13/m hey i need advise on askin a girl out. im about to ask her out but then i get chicken. HELP!!! And i have never made-out with a girl and im 13. do most kids make out b4 13? And when will i no wen to kiss her?
MELiixMARiiE answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 11:11 pm: Well if you're trying to ask her out whenever you're online or talking to her or on the phone with her or something then I can see how you can chicken out. You'll get very nervous and maybe not know what to say. So another good way is maybe telling her friend and having her friend tell her. Or another good way is to write her a note and give it to her, so she's not right then technically whenever you're asking her and there's no pressure except in waiting for a response...and I have never made-out with a boy.. I've never even kissed a boy yet and I'm 14..so it's completly normal if you haven't yet. How to know when to kiss her: Just wait until the right moment.. you'll know. =) I hope I helped!!
Sportychicc9393 answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 2:57 pm: No. Alot of people dont make out until their like 16.Dont worry you need to make out when your ready too. Its not going to be that bad. Just go up to her and ask her out. You will feel much better. I promise. If she says no then it just wasnt ment to be.But think about it this way you two could on in life forever liking each other and not even knowing it.And . . . . . you will know when its the right time to kiss her. She will know it too. I hope I have helped!IM me if needed Sportychicc9393 [ Sportychicc9393's advice column | Ask Sportychicc9393 A Question ]
baseballislife44 answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 2:45 pm: hey dude im 13 and i havent made out with anyone and im popular play baseball and all that...
ok and take your time asking her out
go somewhere and then at the end be like "this was fun wanna do it again sometime" and it should be fine from there
Brunette27 answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 12:23 pm: Most kids make-out around 13 or 14. You will know when to kiss her. It just happens when the time is right. But first you have to actually ask her out. Try asking her out on AIM or the phone so you don't have to talk to her directly, it might make it a little easier. If you want to ask her out in person but you are still nervous, try finding out if she likes you back and if she does it will make things a lot easier because you will be confident that she will say yes! :) [ Brunette27's advice column | Ask Brunette27 A Question ]
Dakmor answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 7:27 am: Aight mate, if you're shy, just do what I did: write an email! Just write in an email or IM, "do u wanna go out w/ me?" and if she says yes, thats awesome, man! If she says no like my girl did, then just send her a longer email about how much and how long and why and when and how you love her, say that you're not right without her, you need her, and then in conclusion, will you go out with me. (I still haven't gotten a reply to my second email yet =)
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lilcliffordgurl answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 7:05 am: ok if you really like this girl then you need to tell her how u feel. dont be shy. if she likes you and if you like her then you should ask her out!
if she likes you then she shouldnt turn u down! and if she does she wasnt worth it anyways. im telling you not to be shy cause im not a shy person at all! i think you should go for it budd!
i first made out with some one when i was 12! you just have to wait till your ready trust me you will know! and i didnt make the first move so mabe you should let her. ok well i hope i helped! if you need anything IM me on AIM xoxokaylaoxox91!
SoNotLegal answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 5:34 am: Okay first of all, don't be in such a rush. You're young -- you don't have to rush into relationships or kissing or anything like that. Trust me. It leads to... well... nothing.
Before you ask any girl out, make sure your parents are okay with you dating. A lot of parents don't allow their kids to date until they're a certain age -- 14, 16, 35... yeah. So make sure that your parents are okay with the idea. You don't want to ask her out and then have to cancel because Dad said no!
Anyway, I think that the best way to ask this girl out is to just strike up a conversation with her. And then, somewhere in the conversation, say something like, "So, do you wanna go out sometime?" Maybe you could offer to take her to a movie or laser tag. Miniature golf is also fun. You get to talk and get to know each other -- and you can make fun of each other for missing a putt! =)
About kissing... well, like I said. Don't be in such a rush. You've got your whole life ahead of you. In my opinion, there's nothing wrong with being 13 and not kissing anyone yet. And you're not "most kids" -- so don't worry about them. It doesn't matter what "most kids" have done.
As for when the right moment to kiss her will be... well, I don't know. I think that on the first date, you should try not to be too forward. Maybe at the end you could give her a hug, and if the date went REALLY well, kiss her on the cheek. Don't push her to do anything -- if she's comfortable kissing you, you'll know.
If you need anything else, drop one in my inbox.
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poa answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 4:10 am: Well, since you are so concerned with what others are doing, i'll fill you in.
Approach her, kiss her (use some tongue) then pimp slap her with your dominant hand.
PunkPie answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 2:12 am: just ask her out hun. it doesnt matter of age of making out. haha. if your ready, ask her and she'll probably be ready and...or if you dont want to ask her if you could kiss her, just wait for the right moment. you'll know when hun.
givingbackmonday answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 1:53 am: most people that i know didnt make out before they were 13, i didnt til i was 14. but umm aobut wehen to kiss her, i know this isnt the answer youre wanting but it'lkl just feel right, but its probably better if its like just you 2 around. and you should tell her you like her and see if she feels the same way, and if she does just ask her. if your a little nervous though a good way to get on the subject is to be like.."so...who are you liken these days" then she'll probably be like "idk, what aobut you" then just tell her.
DancerBabyx0x answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 1:52 am: Well just tell her you like her a lot, and that you wanna go out with her! Its fine you haven't made out..most people make out for the first time when they're 12-13! Just wait until the time is right to kiss her, usually when your looking eachother in the eyes! Hope i helped!
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