|
hook up or not
alrighty this might be kinda of confusing but i need help now!sorry its goin to be long. okay first off im a 13/f and never hooked up with anyone yet! so i went out with this kid "ronnie" for abouit a week and i found out he never really liked me (long story) so that was back in may now i like a new kid named "jonnie" but "ronnie" likes me and today he told me he wanted me to sleep over his house ( im friends w/ his sister) to hook up...but no strings attached..what do i do? i kinda wanna just to get it over with and i kinda like him..do i hook up with him or not?
ILL rate 5 no matter what (unless its a smartass answer)
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
No commitment, no hook up. That's a good rule to follow. Why should he have fun so he can go blab to all his friends about it? Your rep is ruined and hes a big stud...all for nothing. Tell him no way. :)
]
You shouldn't hook up with him. I don't want to be the one to throw out the "you're too young" card, but in this case I think it might be necessary. Judging by what you wrote, you seem to be confused about what you really want. You said you liked one guy, but the other guy wanted to sleep with you, and you kinda liked him too. That indicates that you're not really ready for a serious sexual relationship or for the emotions that are genrally attached with a one night stand. Don't hook up with this guy at such an early age. You'll just end up regretting it later on. And spending the night at your friends house in order to hook up with the friend's brother probably isn't going to set very well with your friend. "Ronnie" is asking you to use his sister as a pawn in his game, and that's not something a good friend would do. If you have any doubts at all, don't have sex with this guy. It's not worth the heartache that comes along afterwards.
]
forget ronnie, he had his chance, and he ruined it!! why give him a second chance, when you dont know if he'll break your heart again?! if you really like jonnie, go for it. it never hurts to go out someone new. just follow your heart..
hope i helped...
<33 Kim
]
..Well if you think that you are ready to do stuff like that go ahead..Just remember its no strings attached so you wont have anything between you too..But if you dont feel confortable dont do it..Its your choice..Hope i helped`
]
Alright, I never hooked up until this year either. Anyway, it might now be a good idea because you might start to like him more. Also, he kinda sounds like a manwhore to me, like he's using you. You don't want to fall into that. ♥
]
NO WAY! Do NOT let him think you'll crawl back to him the second he wants you. No way...no way. Stand your ground, and stick firm to the fact that your not cheap and easy. Your someone who makes decisions that will benefit yourself. Doing this might effect any relationships you might have in the future with other people. I strongly suggest you keep the ball in your court... and just act really cool about it. Don't show up at his house to sleepover. If he likes you so much, he can pursue you, and ask you out...or make any effort to show what he feels for you. Maybe hes in the mood just for some cheap makeout. Don't let him think it's all that easy. Wow, no offense but this kid really sounds pigly.
]
I'd advise you to go. He likes you, you kind of like him. Jonnie may not like you, yet you like him. You'd probably be much better off with a person who likes you than one whom you are not sure.
And I'm 16, and never hooked up yet, so don't use that for your decision. I'm perfectly fine with my love life. :)
-Steven
(Wow, that was probably the worst advise I've give in months. Worst as in poorly written. Sorry about that.)
]
More Questions:<<< Previous Question: Help
| Next Question >>>
|
|