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im a very funny person! i can make you laugh nomatter how u are feeling! i speak my mind which some times it hurts but its true! im not single im takin by my love Damien! i have a cat and a dog! and on the weekends i love to hang out with my boyfriend and go to the movies! and i love giving people advise because it makes me feel like a better person! ooo and my favorite color is pink! thats very important! lol

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how many bf have u had? i onli had 3 and i no u are a lot prettyier than me but y dont guys like me?!

i cant help the way i look and in fact i think im ugly and fat and all the other stuff that falls in between i dont know what you look like either mabe if i did know what you looked like it would help! and you dont need boys anyways there no good. o ive had a lot a lot of boyfriends! but it makes you have a bad reputation.

hopeihelped

IM me misslilcupkake

&&heArtS;kayla

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hey umm my b/f just broke up with me like a couple of days ago and we only went out for like a week but i still really really like him and i cant stop thinking about him but now there is this other guy that likes me and always flirts with me and today he asked me for my number so i gave it to him but i dont know if i really want a b/f or not..... so do you think i should go out with him or tell him no because i am not over my ex yet??? and tell him i still need some time... ~*~confused~*~ ill rate 5's

The best thing to do is tell that boy that asked you out that your not over your ex! theres no way that you can have a healthy loving realationship with a boy if your not over your past. you will get over your ex. trust me ive been in like 10 or 12 realationships where it didnt last but i still liked the boy and it turned out that they didnt come back to me so i moved on! dont let some boy take you happyness! just be happy for him! he might be hot nice sweet or w.e but theres some one out there hotter!

good luck.
hope i helped

&&heArts;kayla

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Do u also have the problem that your hair tie/scrunchie slides out? Tell me! I getting sick of it! please help! XO

Get the strong strechy ones i dont know what the are called but rap it around as much as possible! that sometimes happens to me but i dont let something like that make me mad!

hopeihelped!
good luck!
o and if you want to find some of those hair ties you can go to walmart walgreens k mart target ect.

always kayla

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(sorry its a little long)but i need help
ok well earlier this year this one guy i liked but didnt like like him... so he came down to my house like all the time and he was all flirting with me and grabing my hair and hugging on me.. and like when he would leave he would give me a hug but i just thought it was a good~bye or a good night hug but then one time when he was leaving he kissed me... and i was like wow i do really like him... and then 2 days later he asked one of my friends if he should ask me out and what i would say if he did ask me out... but then his ex g/f broke up with her b/f and then wanted to go out with the guy i liked so they went out and he still came down to my house but not as often and then they broke up for a little bit then now they are going out... and i like cant get over him... and like last week my friend who he asked if he should go out with me she asked him if he would ever go out with me and he was like no...and now i have been really down just wanting to sit in my room and cry because i like him soo much and i tried going out with some one else but it doesnt work i just cant get over him... so should i do to try and get over him??? and the gurl he is going out with right now is one of my friends and she found out that we kissed and that i liked him so she was mad at me for a while and then he found out that she knows.. so that might be part of it... and all so i went out with his cuzin after all this happened....so please help me XoXo ill give 5's

I have to say that ive been in sort of this situation before. It seems to be that they boy only wanted you untill he could have his ex back. And i think you were better off not going out with him because he would of just broke up with you anyways if he knew his ex was available. The best thing to do is to try to avoid him as much as possible and let him no that it was not right that he came to your house and kissed you && then went right back out with his ex. And let him know that it was all his fault because now your friends mad at you and it wasnt even your fault. Theres more boys out there and hes just a jerk anyways for doing that to you. Now rather you take my advise or not thats up to you. But crying is ok if your sad you need to get it out. Youll meet some one that you can be happy with and you will totally forget about this guy! Hes not worth your time && love! i sure hope i helped! if you have any more questions just ask!

good luck. and dont let boys bring you down!

&&heaRts; kayla

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Alright so basicly i just got out of a relationship and got my heart broken. Im ready to go out meet new guys hang out with guy friends and all that! How can i make myself out there and meet new guys? how can i show guy friends im single and something they should be interested in.. what are some things i could do? I really need this!!!


thanks
i rate well

Well when i want the boy i like to know im single i talk to him,and make something come up in our conversation. for example:

ME:Do u have a gurlfrend?
BOY:No
ME: o it sux being single
BOY: Ya
ME: me and my boyfriend just broke up

and so on....

you can do it like that. And theres some other ways but i dont really know any right now. Just be happy and feel free. And you can also wait for that boy to come to you. You dont always have to go to him. Sometimes its nice being single. And meeting boys are easy. Go to the mall or some other public place.

