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Stuck in the middle
Long story semi-short. I like 2 guys, one asked me out before the other so I agreed. Now I have a boyfriend but the other guy is mad and isn't talking to me. I atleast want him as a friend, but I don't want to ruin the relationship I have now. What should I do?
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talk to the guy who is mad! If the other guy gets mad that u r talking to him he aint worth it!
~Allie Cat~
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Call both guys over and just talk with both of them about how you're feeling. Also, it's important to date multiple people to find out who's right, so maybe try telling the angry guy that if things don't work out, he's first on your list.
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if you want to be his friend, just be yourself around him, no matter if he talks back or what.
when he is over you, then he'll (maybe) talk to you and you can take it from there.
have you ever liked someone, who then goes out with someone else and have to sit opposite them wherever watching them holding hands,kissing,...
i have been there and i'd rather have my heart removed with a rusty spoon than go through that again.
just give him a bit of space, sometimes a person needs to protect himself.
goodluck.
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Oo..You should talk to your friend and tell him that you didn't mean to hurt his feeling and ruin your relationship. If it doesn't work, it's okay, at least you try to fix it.. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
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you should talk to the guy thats mad at you and get to the bottom of the problem. even if he wont talk to you keep trying. if he still wont give you his time, hes not worth the trouble. if you need more help, leave me one in my inbox or instant messenge me on AIM at maepela321.
~Maegan~
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tell him how you feel. tell him that you really wanna stay with your bf, but he's a good guy and you don't wanna lose your guys' friendship.
good luck!
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The other guy is being immature. It's your choice who you want to go out with; he can do nothing about it. If you really like your current boyfriend, don't worry yourself too much about the other guy. He will come around. If not, he wasn't worth it in the first place.
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Well if i was you i wouldnt worry about if hes madd at you or not. believe me he will come around(stop being mad at you)! or you can tell him mabe you and him will get a chance later on!
well hope i helped!
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it may be stupid i know, but explain to the other guy you like him and that you didnt mean to hurt him, tell him that if he did like you, hed at least want to be your friend, wich is true, you shouldnt go out with someone if they dont wanna be your friend at least! and your new relationship shouldnt care, you had friends before him, just dont get 'to friendly' with the guy your not going out with
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