Heyyy my name is brittany, I'm from Maine. I love hearing about people's problems and questions so feel free to ask me ANYTHING. I'm a very understanding person and a very good listener. I hope that people on here trust me enough to open up to me. Drop one in my inbox anytime!
E-mail: brittypxo@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Maine
Occupation: student
Age: 16
AIM: xobrittypxo
Member Since: August 15, 2005
Answers: 27
Last Update: October 13, 2006
Visitors: 3551
Main Categories:
Love Life
Friendship
Random Weirdos
View All
|
| |
|
Ok me and my b.f are pretty into each other and i was just wondering can he still finger me when i have my period...i mean it would be my last day of my period but i was just wondering what i should do, cuz i want to, any advice. (link)
| |
Of course he can still finger you! As long as you are comfortable with it.. he can finger you any time of the month. FYI though... consider putting a towel down or something just incase it gets messy. Even if it is your last day of your period..stuff is still coming out. Take into consideration stains.. blood does stain. Take into consideration, as well, that when women are on their period.. it tends to get a little stinky 'down there'. As long as you and your guy are totally okay with everything, then go for it girl! Just giving you some precautions to watch out for. Have fun!
|
When is the best time to start jogging, jump roping, biking, or whatever...after youve eaten or before? At night, before you go to sleep, or the morning when you wake up?
(link)
|
You have the most energy when you first wake up. It probably doesn't seem like it since everyone drags for the first hour or so every morning, but after a good nights sleep (7.5+ hours) you have the most energy of the day, right when you wake up; you are refreshed.
so.. morning is best. =)
-brittany
|
hi please help me
not to discriminate anyones beliefs but howcome like when like i find people who don't believe in God i feel like...a hypocrite cause like i'm not a true practicing catholic but i still pray everyday...is this normal i wish this could stop because i noe everyone is different and has different beliefs please help! (link)
|
Today in my sociology class, I learned that the environment that you are exposed to and what you believe and what you know, is your NORM. Seeing other people, with other beliefs and other customs, and and in this case, other gods, is strange to you and not normal to you. If you pray, and if you believe in God, then that doesn't make you a hypocrit at all.
My advice.. Just be careful not to judge anyone.
I hope that helped.
-Brittany
|
for ladies-- no men allowed!
today i bought a box of slender regular tampons. usually i use pads but its a hassel wearing them to school because after a few hours they get sticky and very uncomfortable. also, i can never find the time in between classes to change them so i desperately need to learn how to use tampons.
ok first of all, i am aware of the dangers (like if you leave one in too long and etc.) so all i need to know is where to put it. i looked on a doctor website and found a diagram but its so much different on myself. there's like, too much skin. i hate talking to my mom about it because its awkward and if i asked her where then that would get EXTREMELY awkward.
help? (please this is like life depending... ill rate big time!) (link)
|
without getting all personal and gross on you here...
sometime when you AREN'T on your period, go into the bathroom when no one is going to bother you, and just experiment. Start from the front, and just run your finger along ^ahem^ until you find when the tampon goes. Knowing about "down there" is pretty important. If you're all lost... try a mirror. If this grosses you out then.. hunni you need to get comfortable with your body sooner or later.
sorry if that whole thing just completely degraded you in any way. I hope i helped.
if you have any further questions, please don't hesitate to ask. I've been using tampons for 5 years.
-brittany
|
|
i get acne on my forehead but there are also these LITTLE bumps that look like acne but they arent.. idont know what they are and they arent red and plus they dont hurt.. anyone know what im tlking about? what is this and how can i get rid of them? ill rate 5's (link)
|
I know exactly what you are talking about.
If the two people before me were completely wrong, then I'm definately right because I have what you're talking about.
When I was like 8-14 years old, I have bumps all over my cheeks and arms. they werent acne, or whiteheads or black heads or any kind of heads =P and its nothing to worry about at all. I still have them on my upper arms, I'm 17 now. If they don't hurt, don't spread drastically, and dont change color, I wouldnt worry.
You might want to see a dermatologist just in case though. I saw one and she gave me some prescription cream for acne but she said it would just make them lessen, and that it wasnt acne. It's just a minor skin condition. No big deal at all.
