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what do i do
Alright, well I just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday that I had been dating for 2 months and some days. And we had tried going out like 8 times before and this time it worked out for a while. Well as the relationship went on the attention he was giving me slowed down immensely and he started talking to other girls way more than me and hardly called me anymore and stuff. We talked about it for hours and he didnt change so I finally decided that I could do better. I was pretty happy when I first broke up with him. But then I listened to a song that I used to tell him was to him and tried talking to him online and that upset me and I cried a lil bit but after I stopped talking to him I was better. And he suppesdly still likes me and cares and crap. Should I try and go back out with him or just get over it considering he doesn't want to pay attention to me when he had plenty of opurtunities to change.. thanks xo
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get back to gether with him! well i know this is crazy but, if he talks and flirts with other gurls slap him! but u never know the gurls may be his friend or sumething. good luck, sweety!
love,
charolette
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Get done with it. Move on. You dont need that in your life. Dont fall that he still likes you stuff. Hes a flirt!
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well i think that u should just talk to him for a lil bit and if it seems like everything is going right then try it but u might not wanna because it might ruin your friendsship if you do and it doesn't work out hope i helped ~amanda xoxo
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Find out if he's willing to change this time and stick to it, tell him your better than that to be ignored or not have attention, im going through basically the same thing but i havent dumped my boyfreind b/c we've been together for 11 months and i love him, we talk and we both make changes and it works out. Dont give up if hes not willing to change b/c if he isnt willing then he's not the guy your supposed to be with. He's probally a loser if he isnt willing to change to be with u.
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i say just get over him it sounds like he is only intereated in you just to say that he has a girlfriend and doesn't really care about how you think in terms of him conversating with other girls and the attention factor that all girls need...so my advice is plain and simple...forget him your probably better off without him anyway
good luck
kev
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My advice is to not give him another chance. If you have given him 8 opportunities to treat you right, that is waaay more than enuff. He should have learned by now. If he still likes you then he should have treated you well when he had the chance. I say move on gurlfriend and find a better man that will give you all the attention you need and a man that you won't have to give 8 chances to until he finally figures out what he's doing wrong. Chances are if you do give him another chance, hes probly juss gonna mess up again and you dont want to get hurt again. Move on
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If you still really like him, I'd give him a 2nd chance, but if that fails, then I wouldn't go out with him anymore. But I think the best thing to do is let it go, because you don't want to get hurt like that again. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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if you strongly like him then go out with him again but if not then you should let it go, you could do better but if you like him then thats perfect for you.
hope i helped
~stef~
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I think you should move on. Of course you regret it after you hear the song, but that's just because you are remembering all the good times. Still be his friend and remember that he's cool, but it doesn't change the fact that in the end you were unhappy with the relationship. He had a chance to change and unless he proves that he has changed, then move on to someone better
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sorry but guys dont change so i dont think he's gonna change and go to bein a sweet sensitive guy.....afta a while he will go bak to his lil ass hole self(sorry) and forget bout u....your definately right u can do so much betta.....
hope i helped ya hunn
>>>>>arielle<<<<<
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