Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


long distance


Question Posted Friday December 31 2004, 8:22 pm

ok there is this guy I really like and he really likes me we talk sometimes but only over the internet because I live in wisconsin and he lives in new jersey... I really like him and I asked him to come visit me for the summer.. he said he would love to and he will plan on it... I really like him but is this bad??

I am 14
He is 18


[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?


xxBrOkEnxx answered Saturday January 1 2005, 1:20 pm:
well he could be older like hes a stalker or something people on the internet are sometimes dangerous...like he could maybe rape you but thats just a thought..so just be careful

[ xxBrOkEnxx's advice column | Ask xxBrOkEnxx A Question
]




inlovewifnoone answered Saturday January 1 2005, 7:23 am:
No its nto bad at all...the only thing is do u know if it is really him like have u seen him on webcam...that is the only way to know for sure if it is him...Get back to me and let me knows plz...~*~Sabina~*~

[ inlovewifnoone's advice column | Ask inlovewifnoone A Question
]



Miss_Adriauna04 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 7:06 am:
No that's not bad that you like him..but going to see him is! If you don't know him and he is 18 and your 14 then yeah that is...Why don't you change it to him come to see you where you live with your parents.

[ Miss_Adriauna04's advice column | Ask Miss_Adriauna04 A Question
]



Babiegurl12 answered Saturday January 1 2005, 1:14 am:
how do u know each other. you said only online. but you make it seem like you met somewhere else. does he know you like him and does he really like you
theres consequences

[ Babiegurl12's advice column | Ask Babiegurl12 A Question
]



sshelbyy answered Friday December 31 2004, 10:53 pm:
If I were you, I wouldnt get involved with an internet relationship, especially with someone over 18. I mean, its great if yall wanna talk over the internet and stuff, but it isnt safe to invite someone who youve never met to your house. There have been murders and rapes that happened because of internet "friends". The only circumstance in which it would be fine if he came over would be if your parents said yes. And if they were there with you adn him teh WHOLE time.

<p>&hearts; Shelby

[ sshelbyy's advice column | Ask sshelbyy A Question
]



beyonda1 answered Friday December 31 2004, 9:19 pm:
you have to make sure that he isn't lieing to you.
you really young and he's a mature person ,but if u really into him and he's into you ,I don't see the problem,but you have to be ready for the worse he may come and not be what you expected.talk to him more,if he's as sweet as you describe him not a problem.Just be careful.I hope I helped.good luck and the best of everything.

[ beyonda1's advice column | Ask beyonda1 A Question
]



BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS answered Friday December 31 2004, 9:07 pm:
yes tht is bad, you dont know him and even thought you think you tottaly do you may not, he might just wan sex and stuff, has he ever even seen you? i dont know it sounds fishy. dont get yourself into something that you cant get out of

[ BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS's advice column | Ask BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS A Question
]



ICE11BLUE answered Friday December 31 2004, 9:05 pm:
Well, you're just at the legal line there. This should be up to your parents especially if online is where you "met" him. Do not do anything behind your parents backs because you could find yourself in a lot of trouble, not by them, but you shouldn't trust just some dude from the internet even if you've seen his picture. But if you're talking about someone you already know but online is your way of communication, then yeah, it's still up to your parents. Be careful, anyone can take on any kind of personality in internet world. Just be cool, use caution, and make sure you're not doing anything behind your parents backs.

[ ICE11BLUE's advice column | Ask ICE11BLUE A Question
]



xOButtErflyKiSsEsOx answered Friday December 31 2004, 8:35 pm:
You guys live really far away but i have a long distance relationship to but its only like an hour away and we ve been going out for 8 months but we are the same age...umm it depends if u ever met him before he may seem rele sweet but hes 18 hes into alot more things then you like sex mi friend got into something like this and was rapped..i think that you should try to find some guys around where you live meet up wit him this summer and see how things go but follow yur heart<3 good luck babe
((xO-Kalene-Ox))

[ xOButtErflyKiSsEsOx's advice column | Ask xOButtErflyKiSsEsOx A Question
]

More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: music
Next Question >>> should I let him go??

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

What happened here with my gamer friends?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker