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Heart in stomach
I was just talking to my boyfriend about how he makes me feel; wonderful, amazing, incredible, and how I wanted to make him feel that way too. Well, I got something I totally didn't expect. He told me sometimes I make him feel unwanted. I never knew this. My heart is in my stomach. I'm getting chills every other second. What do I do? How can I make him feel more wanted?
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WOW! That wasn't good for him to say! If you really want to make him feel wanted you should take him to a movie and pay for it! and then dinner and tell him that you never want him to feel that way again! And dont forget to tell him how much you love him!
~Allie Cat
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talk to him more and tell him how much you love him.also if you and him are hanging with some friends or something always make sure your with him and talking to him and not running off with someone else.ask him for some examples of how you make him feel unwanted. them make sure you change the things that he says.
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Tell him that more often, or ask him why or how you make him feel unwanted ask what are some examples of things you've done or said to make him think that, and when he reponds with whatever he'll say, just make sure to change those things =)
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Well obviously you dont mean to make him feel this way. I think you should probably ask him how you make him feel unwanted. Maybe he will explain to you & you can try to fix it. Atleast you let him know how much he means to you. But i guess actions speak louder than words. Atleast he was honest to you about it. Now all you have to do is make him feel more wanted. Talk to him on the phone more, hang out with him a lot, and spend time with just him and you. And when you are in groups, pay attention to him a lot. I dont know what else you can do. He is probably just making a big deal of nothing about it. I know a guy who does somewhat of the same thing. Even though he is wanted, he says he isnt. So it could be the same sort of thing. Just try to express your feelings for him, in more than just words.
♥ nicole
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Thats not good. He could have said it in a nicer way, but now you don't feel good. Maybe instead of asking her, try asking him what you can do, and where you're going wrong with this. Sometimes explaining to a guy how much you love something he says or does to you, it makes him feel good about himself because guys love hearing that they are doing a good job at making their girlfriends happy. Maybe a love note would help. Try explaining the reasons you love him the most. But, basically, go to him about it. And, don't let this get to you, its alright. Guys get pretty complicated and mean when they don't even know it. So, try not losing sleep over this, make sure you tell him how you felt after hearing him say that.
-TheTeenGirl
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I think that's a question only he can answer for you. I can't imagine how you would make him feel unwanted given how you feel about him. :)
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Just talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you dont mean to make him feel this way. Ask him to tell you when he feels unwanted and lethim know you'll try to stop this from happening. Tell him how much you care about him and how much you love him. Get closer to him by cuddling with him. Just make him feel more loved. Hope this helps!!
-Manda
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I'm a dude, and I just want to say that the answers so far have been perfect. There is no way to show that you care about him other than what these people have said. I just thought I'd let you know that as a guy, I completely agree with what these girls had to say. Peace out.
Caleb
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you need to talk to yourboyfriend and tell him how you feel or at leats try to. if that doesnt work try gettin him something or showing him you care. i am nto sayin have sex with him but like when going place with him get closer to him or if you guys only kiss maybe makeout with him instead or stuff like that. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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Just talk to him preferabley in person and hang out snuggle and just hold him tigh and tell him you love him (but only if you really mean it) and just tell him what he means to you! cute stuff like that so he knows that you care about him and that he is wanted by you! well hope i helped if you need anything ask*
Caitlin♥
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