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should I let him go??
Ok there is this guy and he is 25 and i am 14 we were together for a while but then we had to break up because my mom called the police on him.. we still talk but last weekend I lied to him and he started yelling at me about how I can't stop lying to him... I have written him emails saying I am sorry.. But in an email he sent back to me he said he didnt want ne thing to do with me.. he wrote me back saying that maybe he would be with me.. but not for a while.. should I just give up on him or should I still be friends????
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I see it like this your only 14 years old and that is not even right..That kind of age does not belong with a 25 year old man I think your mom did do the right thing by calling the police on him.. If you was my kid I would beat your ass and his..along with it.. Because all older guys want from younger girls is to get in their pants...You might have not had sex with him but I know it will happen sooner or later.. you don't need to be talking to this 25 year old much less dateing him...hes is way to old for you and you shouldnt even be friends with this guy because there is a such thing as rape...and thats what its called even if he hugs you, kisses you or even holds your hand! He's only acting like hes mad at you to make you be more interested in him and if i were you i would find someone my own age. i hope this may have gotten through to you because other wise you would end up hurt, or killed by this dude, or raped, or pregnant, i dont care if yall havent had sex yet..theres a such thing as pressering someone into doing anything with them,.Signed-Nikki & Heather
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If hes going to be changing his mind every minute and getting mad, then its not worth saying sorry over and over again and begging him to be friends with you again. I think you should let him go because first of all, hes 11 years older than you....
♥Shelby
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sorry but that is just sick he is a grown man ya find someone your own age hun trust me you will forget about him in no time well good luck
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Hun your 14 and hes 25! Thats way against the law there to have anything to do with him in the first place. I mean no offense but probaly the only reason he got with you is to touch your goodies if you know what i mean. I would give up on him and find a better guy around your age.
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This dude sounds like an asshole. If i was you i wouldnt be anything more den friendz. Good luck hun. *Everybodiiez_Fool*
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What would a 25 year old and a 14 year old possibly have in common?
The reasons why I think you should let him go:
A) Your relationship would be illegal (if you ever got back together)
B) His intentions are not sounding true to me
C) you should listen to your mother.
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if your 14 where in the world would you meet a 25 year old guy to go out with . i'd just forget him . he's a loser if he's 25 and wants to go out with a 14 year old ... if you were ever caught togethet your mother would probably kill you and i dont blame her
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25? thats like illegal! either way, you and him should not be together. you need to find someone your age. someone that you can relate to. A 25 year old is not what you need at 14 years old. You can be friends, but i wouldnt let it go farther then that. You need to keep looking, as a 14 year old myself i know that there are alot more options out there.
:) xixixBIGREDxixix
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well..if he's being mean to your or something..i'd jus stop talking to him and leave it at where it ended. but if he is still sincere and is still as nice as he was when you first met..stay friends. keep your options open for guys ur age though too!
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I don't know, he sounds pretty immature for a 25 year old. At least if you were to date a 25 year old, be sure that it's the real deal. But usually those guys dating younger girls aren't anything to rant and rave about. They can turn out to be deceiving, abusive, lying, immature people. Just a head's up. If he started yelling at you, that's not a good sign. You can be friends with him if you want, but that could still be a danger zone. I would steer clear if I were you, but it's up to you. Real, good friends are the people your own age that you grow with, learn with, experience life with, and later there will be one that you fall in love with. My advice would be to forget that old scary guy and pay close attention to the people who are at your eye level that care about you. Your mom called the cops for a reason. Older guys dating really younger girls are just bad news. Give up before you develop any strong, attaching feelings for him, it could be a big mess. Hope you do the right thing, good luck!! :)
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I'd give up hes way to old for you rite now..maybe when your older things would work out but you cant run after someone whos just not into you at the moment..i bet you hes moving on i sugest you do to...good luck hun
((xO-Kalene-Ox))
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Twenty-five and fourteen... Quite a gap there... I think you guys should just be friends... Be careful hunny. Good luck.
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ok think about it your 14 hes 25. He is not worth your time he just wants a piece of ass. he has gone through everything that you havnt yet. Wouldnt you want a guy that is atleast you age and someone who your parents can trust. Give up on him but still talk once someone is in your life you shouldnt bud them out.
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