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Immature Friend
I just met this girl this year in my class this year and we immediatly clicked. We like became best friends almost after 5 weeks of school. Well today we were writing a writing prompt and shes like "I'm farther than you, you liddle b****" And I got really offended even though she was kidding. I wasn't brought up that way and no one in my family really curses. So I told her "Can you please not call me that, its really mean and I don't like it" very nicely. And then she responds with "And like you are not mean!?" So she takes my school photo I gave her two days ago out of her clear view binder because of that reason. I was so pissed off, I told her "If you are not going to keep my photo give it back to me." And she just sat there humming. I know its just a picture but why does she have to let something like THAT make us get in a fight. So should I just blow her off or keep trying to work it out? But I keep telling myself, I don't need a friend like that. But I never seen her like this...
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Hey~Dude she sounds like a total jurk! I would just ignore her and if she keeps doing stuff like that then talk to someone, because that can be considered Harassment! ~Paige~
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i kno u've had a long lasting friendship but it seems to me u should be kicked around like that.......you should ditch her.....and if she neva apologizes then shes not ur real frind....i would just forget 'bout her.....oh and i think its good u dont swear.....im not a big fan of swearin either..
hope i helped>>>>>arielle<<<<<
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Well first off all maybe she was pissed off at you for using words like "clicked."
And get over it people will always call you names, its not like it means anything, its just a sound coming out of somebodies mouth and she was joke, you need to chill out.
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if its easier tlk to her on aim or online..its alot easier..and tell her u didnt mean to oofend her and u were just not brought up cursing...just explain to her that you still want to be friends with her and its stupid to fight over sumthing so silly...and if she doesnt want to try to work things out then tlk to her in person...if she still ignores you just ingore her too until she tlks..if shed oesnt want to tlk then dont try to...and if she doesnt this for a while she is probably not the best friend to have...(jus try 2 work it out bfor u stop bein friendz)
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seems like this person is REAL immature, and it sounds like you handled it too seriously. I know she must have offended you, but I think you both overreacted, apologize, and if you receive an apology back, then stick with it, but if she doesn't apologize back, then don't withdraw your apology, but just be civil instead of friends, or whatever you are to eachother
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