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my boyfriend went to college on thursday.. hes a freshman.. and im a junior in high school. he went out lastnite n stayed out til 5 am n didnt go to bed til 7 am..im wondering what he did in between those hours..and i dont want him to be out partyin all the time cause i know he'll cheat on me. as much as he says he wont..i really think he will. we wont be able to see eachother alot because hes away at school..should i worry? please help ill rate high
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Yes you should worry. If a guy is going partying, you have a right to know about it. And I'm not trying to sound like your mother but why are you dating a freshman in college!?! Find someone your own age and maybe he'll be more trustworthy. Good luck! Hope I helped!
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don't worry and to stop your worrying...break up with him. if you know that he will cheat on you, why put yourself through all the trouble of wondering what he is going to be doing while he is at college.
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If you know he'll cheat on you, then why are you going out with him?
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Alright no one could possibly in the entire world understand what you're going through unless they've gone through it before, and thats where I can come into play. I'm a junior in high school and my boyfriend is a sophmore in college. We met when i was a frosh and he was a senior, dated over the summer then school started and he went to college. It's a completely different situation ( i wont bore you with details) but I felt the same way you did. He joined a frat too which made things even worse, having huge frat parties with hundreds of HOTT horny girls. Not very fun at all. It sucks hun, but if he really cares about you and WANTS to stay with you while he's at college, then he WONT cheat on you, its all about trust. But if he stops calling you, and starts acting different, i would talk to him about it, and (like i said to my boyfriend) tell him you dont wanna get ur heart broken just because he can't keep his dick in his pants at college (and yes ladies, i said that) he understood and told me theres no one else he'd wanna be with.
If you're boyfriend is at college not TOOOOO far away, go see him every once in a while, visit. if he lives far away and this trust thing isn't working out.. then maybe you guys should take a break until he comes home for thanksgiving or christmas. that way if he does hook up with other girls, he isnt cheating on you and you get to hook up with other guys too, and then if he comes home for break and tells you nothing ever happened with another girl because he cares about you then get back together, experiment with different angles of your relationship.
oh, and communication is the absolute #1 key to a relationship. it's the only thing that got me to where i am today with my boyfriend.
goodluck! and let me know how things go, i'v had too much experience in this department to NOT try and help you out in this case sweetheart!
hope i helped -brittany
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i think you should let him know how you feel. tell him this is bothering you. whatever you do, DONT KEEP THIS FROM HIM. it wont be fair to you or to him. if you two are together you guys should be able to talk about anything and everything. so i think for now, try to forget it (yeah i know thats going to be really hard but dont think about him cheating on you, which if he loves you and you turst him he wont) but still i would talk to him.
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if you think he's cheating
go see him
and follow him around
without him knowing
or
you just have to trust him
if you like him enough to be his girlfriend
you gotta trust him
or
if you're positive he's cheating
start going with other guys
let him feel what you feel when you think he's cheating
or
tell him to his face
that you dont know if you can trust him
and hope that he'll confess he's been a bad boy
or he'll make sure that you know he loves you
and he's not cheating on you
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babe.. if he gonna cheat.. he aint worth your time.. and theres no way you can stop him from cheatin if he tha cheatin type.. my advice.. ditch the loser.. if you cant trust him.. wheres the point in the relationship? there isnt one... move on and find yourself a better man..
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