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ok well im 14 and i have been a cutter since i was 12. im also anorexic. i have been since i was like 10. i also have trouble eating infront of people, when i have to eat. i just get nervous and very self concious when i eat around other people. even my parents. im 4'10" and i currently weigh 94 lb. i want to get over my cutting and eating disorder SO BAD! i have tryed forever but just run back to them. i think about suicide a lot, espically after this year. this year i lost a lot of friends. 2 died in a car accident on the same day and 4 killed themselves. it has affected me badly.
now i am addicted to cutting. i cant feel the pain anymore. no matter how much or how deep i cut. ive tryed the rubber band thing but it doesnt work. if you have any ideas on how to stop then please answer. i rate high.

ok im so sorry for you situation i kno how you feel in like a different yet equal way...my grandmothers, my mother ,my dog, my friends because, and my because all died in the course of a half a year.........my mom was the most recent to pass away it just happened on july 21st '05 .....i used to be a cutter but then i realize "where does that get you"...babe if you really wanna lose the pain then just kill yourself, there is no way around it. My cousin brianna is a cutter now and she almost died.....even though i dont like her all that much she had my heart in my throat..see you may think things just keep gettin worse and they could possibly be doing just that and you might not think so but there are people that care about you and support things you do and if you are that much of a coward to try to leave this place and those who care about you then go ahead ....tonight i will be praying for you and even though i dont personally no you your question was a sign for help and a sign that you are not going to turn your back on this world and the people around you and i respect you and if there is anythin i could possibly do for you im always right here...
hope i helped and sorry it was long
>>>>>arielle♥...ps my screenname is esly69distracted hunn or email me at Lolabunni10@aol.com

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OK this is VERY graphic so im sorry :'(
ok today i gave my bf a handjob but it was on top of his pants. I did this 4 times. He told me he had blue balls. What went wrong and i didn't mean to do it. Did i overwork him? whats going on?it was four times! PLEASE DONT DELETE I REALLY NEED HELP!! :( I'll rate all answers 5s except for dumb ones..THANKS!

well did you stop before he ejaculated?*(nut,cum,blow)*.....because blue balls mean he was gettin really horny and into it and they are ready to cum but you stopped.....kinna hard to explain but you didnt hurt him or anythin dont worry he'll just jack off or sumthin and he\'ll be fine just remember if your gonna do somethin wit him dont stop till he cums or if you really need to...

hope i helped
>>>>>arielle♥

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im 13/f about 111lbs.
I cant fit into a size 3 most of the time and that makes me think im fat. I see girls on tv who are in their 20s who weigh less then me. I've tried to cut down on the oh so loverely junk food. But that lasted 30 minz. (( i love chips

sorry babe but when it comes down to it you have got to suck it up and stop being lazy i've tried all the short cuts before and well frankly they are usually temporary or dont work at all....there is no (safe) way around it hunn...it's up to you to make urself look more in shape unless u work for it....like the whole junk food 30 min. thing...uhg-uh no way not workin u have got to try

hope i helped
>>>>>arielle♥

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sorry this is so long

(15/f)

alright well I like this guy but he's known to just get w/ girls for sex and I know that that's true w/ some of the girls he's been with but not all of them.. I like him a lot and I always think about him and like he's one of the only guys I love to hang out with that I like... if that makes any sense... and well he was smoking in front of me and I was like THATS DISGUSTING and he was like ... well then I'll stop, just for u.. and well when ever we hang out he always like rubs my back and is really flirty and when I was drunk he helped me around (not taking advantage of me in any way) bc I couldnt walk very well and he like made sure i was ok and stuff and then the next day he asked how i felt and made sure i was ok... and well he told my brother that hes liked me since the 7th grade and he normally doesnt like girls for that long, he just fucks them and leaves them and hes always like.. i love hangin out w/ ur so awesome and its a lot of fun, and now i cant keep my mind off him and i hate being away from him...... ok well should i take a chance with him if he likes me? or just let it go?




once again... im so sorry its long..

well hunn try it wit him for a lil if he starts showin signs of like ummm....well if he's a lil rushy then try to be like im not ready or be like not today babi....if he get upset or angry he aint worth it if he is liek all goody-goodie then i think hes serious and really wants to be wit u ...thats what i did wit my bf and we've been datin for god knows how long and he basically bows to me....lol.....hope it all goes good hunn i hope i helped ya

