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feeling excluded..
k well my friend is involved on a sports team so obviously they r going 2 get close and be good friends but b4 that we were bff and now i feel like i am being excluded, she will mention things 2 me but not invite me and if she does i always feel excluded because i wasnt really invited im juts a tag along. its really starting to bother me and im sick of feeling liek an outcast with her new friends and i dont no what 2 do bcause this is really botherin me
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Try to become friends with her new friends, or join the sports team. If neither of those work then make some new friends of your own, but still try to hang out with your one friend.
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Hey, first of all, don't feel alone. Everyone goes through what you are feelig at least once. It's natural. That's okay that your friend may have other friends, but don't let it get you down. Instead, turn the situation around. Start going to your friends games more nad supporting her and the other teammates (ie: make signs for some of them). Just be her friend. Another thing, start talking to everyone! Like outside of your friends athletic games talk to them and get to know them so that next time you will be include first hand. Also, make some new friends. Be friendly! Introduce yourself! You don't have to have only 1 best friend..just meet tons of friends. Also, try talking to your friend and telling her how you feel. Chances are, if you say is nicely and sincerely she'll uderstand. :)
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the thing that you can do is to either talk to her about it, or get into an activity yourself and make new friends! people do get busy with other things, but just talk to her about it and tell her how you feel. she might not even notice how shes been excluding you.
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...i feel like that alot becuz sumtimes myfriends mite not see it but they leave me out...i try to talk and they just get pissed and are like "u dont need 2 act like that"...what i do is just hang low and talk to some other ppl that i know but arent bff..try to hang out with other ppl..i know it hurts but sometimes you just hav to try to deal....if u feel sad just listen to music u love or some tv or do sumthin u like to do..just try to not be sad...g0o0od luck
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