If they dont bother you, leave them alone, you'll grow out of them. I significantly have.
Lots of people have it too so don't think your alone on this one! =)
hope i helped
-brittany
|
|
What is a good way to get rid of sinus' Does anyone have any good ideas PLEASE im really feeling awful i need some help. Does anyone nwo any home made stuff that can help me...?? (link)
|
do not lay down flat, stay elevated.. otherwise it gets worse.
next.. take a hot hot shower.. the steam unclogs ur sinuses and helps clear it up! scouts honor..
secret medicine: neosynephrine.
it's nose drops (i know, weird) that work so great. YOu just tip ur head back, squirt 2 or 3 drops in your nose, let it drip down your sinuses (keep your head tilted back). and within minutes, you can magically breath again.
I'm not kidding at all. This stuff is amazing. I use it everytime i have a cold or yucky stuff nose.
i can't think of anything else.
i HATE when my nose is stuffy.
sorries!
-brittany
|
|
hey im 15/f theres this guy in one of my classes that i have liked for a little over a year now. His locker is right by mine to. One of his friends said that he'd "bang me" so as in im okay. And he always grabs my butt, and says like nice a** and stuff. He really doesn't ever talk to me though like doesn't flirt. Does he like me? But then again he does this too all other girls too. What do i do? I really like him and i want to go out with him possibly. but we barely ever talk and if we do its about stupid stuff. PLezz help (link)
|
Hunni... why do you wanna date a guy who walks by and slaps ur ass, says he'd bang you and doesn't even take time out to TALK to you?
He sounds like a big waste of time. Especially since you said he does that to all the other girls too. I'm serious... don't waste your time because he will only hurt you. Guys like this are NOT worth it.
If theres no way of getting around the fact that you're crazy about him.. then go for it. Feel special when he grabs your ass for that split second... get the glory. And if he turns out to be a keeper then props, and good for you! Congrats..
but if he turns out to be a slime ball player... you can't say no one warned you.
that wasnt much help.. but it was advice.
goodluck!
-brittany
|
i'm 16 years old and i am 7 months pregnet and me and my babay father who is 17 is still together and he has a job makin 9 dollas an hour i was wondering do you know of any programs that would help us get a place of our own
(link)
|
I know this isnt much help but I can almost guarantee that with only one of you working, and with him only making 9$ an hour.. you two aren't getting very far on your own. Not only is housing WAY EXPENSIVE, but babies.. uh.. diapers alone are gunna bankrupt the two of you.
You need parental help on this one hun. Theres no way around that. No organization can provide everything to support you, the father, and the baby.
I'd call planned parenthood if I were you, ask them what they think you should do; ask for suggestions for organizations that can help you and your upcoming family.
Goodluck sweety.
I'm 17 and I could not imagine my boyfriend and I having a child right now. We both make $10.50 an hour, and I can barely provide lunch for myself everyday and gas for my car every week.
//From the bottom of my heart, GOODLUCK. You will definately need it.
If you need anything else, or wanna talk to someone, you can message me anytime.
-brittany
|
|
so yea, on AIM every1 has a cute profile w/ cute quotes and designs and i wanted to know if anybody knew any websites i can go to to gte cute stuff like that. some cute away messages too. i rate 5's for links =] (link)
|
firehotquotes.bolt2.com
all you need on one website.
It's what I use =)
-Brittany
|
i've never made out bbefore . go ahead laugh i dont care. but im like gonna be really bad at it and i really wanna make out. so can you tell me exaaaactly. not like oh well you put your lips together and smooch. no i wanna know exactly step by step what you do.
please and thank you
i'll rate high! xo
(link)
|
Okay there are like 6 trillion people in this world.. or something like that haha and well... lets face it.. people makeout! A LOT OF PEOPLE MAKEOUT. Most start when they're young. Do you think allllll of the people in the world asked somebody for advice on how to kiss step by step? NOOOO WAY HUNNI. The other girls who answered your question are very right.
Kissing just comes naturally.
If you want to know the nitty gritty like where your hands go and stuff like that.. my advice? Watch romance movies. Personal Favorite: The Notebook.