>>>>>arielle♥♥

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ok to set the pic i am 13/f and he is 16/m. ok so on to my problem: this kid, lets call him john. well anyways i really like john, but he doesnt like mein that way. he used to be my bros bff, but now we pretty close. wheni was younger i used to like him, and he liked me, but we were too young. well anyways the thing is, i asked him is he liked me nad he was like no,i like this other girl in my grade and i am gonna ask her out. i said oh ok. they just broke up today, and idk if i shopuld tell him how i feel. like i dont want our friendship to change but i really want tolet him know. please help i need to know what to do. also should i ask him how he sees me, i havent seen him in like a month but we always talk on im. so please help


signed,
confused about *him*

hunn never ever hold back from soemthing you wanna do....you have one life live to live so live it to the extent you cant live anymore

if he says no again and your friendship goes down hill than it dont matter how long you two have been friends hes an ass

hope i helped>>>>>pip

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a girl at my school has been going through a very tough time lately. her dad left 3 weeks ago and she just found out that she might be pragnant. this would be much easier if she WASN'T 13!!! but she is and we are best friends. im the only one that knows about the pregnant thing. what do i tell her i rate high for a real answer
thanx

ok um try to follow this and relate it to you and hers situation. Im 14 and my mom is gona pass away in 1 month and a month ago i thought i was pregnant because im a dumbass but anyway my friend kayla is in your boat she helped me threw this shit..This may sound horrible but i didnt have money to buy a pregnancy test so i stole one (dont ever do that) and i told her i didnt want to take it beecause i was so sure i was...i took it-i wasn't..theres one problem out of the way. The whole fact bout my mom she just helped me threw it by tellin me that i should just cry i told her i cant and even my counseler said "People deal with inccidents like this in different ways, This just happens to be how you're dealing with it." so kayla just told me to just take time and cry thats it,i told her to leave me alone because she doesnt know what i was going through and she doesnt still but she was always there in case i fell

if it does turn out that she pregnant then she definately needs to go to a doctor no doubt about it she can hold it off as long as she wants but shes gonna have to go. If she doesnt listen to you dont ever turn her away she may get you mad but you need to always be there for her turnin this tough time.

>>>>>sry this is long but hope i helped write me some time to let me kno how things went
>>>>>arielle aka:pip

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I love my bpyfriend but then there are these 2 other guys. This is the problem..

Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 4 months and I love him a lot. Before I ever went out with him I always likes this other guy! Lets call him Mike. Well Mike and one of my best friends went out off and on for about 5 times. I never told anyone that I liked him and no one knew. Now Mike told me he liked me and he wants to go out with me! I dont know what to do because I like Mike also and I like my boyfriend. There is this new guy who came to school and I think I'm starting to like him to. I already feel jelous when someone flirts with him. We talked a couple of times tho and I like him. My boyfriend is very complicated at times! We have had some issues but we all worked it out! I dont know what to do!!! I like all 3 of these guys! I dont want to hurt my boyfriend because I love him and I also want to go out with Mike and I like this new guy! Please help! I`l rate good I promise! Thank you.

calm down hunni just breathe for a second....im in the same pickle jar you are.....if i say anything that makes you mad at me plz write me bak.......ok well lets satrt with the new kid....leave him alone for a lil while because i like the new kid once whn i had a bf and he turned out to be an ass and my ex bf had moved on.....lets move on to "mike" if you are loyal to your bf then tell mike to wait for you if he likes you back he will wait.....if your not (totally)loyal to your bf (bc not everyone is fully dedicated to there bf/gf) then you can pull of bein a 'playa' and be wit the both of them....who knows mike could turn out to be the one or he could be ass

hunni i hoped i helped you>>>>>arielle

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is it normal to have ur pierod for only a day??

yes it is perfectly normal....your period might just not be on track yet

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heyy i have lime wire and i have all this awesome music for it yay, but i wanna kno can u burn it on to a cd, and if so how thanxx, ps i rate HIGH! plzz help!

