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hey..ok so here's the problem..i've liked this guy Chris for like Ever. he was going out w/ my friend for about two months and i had liked him the whole time. they broke up awhile ago, and i just found out he likes me. and one of my friends was talking to him and he said he'd ask me out. and i dont know if i wanna go out w/ him..i mean i've liked him for so long and i still Really like him..but we have this Fun Flirty friendship that i deff. don't wanna lose. and i'm scared that if we go out, and break up that we'll be all akward and not even talk to eachother..but i've liked him for so long and i dont think i could turn him down! ahhhh Help pleaseee! I Rate!! xOxO
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you should defenatly go out with him if you really like him thje you should go for it i hope i helped please rate
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I know what you are tlaking about, anout your fun flirty friendship, but it seems like you realy like him , so i think you should just go out wiht him, if you do go out and then break up just try to still talk to him and be friends, it might be wierd at first but then later on youll still like talk to him like you used to, if that made any sense at all. but thats what happened to me last year. If i was in your place,which i was last year) i say go out wiht the kid if you really liek him. Hope i helped and good luck.:)
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okay flirting is fun... but this is really up to you...if you like him alot..then go 4 it...as for the okward thing...yeah every one is after they first break up...you get over it though
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go out with him
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I would go for it! and if u are scared to whatever to lose your friendship with him then dont... it what you want and your heart to feel.. cause i can understand you like this dude and you should try it but if u dont wanna lose he's friendship then dont..all i am saying it to choose what is best for you...
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take a risk! go for it gurl you liked him forever and who knows? maybe hes your guy!! so i would go for it.. and if things dont work then they dont and hopefully you can still be friends... hope i've helped! =)
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i would say if you've liked him for so long and now hes starting to come around and realize that he likes you that way too, then go for it. Even if you guys do break up, at least you knew you took that chance with being with him... cause if you dont do it you might regret it for a really long time and always wonder what if...? and you musta seen how he was in a relationship with one of your friends so you'll know that much more about him. it could be a really close and good relationship if you choose to go with it. i would deff. go out with the kid exspecially if ive liked him for a longgg time. As for your fun flirty friendship that you really like... im shure that if you break up your lil flirt kick will come back. Thats what happens with alla my friends who are all flirty all the time. So there shouldnt be much to worry about just go out and have funn and see how things go!
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well frieship is more important, if this is how you feel, then you really need to let him know by telling him how you feel, that you never want to lose you friendship over this relationship. you can always just go out as friends to. hope i helped!
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ok,
just tell your boy how you feel and see what he says.or tell him nicely pull him to the side and say "hey i really need to talk to you"and tell him that you dont ever want to lose his friendship cause you guys are really good friends and tell him that if he plans on not to talk to you when you guys do go out then you rather be good friends and nothing more. hopefully he'll exept the fact and thats happened to me before and thats how i handled it. well good luck and hopefully everything works out!!!!!!!!!
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ok. im going to tell you what i have told so many others before.. YES! go out w/ him! do it! why not.. its always worth the risk if you really like him! and he likes you.. i mean do it!
If you dont risk anything, You risk even more!!!
Hope this helps :)
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Hey, Well it was the same thing with me and my bes friend. I liked this guy and we hooked up and all and then she started liking him and they went out...I was so mad at her! But they broke up which was a relief for me! Then there was this guy I was best friends and we went out and now we dont even talk anymore and its so akward. I suggust that if he does ask you out just tell him that "we have such a great friendship I dont want to ruin it. I hope you understand" That is the best way to put it. Hope I helped!
x0x kasia x0x
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i would say go out with him if i were you, because how many chances are you going to get with chris? like seriously, i think you should look at this and think that its a good thing that he might ask you out, bc in the end i know you'll regret it if you say no. trust me hun. i think you should take your chance and go out with him, and most likely you guys will still be really good friends if you guys ever broke up. x0
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First of all I would talk to your friend that went out with this guy, explain the feelings that both of you seem to have for eachother and that you are considering dating him. Do this to prevent a problem down the road if you two do date. Then sit down with this guy and honestly tell him that you like him and have for a while but that you are hesitant about dating because of the friendship that you two share. Listen to his thoughts on this as well. He might have the same fears. Tell him that you will give the relationship a try only if you two can make a pact to maintain the friendship no matter what happens (I cant promise that this pact will work but it is worth a try). I really think that you can have a wonderful relationship with him but time really is the best judge.
In a nutshell, I think that you should give him a try. All good relationships start out as friendships. Follow your heart on this one. Best Wishes!
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OMG!! I've liked one of My best guy friends for sooo long, and the same thing happened with me!!
If you are so close then you will still be friends/ comfortable to work it out even if you break up!!
Hoppy new year! :) L.M
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Well, first thing I would do, is become REALLY good friends with him, that way no matter what, you guys would still be cool. You need to be totally comfortable around him, and he needs to feel the same way about you, not in a "love" way first and foremost. Then, once you're past that, and you still feel the same way about eachother, then I would say, GO FOR IT. But remind him, that you want to be friends no matter what happens in the relationship. I hope I helped, good luck. -Angel
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