X0-HOPEIHELPED-0X
.GOODLUCK.

*LOVE* KMR

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So my acne is really red. What kind of makeup do i put on to make it close to my skin color. I don't know what to use...I have really dry skin too.

dream matte mouse.

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i weigh 200 pounds...and i'm 15 and a girl is that fat? ((this is serious))
please helpā™„

i dont want advice on how to lose the wieght, cause i didnt ask for that advice.i just want to know if that is seriously overweight.

Thats not fat but its overweight. Im not trying to be mean but HEY you asked. Best idea is lose weight if it will make you feel better.

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LOVE-KAYLA

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if there any site with good music that liek when i click to it ..it goes to windows midea player ill rate you a 5 please help and i know cd zic but i hate it

You have to get used to wearing one. I never had that problem but once you get used to them then youll feel fine.

X0-HOPEIHElPED-0X

LOVE KAYLA

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I know that 13-year-olds are too young to fall in love. But does that mean you can't say "I love you" to your boyfriend?

That defently does not mean that. You arent in love but you love that person. Its ok to say i love you to someone but love is a strong word and ive learned that.


.HOPEIHELPED.
X0-KAYLA-0X

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pretty long... but please read and help

ok so around the beginning of october this guy told me he liked me.. i sorta liked him and we were good friends but i still didnt know him too well.. ok so he asked me out on the 6th.. but i said no.. we kept talking and we ended up going out 3 times between them and now. we talked all the time and it was like i knew him better than any1 else EVER i had fun with him and i liked how he treated me..he seriosuly treated me the best!!!!..ok so i broke up with him 3 times.. and during those times we still acted liek we were going out, we just sorta took space, and eventually went out.. its kinda like i want what i cant have!! && i hate that!..i dont know but on monday i found out from my friend that he smoked that saturday [we broke up thursday] i was so mad.. he didnt even tell me and he also told me he stopped.. i 4gave him b.c we werent going out then and it wasnt toooo big of a deal but still.. the next day i find out he likes another girl.. now when we were going out he would always say i love you soooooo much blah blah and he really did, but he said the same thing to that girl! he lied to me alot these last few days.. he even said he wanted me and didnt like the girl anymore, then that night he came out and said it was a lie.. so now he doesnt like me or the other girl BUT a new girl [he went out with a couple months ago] theyre prob going to go out and i just dont know what to do and feel..this last week i coudlnt concnetrate at all at school and ive been so sad. now i know this sounds really stupid but there is so much more to our situation and so many more lies.. but now that he lieks this other girl def. i just idk i like him so much! i dont know what to do.. i think i might have loved him..please just tell me what im going through and what i do and how i get over it


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It seems like you are going through the same exact thing i went through. i mean the same exact thing. with this boy named zach. but anyways, the boy just doesnt know what he wants. Since you broke up with him 3 times he thought that u werent good anough. So hes going from girl to girl. Basically you should of never broke up with him that much. But now theres nothing you can do but move on. I did the same thing and now look where im at im in a relationship with this boy and its going great. Ya you might like him alot and to tell you the truth i still look at zachs profile to see who hes going out with. and it hurts me. but ive moved on and i have to accept the fact that he did too. and u have to remember theres more fish in the sea... more grass in the field... basically more boys out there. i sure hope i helped and i hope you take my advise because i promise youll do fine.


x0-KAYLA-0X IM me if you want Misslilcupkake

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Is it bad that im 16 and I am having protected sex with my boyfriend of five months like once every other week?

possibly yes because theres things out there called STDS! yes im pretty sure u heard of them and you never know what can happen!

.I HOPE I HELPED.

-LOVE *KMR*

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My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 months and i want to get him something for christmas. I don't have a lot to spend and i want it to be something special. Any ideas?

well it depends on what your boyfriend likes. Just notice his intrest in things and you can even ask him what he might like for christmas.

.Sure hope i helped.

-LOVE

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on AIM what does

=P
:D

and other things like that mean ? i dont know what they mean ! or if they even have a meaning. ill rate 5's for any useful serious answers

if you look at them side ways they are little faces.they dont mean nothing but they can be smily faces like this: :D or anything! i hope i helped!

always kayla

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Long story semi-short. I like 2 guys, one asked me out before the other so I agreed. Now I have a boyfriend but the other guy is mad and isn't talking to me. I atleast want him as a friend, but I don't want to ruin the relationship I have now. What should I do?

