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IM SORRY IT'S SO LONG! i needed to put details
sorry this is so long
(15/f)
alright well I like this guy but he's known to just get w/ girls for sex and I know that that's true w/ some of the girls he's been with but not all of them.. I like him a lot and I always think about him and like he's one of the only guys I love to hang out with that I like... if that makes any sense... and well he was smoking in front of me and I was like THATS DISGUSTING and he was like ... well then I'll stop, just for u.. and well when ever we hang out he always like rubs my back and is really flirty and when I was drunk he helped me around (not taking advantage of me in any way) bc I couldnt walk very well and he like made sure i was ok and stuff and then the next day he asked how i felt and made sure i was ok... and well he told my brother that hes liked me since the 7th grade and he normally doesnt like girls for that long, he just fucks them and leaves them and hes always like.. i love hangin out w/ ur so awesome and its a lot of fun, and now i cant keep my mind off him and i hate being away from him...... ok well should i take a chance with him if he likes me? or just let it go?
once again... im so sorry its long..
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i would definetly give him a chance.if hes liked you for that long then he probably isnt just gunna fuck you and leave you.
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I say wait for him to prove to you that he really is more than a friend and does care about you. Why? Because you never know if he did the same exact things for other girls just to gain their trust for sex. True, he didn't take advantage of you one time, but who said he won't the next? You should go for it, but at the same time know what you could be getting yourself into. If it seems that he's hinting off to get with you for sex, then don't take that chance. Otherwise, if he really does care about you and tries not to harm you, then yeah, go for it - just be careful. Try and see if he really is trying to show that he does like you, and not just saying that. Hope that helped and good luck.
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If you really like him, take a chance. It doesn't come around very often. If you don't want to be hurt, don't take the chance. It sounds to me like he's one of those smart players who just spends a lot of time and effort setting things up. Just because a guy doesn't take advantage of you when you're drunk, it doesn't mean he doesn't intend to. It just means he's intelligent enough to know it's not on, and that if he is nice to you then, maybe he'll "get lucky" later. Of course you could just be the one girl that his lechery is not the focus of.
My honest opinion - if you want to have fun while it lasts, try it. Be prepared for it to be a letdown.
Long questions are fine by the way ^_^ It's useful just to know how the asker thinks if nothing else.
-K
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The information you have about him should make you go screaming in the other direction. You know for a fact the guy uses girls, and you think hes treating you differently? Nope, hes not. He probably did this to all of those other girls because he knows that he has to be really sweet to you in order to get you with him where he wants you. I think you'd better let go before your feelings get dangerous. I know you wanted an answer that told you to go, and I'm sorry I can't advise you that, but I can tell you that if you wanted to give him a chance, don't have sex with him. You need to be sure that he wouldn't use you, but most likely he will if thats his reputation. Every loving and sweet words hes saying to you means nothing. It means a lot to you because you like him, but to him, hes not honest. Sorry.
-TheTeenGirl
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Well, I was recently FUCKED and CHUCKED. So my opinion on boys right now may be a little biased, BUT... guys are assholes straight up. Once a dog - always a dog! But if you really feel the need to be something further with this boy, dont expect the perfect relationship. Chances are, the more and better you expect from someone that is known to be a dog, the more piles of shit you're going to get out of it in the end. Think it all out before you leap. Take into consideration how he treats you, how he treated past girls, and how he treats your friends, too. Be careful and anything you can take as him still being a dog - dont let it slide. Call him on it.
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Sure. He had an opportunity to take advantage of you and he didn't. A lot of things are said about people that aren't true. Judge them by how they treat you. He sound like a good guy to me, if he isn't then you break up, definitely give him a chance. :)
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If you truly like him this much then give him a chance. Dont listen to what other people say about him. Dont get into his past just go with everything thats in the present. He might be playin with other girls just to see how you react. Ask him if he's into you and if so then why. Then tell him how you feel about him. If he puts pressure on you to go faster then tell him if your ready or not. If get mad or anything then leave him because he's not worth it. Hope this helps!!
-Manda
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I'm sorry to say this but you should let it go he is a bad guy always having sexual relations with other girls and he doesn't appear what he really is that is a saying for some people it's true like this guy. Get on with your life there are other guys who are nice,you have to get him out of your mind.If you decide to be with him once he has relations with you he'll most likely break up with you and break your heart.Save yourself from being humilated don't be with someone like that even if you're obessed or in love.Even though it'll be hard to find the right guy for you.As for him he shouldn't be pretending to be something he's not.Have a bright future in your life!
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well hunn try it wit him for a lil if he starts showin signs of like ummm....well if he's a lil rushy then try to be like im not ready or be like not today babi....if he get upset or angry he aint worth it if he is liek all goody-goodie then i think hes serious and really wants to be wit u ...thats what i did wit my bf and we've been datin for god knows how long and he basically bows to me....lol.....hope it all goes good hunn i hope i helped ya
>>>>>arielle♥♥
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i think all guys deserve a chance and i think you should give him a chance and you should always know this DYYOU DONT EVER HAVE TO DO SOEMTHING YOU DONT WANT TO D. if he trys to make you have sex with him then you going to slap him punch him whatver uit take for him to stop. (that id if you dont want) but rememebr he has dne many girlss and he can have aids or stds or whatever else there is out there. take a chacne and if you dont feel comfrontable with him tell him about and talk to him if he doesnt listen to you then he really isnt worth it and you should leave him and find yourself a new boyfriend. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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It's ok it's not even that long but any ways... well try it out see what he's all about but if he's just about the sex then if i were you i wouldnt go for it but if he really likes then yea sweet go u stay wid him! lol well hope i helped you tell me how things work out k hun need anything ask*
Caitlin♥
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First of all, you NEVERRR wanna judge a guy just from what "you've heard he's done", if this guy sleeps around with girls then thats not exactly a fantastic quality. He seems nice tho, not to mention caring. If this guy just wanted to have sex with you, he would've done it that night you were drunk and couldn't walk. Maybe you should give it a try. Whats the worst that could happen? Him turn into an asshole and try to have sex with you? so say no if he turns into a big jerk and kick him to the curb. No harm in giving him a whirl, girl :) Talk to him about it though, he seems sweet and totally understanding.
Goodluck babe!
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