ok i have lime wire too.......i also downloaded .......musicmatch jukebox......then all of the songs from lime wire will automatically go there....then its self explainitory from there on...........um oh yea and its all free....except for the fact that you need to buy the cd's obviously



hope i helped it works for me....arielle

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Ok well i wanna pierce my belly button but my parents won't let me. So, i'm gonna do it myself. What are some good tips for piercing your belly button and wut type of needle do ya need...thnx a bunch

the way i peirced my own belly button was by icing it until the ice melts then take a "T" pin and that should do it.....pinch the skin so you have a striaght place to peirce then on the count of 3 go for it.....it didnt hurt me....no lie


>>>>>hope i helped....arielle

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my bf wants me to record myself on tape of me doing anal on myself untill i have an orgasm but the thing is i can't get anything thicker than my finger up my arse and i do it for about five minutes and i don't get to the point of orgasm.
is it just because i'm not doing it for long enough or do i need to put something bigger in.
please help.
signed allover
ps. if a boy does the samething will he still get an orgasm

like someone else answered.....DONT DO IT....BECAUSE IF U BREAK UP HE WILL USE IT AGAINST YOU....i had a similar incident.....me and anotha guy made a movie....and well....when i broke up wit him everytime he had a get-togetha wit his friends they all watched it.....just please dont do that......and you can get and orgasim from doin that but it takes a while...i mean a WHILE......and yes guys can get orgasims too (but lets just hope those guys gettin it up their ass is gay)


hope i helped at all sweetie>>you can talk to me anytime just leave one in my inbox.....adios>>>>>arielle

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just wondering... met a great guy on match.com, we've been dating for almost 11 months... but he still has his ad up there! what's the deal with that? a male ego thing? He said no he's not looking for another girlfriend, and gave me a beautiful diamond necklace for christmas. he's 35 I'm 39. tell me how to get what I want, just a steady boyfriend without all the wondering. I'm too old for this high school crap.

i think you are to old and mature to be dealin wit someone who obviously just wants to play around.......i might be 13 but i say just keep lookin and someone will fall into your path


i hope i helped


ps....that advice person, absolutebeginers is a jack ass....i wrote him a nasty letter because of the advice he gave you......


>>>arielle

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Ok, I recently dumped my ex and he still really really really likes me. He said if I'm not too buzy we can go out another time... and everything is perfect now and I still have feelings for him. Well, one of my BFs likes him now and wants to go out with him. I don't want her to! I mean he is still mine! It's like we like eachother but we ain't going oout! Can I tell my friend sompin so she won't like him? Even if my ex did ask her out and she said yes, she wouldn't go out with him... she seems so young. PLease help!

ok i dont wanna be mean and i hope im not but he's not yours ne more....YOU broke up wit him....i kno u guys are close but he's not ur property any more......i dumped me ex too and it was the same situation but i didnt wanna go bak out wit him bc my life was tooo stressed when we were togetha but i didnt want my friend to go out wit him either....all i can possibly tell you is that you should see how it goes between them....(it prollly wont work out) but if it does go good you have to be mature enough to let him go....think about he might not want to go out wit her.....
hope i helped you hunni
>>>>>arielle

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My mom and I got into a fight last night because i was sick and she didnt want to take me to the doctor. my friend is having a party tomorrow night and i really want to go but my mom says im grounded just because i confronted her with the fact that she is the ONLY one allowed to be sick! He is my next door neighbor and i think i should go anyways! She cant show her butt or we will get kicked out and if she tries to hit me she knows i will call the cops because i have before. Its not fair that because she was in the wrong I cant go. What do you think? I need advice, do i go or not?

i say go to the party...if ur mom gets really mad the worse she can do is hit you and if that happens do wat u did b4...call the cops.....i would go to the party


hope i helped hunn
>>>>>arielle

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Alright, well I just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday that I had been dating for 2 months and some days. And we had tried going out like 8 times before and this time it worked out for a while. Well as the relationship went on the attention he was giving me slowed down immensely and he started talking to other girls way more than me and hardly called me anymore and stuff. We talked about it for hours and he didnt change so I finally decided that I could do better. I was pretty happy when I first broke up with him. But then I listened to a song that I used to tell him was to him and tried talking to him online and that upset me and I cried a lil bit but after I stopped talking to him I was better. And he suppesdly still likes me and cares and crap. Should I try and go back out with him or just get over it considering he doesn't want to pay attention to me when he had plenty of opurtunities to change.. thanks xo

sorry but guys dont change so i dont think he's gonna change and go to bein a sweet sensitive guy.....afta a while he will go bak to his lil ass hole self(sorry) and forget bout u....your definately right u can do so much betta.....