The biggest factor: Do not stress about it. Honestly. After you do it for your first time you are going to think..."wow, why did I get so worked up about THAT?" Trust me.
Hope I helped. If you wanna ask anything else don't hesitate to leave me a message in my inbox.
-Brittany
|
|
Ok, this is kind of ocward but I dont care. there's this guy and he was going out with one of my best friends, and they broke up, actually she broke up with him. and now his sister told me that he is asking this really popular girl out. he really hates me. nobody ever likes me, cause im fat. im not like fat fat but im 120 pounds and in the 7th grade. and im only 5 foot 3''. i excercise a ton, but nothing works. this guy hates me i think, he used to like me but not anymore. i guess he thinks im ugly. (link)
|
sorry it took so long to answer...
so first of all, you're not fat. and not to make u feel guilty or bad for saying it, but thats how much i weighed (and height) in 7th grade. i dont really know what you're asking, or what you're looking for for an answer so i'll kind of just throw a bunch of stuff out...
guys are jerks and think that girls who are skinny and gorgeous, are ugly. so boys are dumb.
and who cares if he thinks you're ugly? not everyone in the world thinks you're fat and ugly, i dont care what you say. theres always someone out there hoping that you'll stop frowning and begin to smile because thats what they love about you most.
do you like this guy? i hope not. he kind of sounds like a jerk.
you shouldn't try to be skinny JUST for this guy. OR for anyone for that matter. if you want to lose weight, it should be for you. but pleeeasee do it in a healthy manner. when i was in 6th grade i lost 30 lbs by not eating all day until dinner time. it was bad. DO NOT try it. i got sooo sick after because i ran my immune system down and i was sick allll winter. i dont recommend my method. try eating fruits and veggies as gross as some of them are. the grosser ones are the healthiest.(sucks i know) less junk food, obviously. water. water is the biggest key to shedding lbs.
hun, please don't let a guy make you think that you are ugly, because everyone in this world is beautiful in THEIR own way. and everyone in the world thinks someone else is beautiful when someone else think's they're ugly.
keep me posted.
again- sorry for so late...
-brittany
|
16 male. I honestly think I am going insane. Things just have been building on me my entire life, and they are starting to just break through to the point where I cannot control my own emotions anymore.
It's like last night, everything inside me just exploded. My mom works on pit crew for my band, and she asked me to help unload the truck. Well, I happen to be the only person who uses the truck that has to unload because she is there. It always makes me a bit upset when she asks, but not like last night. Don't mention this, for it is not the issue. If you do, it is a 1.
What happened to me after scared me. I suddenly had flashback after flashback, showing me how un-normal I am. I have overprotective parents, first off, and began wishing things like they'd stop. I am a quiet person, and I wished that I could speak more. I have not had a girlfriend, I wished I could. I wanted my friends to be a bit closer to me. I wanted somebody to actually be interested in what I say, instead of blatently nodding. I wanted my sister back from her present self where she is dating a guy and is so rebellious that I can no longer stand it.
AKA, I wanted to finally be normal. And it has caused so much depression in me these past days... I feel like my life is going south, and I cannot even look north.
What do I do? (link)
|
ur not insane, you just think you are. clinical depression is bullsh*t and everyone knows it. it's just a way for someone to say: "okay this will fix what i think is wrong with me" when really, they just dont wanna take the hard way out and face up to whats wrong with them, so thats not ur problem.
evvvverrryoone in the entire world goes through a phase where they cannot stand anyone around them at all to the point where they just wanna FLIP OUT and leave everything behind but, the truth is, you cant. and nothing about that makes you un-normal.
face up to whatever's bringing you down and do something about it, don't mope about, letting it get more and more into your head.
think about it.
you'll figure out how to overcome it.
-brittany
|
My boyfriend is 20 years old and we been going out for a year (this months) and he always tells me that he is going to go to the dome(another word for a strip club) and i always tell him that if he goes i would be extremely mad. He hasn't gone to one yet, but he says he is going to. Do you think that it if stupid for me to get mad at him if he goes? I believe it stupid because he already has a girlfriend(me) that he can look at, am i not good enough for him to look at?
thanks (link)
|
I don't think it's stupid for you to get mad at him, but you shouldn't feel like you aren't good enough. He isn't going to this strip club because you are inadequate in any way, he's probably just going with the guys or just to do what guys do.
