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my name is allie jones. People call me allie cat! I know that there are alot of people out there that need help and im ready to help you!
Member Since: August 15, 2005
Answers: 39
Last Update: August 20, 2005
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ok, im 13, and i don't no what to do, i want to start to wear makeup but i kind of don't, i mean if i do, how will i tell my mom ,and if i don't when do i start? (link)
i dont think your mom will get mad if you wear makup! I wear make up and i am 12. you r a teenager if you want to wear make up tell her and then maybe she wont care!


i go out with this kid names paul.. and he smokes weed and i dont like the fact that he dosee and hes 3 years older then me and its weird.. and i dont wanna breakup wiht him jus for that but i dont know what i wanna do right now..? what do you think i should do? pleasee help

i ratee welll! *♥hailey♥* (link)
break up with him thats not a JUST that thing that is a way big thing!

Allie cat


Hey there! I'm 15 and a girl. Um, there's this guy in my club that I really like, and I think that he feels the same way. Noone else in my club knows this, except me. But last week, right after a club meeting, one of my friends from that club told me that she was beginning to fall for him again. I want to support her, but then I also like this guy a lot. What do I do? (link)
dont ever let a guy get in the middle of your friendship! IF ya'll end up goin out and she gets mad tell him that it aint workin out and you just want to be friends!


There's this guy that I really like, and we're in a couple classes together. The problem is, we never really talked last year. But I'm really shy. How can I get over my shyness and just talk to him, or even say hi? Rate 5's for good answers. (link)
if your that shy then you should see him in the hall and "accidently bump into him" and then when you do it drop your books! Then say o my gosh i am so sorry! and then you stare in to his eyes. thats how it usually happens in the movies! Or you could do it the plain way and just say hi! Hope i helped!

Allie Cat


i'm getting a dog next week that is a black lab border collie mix and i'm not sure what they look like. i tried googling pictures and got pictures all labelled as "black border collie". so i'm not sure if thats close to what my dog will look like or not, so if anyone could find pictures of a true black lab, border collie mix, that'd be great. thanks! (link)
ok go to www.yahoo.com then go to the search box and type in Black lab Border Collie and there are some cute pictures!

Allie Cat


do most jobs.. (for example - target, any restaraunt, walgreens, menards, etc.) hire 15 year olds if they have a workers permit? bc im 15 and i really need a job.. that doesn't require you to work the fry machine.. (link)
i no a good place! A carwash place! Thats where my stepsitter got her first job there!
~Allie Cat


okay this isnt really a sex question.. but here it is. im 14/f and i dont have that big of a chest. At my camp, the guys are always making fun of me for it. My doctor recently said within the next two years i would be done growing.I dont want a small chest, but im afraid thats what im going to get. When i reach my peak with height, is the rest of my body gunna continue to develop? or am i stuck this way forever?

i'll rate high if i get good answers. (link)
the only thing i can say is that if u dont want to look like you have a small chest wear a padded bra!
Hope it works!

~Allie Cat~


Ok well I started school 2 days ago, and already I'm hating it. But not just because of the classes/teachers. I hate it because I don't have many friends in my classes. In 4 out of my 7 classes, there's only 2 ppl I like (my bf and this one girl). The problem is that all the teachers seat us alphabetical order, and my last name isn't close to my bf or friend. So, basically I'm sitting by people I'm not really friends with. I have known these people that i'm sitting with for a couple of years, and although i can talk to them, Im not really friends with them. They're ok people and all, it's just I feel left out and lonely sometimes.

My question is- what do I do? I mean, iv'e been trying to make friends with these people and it's not working. Help please!!! (link)
If you only have ur bf and that one girl that u like thats all you need! And if youwant more try harder! Like go up to them say hey then just listen to wut they r sayin and agree! I hope this helps!

~Allie Cat~


my sister can be really mean and eyyoing. everytime she gets upset about somthing she gives me this (my life is bad so i have the right to be rude)attitude. and everytime i try to help with somthing she screams at me. somtimes i dont know why i try so hard to be nice to her. well anyway, she can be really hurtful and everytime i tell someone they tell me to stop being a baby and get over it. but it's not as simple as that. alexandra how do i get my sister to stop treating me like i dont have feelings. (link)
I know how you feel! I am a younger sister but i dont think I treat my sister that badly! On her birth day or whenever you feel like you could catch her at a good time! Sit down and talk to her! See if she will understand how bad she makes you feel sometimes! Tell her that you do have feelings and that she is your sister and make sure she know that you love her! Thx For writing! I hope this helps you out!

P.S. You spell my name Alexandria! LOL its okay tho! And you can call me allie cat!