hope i helped ya hunn
>>>>>arielle

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could u tell me how to french kiss

make an 'o' with you'r hand and match your lips at a slight tilt....ummm i dont kno how to explain it.....umm well twist and twirl ur toung around....oh but neva have ur toung farther in a boys mouth(wait r u a boy or a gurl)......open and slightly close ur mouth...lol idk i just do it i dont explain it

hope i helped>>>>>arielle

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so he cheated but im giving him another chance but heres the thing i cheated first. i really didnt do anything all i did was kiss another guy. thats all. but he (who shall remain nameless)slept with my friend while i was away. and made out with another see the making out part didnt bother me but the sex part did and still kinda does. but i love him and i wanna be with him. i mean come on i was engaged for 3 or 4 months. so im giving him another chance and all but then all of a sudden the girl he slept with i hear is bragging right well heres what i did about that i punched her in the face hehe it made me feel so much better and i dont regret it one bit. but then all of a sudden this other girl whom i did nothing to is all freaking out and saying shes gonna sue me for mental anguish hah my ass she will. but yeh shes telling my boyfriend i had sex with sum guy in front of her i no i like kinky but im not that kinky. but yeh so now all this shit is happening and i really dont no how to handel it anymore its all really messing me up and i dont no what to do somebody help me please im gonna loose me mind. oh yeah im 17 and a chik

Thanks

i think u should talk to ur man.....if he dont believe u that u didnt do nethin...then dump his ass.....i kno u love him but u desirve much much betta than him.....oh and dont do nethin to that gurl who's sayin shit to u bc if she's threatenin to sue u then if court sees even a scratch u will get sued....so wait it out.....eventually u'll be able to kick that gurls ass......

hope i help ya hunni>>>>>arielle

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I just met this girl this year in my class this year and we immediatly clicked. We like became best friends almost after 5 weeks of school. Well today we were writing a writing prompt and shes like "I'm farther than you, you liddle b****" And I got really offended even though she was kidding. I wasn't brought up that way and no one in my family really curses. So I told her "Can you please not call me that, its really mean and I don't like it" very nicely. And then she responds with "And like you are not mean!?" So she takes my school photo I gave her two days ago out of her clear view binder because of that reason. I was so pissed off, I told her "If you are not going to keep my photo give it back to me." And she just sat there humming. I know its just a picture but why does she have to let something like THAT make us get in a fight. So should I just blow her off or keep trying to work it out? But I keep telling myself, I don't need a friend like that. But I never seen her like this...
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i kno u've had a long lasting friendship but it seems to me u should be kicked around like that.......you should ditch her.....and if she neva apologizes then shes not ur real frind....i would just forget 'bout her.....oh and i think its good u dont swear.....im not a big fan of swearin either..

hope i helped>>>>>arielle

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this guy that i used to date and i are still like semi friends...we can talk about anything and when i say that i mean anything...and the other day we talked on the phone for EIGHT hours EIGHT!!! i think i still like him but i dont know because last time it didnt work out...but now i feel closer to him and comfortable talking to him and i dont know what to do?!

if u really dont want to date him then just be BEST FRIENDS if u kno what i mean...dont date him but be really close to him...if u give him the thought that he's ur boyfriend....they intend to do things differently and thats y it doesnt work out.....i hope i helped u out a lil bit

>>>>>arielle

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Has anybody heard of gender identity disorder? it's when you are born one gender but with the opposite gender's body? example, you can be a guy trapped in a girls body. I think I have a friend who has this. She's more than just a "tomboy." She dresses like a guy, acts like a guy, does manly things, talks manly, denies that she has or ever will get her period, and she duck tapes her boobs down. what do you think of this?

well thats what ur friend wants....sry but uve got to let her do what she wants....if she starts liking girls then i'd stay away for a little......or she could be one of those people who umm has boobs and a dick......its not her fault if she has a penis, and wants to act like a man.....idk what to tell ya....i hope i helped a little
>>>arielle

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