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confused about *him*
ok to set the pic i am 13/f and he is 16/m. ok so on to my problem: this kid, lets call him john. well anyways i really like john, but he doesnt like mein that way. he used to be my bros bff, but now we pretty close. wheni was younger i used to like him, and he liked me, but we were too young. well anyways the thing is, i asked him is he liked me nad he was like no,i like this other girl in my grade and i am gonna ask her out. i said oh ok. they just broke up today, and idk if i shopuld tell him how i feel. like i dont want our friendship to change but i really want tolet him know. please help i need to know what to do. also should i ask him how he sees me, i havent seen him in like a month but we always talk on im. so please help
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confused about *him*
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Well first let me say I do think that you should tell him, if you want him you should go get him. But I think that you should give him a little time after his break-up. If he really liked this girl he will be a little broken up and you in his face about how you feel about him won't help him any, and he might do or say something that he might regret in the long run. Don't just drop it on him though. Tell him with a little suttlety. And like I told you wait a while because you don't want to his rebound girl and end up the one with your feelings hurt. Wait like 2 or 3 weeks and tell him how you feel.
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Maybe if you are close to your brother you could get him to find out if he likes you or whatevers going on. Or if you feel comfertable asking 'John' about it go ahead. If you don't want anything to happen because of this (besides maybe a hook up) then maybe you would wait a few days then see. And maybe start your convo out hey 'John' I don't want anything to change between us but...
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Hi there... even though 13-16 seems close, in ways of maturity/relationships it is a million miles apart. You are still a girl growing into a young lady and he will still see you as a child until you're 16+. Sucks, but that's life... find a cute 14 yr old and just be friends with the older guy.
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Since you have discussed it with him in the past, I think you should just be friends and see if he asks you out. I'm sure he remembers that you've said you liked him before. If he likes you he will ask you out. There is a lot of age difference in those three years at this point. They won't matter so much as you get older. Let him ask you. :)
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well you need to tell or he will never know
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hunn never ever hold back from soemthing you wanna do....you have one life live to live so live it to the extent you cant live anymore
if he says no again and your friendship goes down hill than it dont matter how long you two have been friends hes an ass
hope i helped>>>>>pip
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Alright first of I would like to start with AGE in this case does not matter.. what that girl said is totaly off.. yes if you were dating a 8 year old it would be odd.. but I was 13 and went out with a 16 year old.. If he was 18 i would say think again but he isnt! so dont listen to her.. im not trying to be rude.. but dont listen to her..
secondly i think you should wait a few days.. then be honest and be like.. "john" i have had a crush on you for a while.. but You had a girlfriend and I wanted to respect that.. so I just wanted to tell you.. and wonder if you could ever feel that way.. but its cool if you just wana be friends.. thats ok to..
You dont have to say exactly that but the point is you want to be honest but let him still have the option of being friends.. so that way.. if it doesnt work out right now.. you uys can be friends and maybe have it happen in the future.
I hope I helped a little bit atleast
-maddie
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thats bizarre. your age is a big factor, can you imagine the hassle people would give you if you liked little 8 year old boys? he alreadt stated his position. end of story.
-gunner
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you must be one hundered percent honest with him. If he does not see you in the way you see him, you cannot force him to feel that way, and must accept that what you have is what you have. If you are honest he will see, at least if he is truly worth it, he will see.
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