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Hey there! I'm 15 and a girl. Um, there's this guy in my club that I really like, and I think that he feels the same way. Noone else in my club knows this, except me. But last week, right after a club meeting, one of my friends from that club told me that she was beginning to fall for him again. I want to support her, but then I also like this guy a lot. What do I do?
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i really dont know what to tell you but try to be honest with her and make sure your never the middle man for them to cuz your feelings will be the 1s to suffer in the end
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dont ever let a guy get in the middle of your friendship! IF ya'll end up goin out and she gets mad tell him that it aint workin out and you just want to be friends!
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It's cheesy, but it's true. Honesty is the best policy. Tell your friend that you have feelings for this guy and make sure that when you tell her, not to act defensive about her also liking him. She can't help who she likes and niether can you. If this boy likes you, he could possibly ask you out and your friend will hopefully understand. Make sure you talk things out with your friend first. Clearing things up is always important.
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tell her how you feel and how long you have felt it she will understand if she doesnt she's a pretty selfish friend and think of him as fair game you've liked him longer and just because she likes hims shouldnt stop you he is fair game, belongs to no one...go for it...hope i helped
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You should probably go up and talk to him. Because think of how you will feel if that girl talks to him instead and they hook up. You might have to wait awhile for him to be back on the available list...
I don't really have suggestions for what to say on whether to tell him you like him or if you wnna hang out (sorry... :/ )
If you think he likes you to then the more reason to talk to him!
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