~Allie Cat


I was just talking to my boyfriend about how he makes me feel; wonderful, amazing, incredible, and how I wanted to make him feel that way too. Well, I got something I totally didn't expect. He told me sometimes I make him feel unwanted. I never knew this. My heart is in my stomach. I'm getting chills every other second. What do I do? How can I make him feel more wanted? (link)
WOW! That wasn't good for him to say! If you really want to make him feel wanted you should take him to a movie and pay for it! and then dinner and tell him that you never want him to feel that way again! And dont forget to tell him how much you love him!

~Allie Cat


okay i have a question for girls... ive got the worst cramps right now.. like i feel like im going to die... does anyody have any at home remedys or somethin to make em go away... i already took 2 tylonol and a calcuim pill... but what else can i do to make em not hurt so bad, or even better, go away!! please help (link)
try ibprofen!

Allie Cat


I have a 94 Ford Taurus with almost 140,000 miles. I continue to put money into it for repairs and many of the parts have been replaced. Yet again something is wrong, I need new front breaks, springs and struts. It is about $1000 in repairs. My question is do I fix my car in hopes it will last 3-4 more years without major repairs or should I finaly junk it and spend the money towards a new used car with 40,000 miles. Something around $4000-$5000. I am at a loss of what to do? (link)
I think if you wnat your car to be cool then u shoeld send a video to pimp my ride! hah! but if you just want me to pick between the teo suggestions u had i would say USED CAR!!.

Allie cAt


hey umm i have some acne and i have meet the teacher nite like tomorrow and school starts like in 3 days is there anything i can use to help clear it up at least a little bit before school starts and if so wats it called and where can you get it at??? thankx (link)
i got this at walmart i think it is called acnefree! It worked for me and i hope it works for you!

Allie Cat~


i know im 13 but ive been held back and now im starting middle skool. im really nervous. wut if the other kids dont like me, or if i dont fit in. wut if i get my classes mixed up and everyone makes fun of me? all u guys are in middle skool so PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
OMG! Thats how i felt last year when i went in to middle skool! I no i have never been held back or anything! But i no how it feels! Just dont worry about it! You will make friends! it will all just come to u!


well i just found out yesturday that i'm moving this saturday .. n i dont kno how to tell my friend maria .. cuz i'm always playin jokes on her that i mite move and i'm afraid she wont believe me .. what shood i say?? (link)
Tell her that you are moving! I dont think that she will belive you at firstbut then tell her that you r serious! and dont let her think you r playing! Even if she dont belive u now she will on the day u move

ALlie cat


ok i have worn uniforms for EIGHT YEARS and im sick of them. WHat can i do to bend the rules but not break them and dress up my uniform .OUr unifrom rules are pretty leniant. I rate high!! (link)
am.. if you dont want to break the rules you should spice it up a little bit! when you put your hair up put somthing like ribbons or just change ur hairstyle! Put some cute make up on! carry around a cute handbag. trust me there isnt only 1 way to change the way you look at skool!

Allie cat


All my friends seem depressed expecially my one friend who talks about "Killing her parents with no remorse" on her xanga. Im really worried for her. Thing is, she says she would do it but I know she wouldnt. She talks more about suicide and how terrible her life is. Her life really isnt bad, her parents just have really strict limits which I know can drive a teen crazy. She doesnt seem to know that there millions of kids out there with way worse situations than her who make it through everyday. She keeps repeating it alot probably for attention (Maybe shes asking for help, I dont know) Im just really not sure what to do anymore... (link)
OMG! That is harsh! Dont let her no matter how hard her life is dont let her talk about it anymore! Or at least try not to let her! Tell her parents! i not saying its okay to be a snitch but this is just a good time! ask them to get her a shrink! I dont think she will do it! I dont no her but i dont think she will do it! I really hope this helps! If it doesnt i am so sorry!

Allie cat


heyy schools gonna start up again soon and last year i had the hardest time getting to school ontime. Does anyone have a good routine that i could go by to get to school and look nice... on time?? lol thanks!! i rate 5's!! (link)
am........... I think that you could follow this routine! Get dressed. eat breakfast. brush teeth. do your hair. go to skool! I hope this helps!!!!! Thx for riting

~Allie Cat~


Okay i have been trying to get music onto my pc,but it takes so long to download a tool to get the music.(Like kazza or limewire)I just want a website where i can download the song without downloading something else.Does anyone know a site like this? (link)
I know a place but the thing is you pay to download a song it may be hard to understand the place but its called Itunes! My mom helps with mine! Hope it works!

~Allie Cat~


Ok, 13/m, Im out of town, my girlfriends birthday was four days ago and I dont get home for 3 more days... we havent been going out for long, but i still want to get her sumthin nice that says i love her and that im sorry i missed her birthday... any ideas?? thanks (link)
I think you should apologize about missing her her b-day! get her chocolate flowers and take her out
that way she knows how sry you r!

~Allie Cat~




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