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Crush
hey im 15/f theres this guy in one of my classes that i have liked for a little over a year now. His locker is right by mine to. One of his friends said that he'd "bang me" so as in im okay. And he always grabs my butt, and says like nice a** and stuff. He really doesn't ever talk to me though like doesn't flirt. Does he like me? But then again he does this too all other girls too. What do i do? I really like him and i want to go out with him possibly. but we barely ever talk and if we do its about stupid stuff. PLezz help
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Hunni... why do you wanna date a guy who walks by and slaps ur ass, says he'd bang you and doesn't even take time out to TALK to you?
He sounds like a big waste of time. Especially since you said he does that to all the other girls too. I'm serious... don't waste your time because he will only hurt you. Guys like this are NOT worth it.
If theres no way of getting around the fact that you're crazy about him.. then go for it. Feel special when he grabs your ass for that split second... get the glory. And if he turns out to be a keeper then props, and good for you! Congrats..
but if he turns out to be a slime ball player... you can't say no one warned you.
that wasnt much help.. but it was advice.
goodluck!
-brittany
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You should start to talk to him. Ask him if he wants to hang out sometime but i would do it with a group of friends the first two times you do hang out. Since he grabs every girls a** and says that then he might just want some. I would be carefull around him because he might just want to have sex. Maybe once you to get to know eachother a little more he will stop grabing your a** and give compliments and talk to you and maybe flirt. I dont really know if he likes you because since you guys dont really talk chances are he doesnt so just get to know eachother and hang out. Watch out though if he goes to far and you dont like it then tell him to stop.
♥ jackie
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I suppose I'm just old fashioned because my advice would be to kick him where it counts.
Since when do guys have the right to just grab a girls ass without permission? Its very disrespectful and I wouldn't date anyone who talked to me that way.
If he does it to all the girls, and evidently he continues because no girl has put him in his place yet, then he is an asshole.
Guys like this are short on brains. They have a one track mind that tells them they are Gods gift to women. I wouldn't even consider going out with someone like him. You will get your heart broken.
Just my opinion. :)
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well this is a lesson you'll probably have to learn for yourself, but a guy who grabs your butt before you're dating along with many other girls butts, probably isn't worth dating.
That said, ask for his aim/msn whatever you young folks are using these days. Or if that's too weird, im your friend, invite him into the convo, under the pretense of homework or whatever, and have your friend leave. It's usually easier to talk to someone over the computer, because of the distance.
Another option could be to kind of plant the idea of you two together in his head. Get your friends to start saying things like "oh hahah Jessi says the exact same thing!" when he makes jokes or stuff.
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hey, with guys its always hard to tell. the best thing to do is ask him yourself. dont have a friend do it because information can be easily misinterptered. about the talking, start a good converstation with him. about something you both like. talk about stuff he talks about with other people. like example if he said i like watermelon talk aboutt hat. hell know that your listening and he will be happy. cait♥
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