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Question Posted Thursday December 8 2005, 11:47 pm

I know that 13-year-olds are too young to fall in love. But does that mean you can't say "I love you" to your boyfriend?

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KayMay719 answered Monday January 7 2008, 12:32 am:
Of course not !! Saying I love you is possibly the best feeling in the world! Its great that you say I love you to your boyfriend, but it gives you the absolute best feeling in the world when you say i love you and mean it, and he says the same to you =) hope this helps!
♥Kristen

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LEjLAXMAYAXMARiE answered Monday December 12 2005, 2:18 am:
hey ther! i don`t think you should say i love you until you truly feel like it!! lejla maya

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MELiixMARiiE answered Sunday December 11 2005, 7:28 pm:
Well actually, there is no age to love. You can fall in love at any age. I am 14 and I know for a fact I am in love. But, this isn't about me. If you feel that you really are in love with him, then of course you can tell him it. Just don't feel like if he's saying it to you, that means you have to say it to him. Only say it whenever you feel it. I hope I helped.




Love,
Mel <3

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xxoBriannax answered Friday December 9 2005, 5:54 pm:
Love knows no age. But since you are so young, your hormones are raging and that may make you think that you are in love. Some 13 year olds can really be in love. How can anyone else say how someone feels? Saying "I love you" is the most overused phrase by couples however. So, go on and say it if you atleast THINK you may be in love. No one can tell you that you are or aren't in love. Don't say "I love you" to you boyfriend just because he says it to you.

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hershikissescanhelp answered Friday December 9 2005, 4:33 pm:
no that does not mean you can't say "i love you" to your boyfriend. if that's the way you feel about him and your positive about those feelings then you should feel free to say it. thanx 4 writing!!!:)

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xOViLLYxO answered Friday December 9 2005, 4:31 pm:
nooo it does not mean you cant say that and yeah people say omg your 13 and too young but they are crack so if you really love your b/f and really mean it go ahead and say it &hearts;

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MissJessicaPaige answered Friday December 9 2005, 4:28 pm:
No. I mean, 13 year olds, they say it, but usually dont mean it because it's alot better than saying "I like you alot" But still, 13 still isnt too young to fall in love I think. I think that I myself am in love,..but this is about you. It's perfectly ok to say "i love you" to your boyfriend. And if he gets all worked up about it just explain it to him.


&hearts;Paige

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AnGeLs_AdVicE_x3 answered Friday December 9 2005, 4:22 pm:
no you can say "i love you" to anyone you want esspecilly your boyfriend...no one will care

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x0bbbeachx3 answered Friday December 9 2005, 3:55 pm:
Heck no, you can deffenitly say it!! good luck w/ ur bf hope i helped!!

xox0x0x0x
x0bbeachx3

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hco_babe answered Friday December 9 2005, 3:47 pm:
you can say it, if you really mean it. if you don't mean it, don't say it.

p.s. you can fall in love at any age.

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XO_LiZ_69_0X answered Friday December 9 2005, 3:13 pm:
theres no rule, on what you can say to your boy friend..unless your on patrol or sumthing but, if you both say it, then okay, but if its just you, then maybe he may thinks that yu are serious..just an answer..but yeah you can say i love you to your bf

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ankeagle14 answered Friday December 9 2005, 2:35 pm:
13 year olds can be in love. i am. and my friend who is 12 is too. yes, you can say it.
ANK

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mIzmurrAy3 answered Friday December 9 2005, 2:16 pm:
I'm gonna tell you what everyone has told me. it doesn't matter how old you are.. you can be 10 and in love. it's not bad to say i love you.

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xOx_BRUN3TT3_xOx answered Friday December 9 2005, 2:09 pm:
Oh hun you can say it thats toteli fine !!

|&hearts;| Samra

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iiloveyou answered Friday December 9 2005, 12:47 pm:
Of course not !! Saying I love you is possibly the best feeling in the world! Its great that you say I love you to your boyfriend, but it gives you the absolute best feeling in the world when you say i love you and mean it, and he says the same to you =)

xoo hope this helps !! &hearts;

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xopinkbarbie answered Friday December 9 2005, 11:33 am:
Well personally, I don't think you should say it unless you mean it. But, I don't think 13 is too young to fall in love at all.. there's no set age as to when you can fall in love, it just happens.. and is something you feel within your heart. So you could be in love (dont tell yourself you cant) and then of course you can say I love you :) Even if you like your boyfriend A LOT & care about him more than anything in this world but you think you are to young to be in love with him.. you're wrong. More than likely if you feel those things then you are in love with him :)

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lilcliffordgurl answered Friday December 9 2005, 10:22 am:
That defently does not mean that. You arent in love but you love that person. Its ok to say i love you to someone but love is a strong word and ive learned that.


