauce and cheese. Cover with foil and bake at 375 degrees for 25 minutes.

i hope this helped "kels" :)

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