-brittany
|
|
What good *recent* scary movies have come out on DVD? (link)
|
since all the KNOWN scary movies have been said 500 times already, how about a movie that probably no one has ever heard! haha
My friend and i rented this movie that was a new release and we've never heard of it before. Its called -Shallow Ground- it looked pretty scary on the back of the case so we rented it. it was probably one of the scariest movies i have ever seen. kept me on the edge of my seat right to the VERYYYY end. i highly recommend it ;) and dont worry its not lame at all cuz the beginning makes it seem so lame and stupid but trust me, its so worth it!
|
Okay I'm just interested to know what people are up to and how they feel about it so this is like a little sex survey that I hope a lot of people respond to even if they aren't sexually active. I will rate high!
1. male or female?
2. age?
3. heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual?
4. drink alcohol or do drugs? If so how much?
5. have you had sex? why?
6. how often do you have sex if you do? how much would you have sex?
7. ever been kissed?
8. given or received hand jobs?
9. blow jobs?
10. anal sex?
11. what are your feelings about anal sex?
12. how many people have you done anything sexual with in the past month?
13. how many relationships have you been in?
14. how many people have you had sex with? how many people have you done sexual things with?
15. ever had a sexual experience with someone you weren't dating?
16. do you regret anything that you have done with the opposite sex (includes kissing!)? If so what and why?
17. have you ever cheated on someone?
18. do you think it's important to love someone before having sex with them?
19. what do you think love is?
20. ever gotten caught? if so what were you doing?
21. where's the craziest place you've had sex?
22. what is your greatest fantasy?
24. what are your most desireable traits in the opposite sex?
25. any other information you'd like to share?
Thanks a TON! Did I mention I would rate high?
:-D
(link)
|
1. male or female? Female
2. age? 16
3. heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual? straight
4. drink alcohol or do drugs? If so how much? i drink when i party, and i stopped doing drugs not long after trying them because they're expensive and not good at all
5. have you had sex? why? yes because i wanted to lose my virginity to a guy that i loved and trusted
6. how often do you have sex if you do? how much would you have sex? every other day at minimum when my b/f is home from college
7. ever been kissed? yes
8. given or received hand jobs? yes
9. blow jobs? yes
10. anal sex? no
11. what are your feelings about anal sex? thats a one-way street if you ask me
12. how many people have you done anything sexual with in the past month? 1, my b/f
13. how many relationships have you been in? a few serious ones
14. how many people have you had sex with? how many people have you done sexual things with? i've only had sex with my boyfriend, and i did sexual things with my ex boyfriend who i was really involved with, but never sex.
15. ever had a sexual experience with someone you weren't dating? nothing more than making out
16. do you regret anything that you have done with the opposite sex (includes kissing!)? If so what and why? not really, just kinda wished i wasnt a makeout slut when i'm drunk (AND SINGLE! i don't cheat on my b/f haha dont worry)
17. have you ever cheated on someone? never. its the lowest thing any person could do.
18. do you think it's important to love someone before having sex with them? no, people in todays society have casual sex and its not for the love of the other, its just for the hell of it. If they wanna do it, then oh well.
19. what do you think love is? I think love is when you can be completely yourself and not worry about what they think about you, being able to express yourself without worrying what they'll think of you, and being able to open up to the person. Love is based solely on friendship, i dont care what anyone says.
20. ever gotten caught? if so what were you doing? my mom caught me and two of my friends smoking. she found my lighter in my pocket of my jeans when she did my laundry and she's the reason i quit.
21. where's the craziest place you've had sex? just my bed, sorry.. haha i'm working my way to the kitchen though haha
22. what is your greatest fantasy? i have no idea.
24. what are your most desireable traits in the opposite sex? body and personality. who wants to date an arrogant person?
25. any other information you'd like to share? not really, i just wanted to waste some time so i took ur survey. what made you think of doing this anyway? and why do you care about how other people think and what they do?