.HOPEIHELPED.
X0-KAYLA-0X

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Courtney answered Friday December 9 2005, 9:16 am:
Not really. Saying "I love You" is just a way of letting them know that you really care for them. Just saying "I like you" would be treating thems just as a friend. Even if, you don't know what love is,you still care deeply for that person and it may be closer to love than you think. In my opinion, it is okay to say it. ^_^

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Friday December 9 2005, 1:25 am:
NEVER and it is never to young to be in love. only you and your heart know when it is true.
*~Stephanie~*

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KiSSxMYxPEARLS answered Friday December 9 2005, 1:16 am:
Aw..it doesn't mean that. And you can fall in love at any age. If you want to say I love you to your boyfriend. Then go ahead. It'll show that you atleast care about him ALOT




&hearts;

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sizzlinmandolin answered Friday December 9 2005, 12:44 am:
Nobody is too young to fall in love. You're not too young to love your family are you? You know very well what love is. At thirteen you won't have problems with love. You'll have problems with hormones and relationships because these things are new to you. Love isn't the only thing necessary to keep people together in a relationship. There needs to be combatibility and committment too, that's why breakups are common among people your age. There's less experience with relationships, it's got nothing to do with love. If you feel love for your boyfriend you should tell him. Here's another example...if you feel happy you don't keep it inside and not tell people about it just because in an hour you might be sad. Happiness is a feeling just like love is. It can come and go even if it will never die. If you love somebody tell them. There's no harm in it and only good can come of it. If you're not sure if you love him you can always tell him that. Say "I think I love you" or something like that. If you don't think you love him yet then it would be a big mistake to say that you do. Don't say "I love you" just because he says it or because you think you're supposed to. I hope I helped and good luck. :)

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AskAndy answered Friday December 9 2005, 12:40 am:
You can say it, but girls will have more attatchment to that then guys will, and most likely at 13 i love you means a totally different thing than i love you when your like 25

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ThugGirl041790 answered Friday December 9 2005, 12:29 am:
No! of course not.. You can say i love you to who ever or what ever you want.. I mean people say i love you to dogs and stuff so why should it matter.. You might not be *IN* love but your not too young to care for this guy and have feelings you get that for anything..Parents,pets,family,friends and BOYFRIENDS!! &hearts; Dez

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lulabelle answered Friday December 9 2005, 12:05 am:
There are different levels for love. Only in English is there only one word to discribe this diverse feeling. As you go through life you will experience a multitude of these levels of love. Enjoy and express them all. You love your best friend, your mother, your father, brothers or sisters. It is always ok to tell someone that you love them as long as you and the recepient of your affections understand the true extent of the love that you feel for them. The only reason I would suggest that you be careful is that you never want to mis-represent your feelings or have someone mis-understand them. So, whenever expressing yourself be sure that you are clear. You never want anyone to misunderstand because there could be a lot of heart ache. Just relax about it. Go with your instincts. You know when it is ok to say "I love you" to someone or not. Listen to your inner guide/voice and enjoy the love that is all around you.


Namaste,




LULABELLE

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confusedbabii answered Thursday December 8 2005, 11:56 pm:
you can say it if you really want to or if you really love him. but i would say that if you only really like him, but dont love him, then dont say it. if he says it first and you want to say it back, go ahead, don't feel like you're forced to though.

ps~no age is ever too young to fall in love!

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cherry_chick05 answered Thursday December 8 2005, 11:52 pm:
"I love you" is some stong words you really have to mean it. and how long have you been going out with your boyfriend? i'm sure its just your feelings is strong but your the one who has to deside if you love somebody or not. you also have to consider if he loves you back. If you guys do love each other then wait a while befor you say it.

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orphans answered Thursday December 8 2005, 11:51 pm:
Depends how much i love you means. It means Alot to me so i still havent told my bf of 2 years I love him. If its not that important to you. go for it, i see no harm. Its all about your own opinions.

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miss_thang answered Thursday December 8 2005, 11:48 pm:
noo =) EVERYONE says i love you to their boyfriend or girlfriend even if they dont TRULY mean it..its alright hunn =) go ahead and do it

emily =)

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