Well if i was you i wouldnt worry about if hes madd at you or not. believe me he will come around(stop being mad at you)! or you can tell him mabe you and him will get a chance later on!

well hope i helped!

rate me please xoxo kayla

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well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much!

well im a really caring person when it comes to my boyfriends exspeacially. my idea is make that cake. make it really cute! id spend alot of time on it making sure its close to perfect. and when you give him the cake nomatter what he thinks about this give him a kiss on the cheek.and tell him that you love him!nomatter if he likes another girl! if you want him back then do things like that so he knows things might work out if he gave it another chance. also i would go to the mall or where ever and get him a shirt or somthing that you think he might like! when your around him just make him see you want to be with him and then after a while ask him if you guys can give it 1 more chance thats all! i know because i had this happen with my XXX and it worked but our realationship didnt! but remember hes not the only boy! and he might be the only one ull ever love but theres so many boys out there! and you just have to meet them. they can come along anywhere and thats true cause im going out with this boy now that i went out with a year ago! and you never know if your ex dont wont you back now he will realize that he had it good and mabe hell give it a chance in the long run. hope i helped if you want to talk IM me xoxokaylaoxox91

always kayla good luck

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13/m hey i need advise on askin a girl out. im about to ask her out but then i get chicken. HELP!!! And i have never made-out with a girl and im 13. do most kids make out b4 13? And when will i no wen to kiss her?

ok if you really like this girl then you need to tell her how u feel. dont be shy. if she likes you and if you like her then you should ask her out!
if she likes you then she shouldnt turn u down! and if she does she wasnt worth it anyways. im telling you not to be shy cause im not a shy person at all! i think you should go for it budd!
i first made out with some one when i was 12! you just have to wait till your ready trust me you will know! and i didnt make the first move so mabe you should let her. ok well i hope i helped! if you need anything IM me on AIM xoxokaylaoxox91!

xoxokayla~

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I've known my boyfriend for a little over a month, and I was just wondering, do you think it's possible to be in love in that short amount of time? Or do you think that it really takes more to be in love?

its not impossibal to fall in luv soo fast like that!! true love comes from the heart and if you feel that you luv someone then u automatically are in luv! theres no sertain time to fall in love hop i helped!! kayla

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I dont know what catagoy this would fall under but, any way, here goes.
Lately I have been feeling depressed. I'm not sure why, but I'm bored with everything that was once exciting in my life. My friends, my crushes, my school work. My first term was excelent, but now all of my grades have dropped. I am so lost and I dont know what to do. I feel like I want to run away and start over new. I really need some support or help. Thanks .

i know how you fell i am goin through the same thing wether you beleive it or not!! im depressed all the time!! i just feel like i want to lay in my room and cry!!! my life is sooo bad with myfriends,my ex'z,with school,and with crushes!!!
i dont know how to stop it but i saw on TV this pill called ZOLOFT!! i didnt take it but its about deppression!!! i want to runaway too but im kinda scared what will happen if i do!!! i try soo hard to hang on but i always seem to slip!!! things get soo good and then soooo bad!! i dont really know how to stop it exept 4 trying ZOLOFT!!
we can chat more if you want to IM me lildreamhunny14!!!!! or call 1-314-221-5695! hope i helped!!! * kayla *

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I like this guy I'll call him Brian, when he had a girlfriend he always flirted with me, but Friday his girlfriend broke up with him then he was at a dance I went to and we barely spoke. I kept trying to talk to him but he barely said a word. I'm wondering why he didn't talk to me. Also there's a rumor that he likes me, do you think he does. (Sorry that its long)

im thinking he still likes his gf!! he might like you too!! but hes having diffrent thoughts about you!!!! he probably still likes his gf and he feels bad cause she was the one that broke up with him!!!! next time you see him say hey whats up and ask he why he didnt talk to you @ the dance!! HOPE I HELPED!! good luck *kayla* IM me if you want to !!!! lildreamhunny14

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well i might be going to the movie with a couple of friends and my boyfriend later on today. but he's respectful of how fast i want to take things, and he asked me if it would be ok if he kissed me and i said that it was fine. and he said he was going to kiss me today when we went to the movies. the only problem is, its my first kiss and i don't know how to do it. this is really embarresing but i really need help. so please answer soon. i rate good. thanks in advance!

i was as nervis as you were ive only kissed 2 boys and like 10 times with each of them!!! its not as hard as it looks!! all u do is play with each others tongue!! like move it around but make sure that you and his lips touch!! its really easy!! just follow what hes doin!!! you can do it!! its not like getting surgery!! its sooo easy!! good luck!!! let him make the first move!! hope i helped you!! IM me if you want lildreamhunny14!! *kayla*

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