#26 i madeout with my best friend. i dont care, it doesnt bother her or me at all. she's like my sister and i love her and its just us being dumb and joking around to show off for guys.
hope a bunch of people do ur survey!
-brittany
|
|
i asked you about my boyfriend who went to college.. i was wonderin if you had a screen name so i could talk to you about it more.. i really need to talk to someone whos been thru it.. thanks so much ♥ (link)
| |
yah sure, my aim sn is xobrittypxo IM me anytime hun =)
|
alright so i guess this is for guys to answer but girls can too..
when guys ask girls to homecoming how long do they normally wait to ask, like our homecomingis october 15th and idk i just wanna know like when to expect to get asked if i do..please and thanks!:)
(link)
|
I would say the soonest you will get asked if 2 weeks. and if you don't get asked, stag is way more fun because you get to dance with anyone you want instead of one person.
hope i helped
-brittany
|
What are some things that turn on a guy whenever a girl does something?
[Example: Biting ear, kissing neck?] (link)
|
everyone who has answered your question so far have basically said all of the same things so let me try to broaden their horizon's and elaborate for you. Biting ears and kissing neck is hot, definately, and guys love it. As weird as it is for the first time, when your kissing your guy's neck gentle suck, BUT NOT TOO MUCH, it causes the dreaded hickies and no one likes those, and drawing little circles or figure 8's with ur tounge right under/behind his ear on his neck is definately a wicked turn on, you might even give him goosebumps ;) nibbling the ear is hot too, gentle obviously, and gently breathe warm breath onto/into his ear. its sexy. leg massages are weird, maybe its just me but who wants to massage a guys calf muscle? haha and the lean in for a kiss but backing off is really hot because he will lean in and pucker up but you back off and giggle, it makes him want you. That's pretty much it for the on top of the clothes stuff. goodluck experimenting with your guy ;)
hope i helped
-brittany
|
when you have sex are you suppose to have cramps at the same time? ILL RATE HIGH!
&hearts (link)
| |
no. cramps could be caused from discomfort from having sex, your period, or your sub-conscious nervousness of having sex. if they're really bad you should see a doctor hun, especially if they dont go away after a few hours after having sex.
|
|
my boyfriend went to college on thursday.. hes a freshman.. and im a junior in high school. he went out lastnite n stayed out til 5 am n didnt go to bed til 7 am..im wondering what he did in between those hours..and i dont want him to be out partyin all the time cause i know he'll cheat on me. as much as he says he wont..i really think he will. we wont be able to see eachother alot because hes away at school..should i worry? please help ill rate high (link)
|
Alright no one could possibly in the entire world understand what you're going through unless they've gone through it before, and thats where I can come into play. I'm a junior in high school and my boyfriend is a sophmore in college. We met when i was a frosh and he was a senior, dated over the summer then school started and he went to college. It's a completely different situation ( i wont bore you with details) but I felt the same way you did. He joined a frat too which made things even worse, having huge frat parties with hundreds of HOTT horny girls. Not very fun at all. It sucks hun, but if he really cares about you and WANTS to stay with you while he's at college, then he WONT cheat on you, its all about trust. But if he stops calling you, and starts acting different, i would talk to him about it, and (like i said to my boyfriend) tell him you dont wanna get ur heart broken just because he can't keep his dick in his pants at college (and yes ladies, i said that) he understood and told me theres no one else he'd wanna be with.
If you're boyfriend is at college not TOOOOO far away, go see him every once in a while, visit. if he lives far away and this trust thing isn't working out.. then maybe you guys should take a break until he comes home for thanksgiving or christmas. that way if he does hook up with other girls, he isnt cheating on you and you get to hook up with other guys too, and then if he comes home for break and tells you nothing ever happened with another girl because he cares about you then get back together, experiment with different angles of your relationship.
oh, and communication is the absolute #1 key to a relationship. it's the only thing that got me to where i am today with my boyfriend.
goodluck! and let me know how things go, i'v had too much experience in this department to NOT try and help you out in this case sweetheart!
hope i helped -brittany
|
|