Member Since: December 31, 2004
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Last Update: January 4, 2005
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hey..ok so here's the problem..i've liked this guy Chris for like Ever. he was going out w/ my friend for about two months and i had liked him the whole time. they broke up awhile ago, and i just found out he likes me. and one of my friends was talking to him and he said he'd ask me out. and i dont know if i wanna go out w/ him..i mean i've liked him for so long and i still Really like him..but we have this Fun Flirty friendship that i deff. don't wanna lose. and i'm scared that if we go out, and break up that we'll be all akward and not even talk to eachother..but i've liked him for so long and i dont think i could turn him down! ahhhh Help pleaseee! I Rate!! xOxO (link)
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i would say if you've liked him for so long and now hes starting to come around and realize that he likes you that way too, then go for it. Even if you guys do break up, at least you knew you took that chance with being with him... cause if you dont do it you might regret it for a really long time and always wonder what if...? and you musta seen how he was in a relationship with one of your friends so you'll know that much more about him. it could be a really close and good relationship if you choose to go with it. i would deff. go out with the kid exspecially if ive liked him for a longgg time. As for your fun flirty friendship that you really like... im shure that if you break up your lil flirt kick will come back. Thats what happens with alla my friends who are all flirty all the time. So there shouldnt be much to worry about just go out and have funn and see how things go!
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okay its always like i have to call my boyfriend or else we dont talk till like night time...he calls to say goodnight...but to make plans...it seems like i ALWAYS have to call him...and today im doing nothing till the nighttime and i want to call him because waiting for him to call me is just a waste of time...but then again i dont think i should call him...i called him yesterday to make plans and the day before...and we love hangin out we have so much fun...but its me who always has to call first...should i call him? (link)
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Deff. quit calling him for a while. if he really wants to hang out with you, he'll call. You dont want to look too needy. Dont wait around all day for his calls. go out and do stuff, its nott worth wasting the best days of your life on a boy thats nott calling you cause his priorities arent straight.
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you could try talking to him about how you feel when he doesnt call you ever to make plans. things might do a turn around and u might see a nice change. tell him how good it would feel if he would just arrange sumthing 4 u 2 do sumtime.
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Theres this boy I like, Josh. I have liked him since the school year started and we've been flirting like crazy. My friends say that he's really crushin on me because when other guys flirt with me, he gets all bothered and defensive. All my friends keep asking me if me and him are going out yet and even my TEACHER(gym class, only class I have with Josh) asks me and Josh continually if me and Josh are boyfriend/girlfriend. He even told us to get married over the weekend. Everyone thinks me and him like each other and are either going to, or are secretly going out. Now, even after all this, I was and kind of still am unsure of his feelings. I know he flirts with me a lot and he acts differently around me than around girls. Since the beginning of the year, too. Thats about 4½ months. We talk on the phone and he's just sweet and funny and goofy around me. Now, what I want to do is ask him to the dance coming up but I don't know how to exactly ask him so that I won't be directly letting him know I like him but still letting him know I do, in a way. If that makes sense. I mean, in a way, where, if he doesn't like me like that, I can easily deny it and be believable. Im really confused about all of this and I really want to go out with him. We danced at homecoming and we already act like we go together already..I just want my daydreams to come true but I don't know what to do. How can I "test" and make sure he likes me without him getting any idea? What "signs" should I definately look out for? Any advice would be strongly appreciated. Thanks. (link)
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Allright, for the dance thing... you should ask him to go with you and a bunch of friends, but you being his date. and if he agrees to do so, then see if he acts the same way with you throughout the night as he usually does. if he doesnt its because hes around everyone and that will be a shure sign that you 2 are just friends or just flirt buddies. You deff dont want a guy who acts 2 or 3 different ways, so that will help you out too for thought.
Then if you dont gett up enough balls to ask him to the dance, then just come out and say that you like him n tell him you dont wanna keep liking him if the feelings arent mutual.then you should know the truth.
good luck
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Okay heres the deal, I have this huge crush on this guy and he already knows and since hes known hes been extra nice to me (i guess hes trying to make me feel special or something which is nice but whatever)anyway he got mad at me because my friend called him like a millon times when I wasnt looking on my house phone and he knows my last name but thats all cleared up now because i talked to him and now were friends again. I have his cell # and home phone # so Im asking....Is it okay if I call him? ~Jacki (link)
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allright, dont act like you didnt know that your friend was calling him. you were probly sittin there dialing the number for her over and over again. so dont try n pull that one off, and if that guys smart enough hed realize that thats what you were doing. Dont fucking obsess over the guy and call him over and over. Let him call you (from my own experiences). If he calls you then it shows that he actually WANTS to talk 2 you, then take it from there. Dont call him first, it'll make u seem kind of desperate.
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