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im thirteen and i was datin this fifteen yr old until i found out what an ass he was...he always tried to go down my pants and kiss me...so about two weeks ago i broke up wit him...i still went to his house and we r really good friends...after i broke up wit him i met his uncle who is 19...and i found that he likes me....then he called me and asked me out afta we got to kno each otha...(IM NOT GONNA DO ANYTHING WIT HIM BECAUSE I KNO THATS RAPE!!) i said yea so eva since we have been goin out...i luv him a wicked lot and he luvs me to but all my friends say i should dump him...i dont want to but my friend kayla gives the best advice and shes the main one who makes me feel like i should
>should i dump him or not?
thanx a bunch
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it runs in the family. hehe. lol. be very very very careful. its awfully risky. i don't want to sound like a bitch, but get yourself out of that situation. i mean what 19 year old creep tries to hook-up with a 13-year old. one word - sex. yes, you know better, and i know you won't do anything with him, but come on, he's 19. he could easily rape you. i think you should listen to your friends.
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He's 19! What would he want with a 13 year old? I think you should dump him right away. He may seem really nice now, but he could try to do something to you when you're caught off guard. Right now he's gaining your trust. you never know when or if he would break it. Tell him you'd just like to stay friends. Also add in that you're sure he could get a girl his own age, because he really should. =)
-LaUrA-
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Dump him. Any guy that age who would be interested in a thirteen-year-old is a creep. And it's verging on being illegal.
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dude, hes 19, your barely a teenager. do not go out with him, its just wrong.
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are you on crack? your only 13 and your dating someone who is WAY older then you OMG YOUR A HOE!
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your only 13...not even really old enough to have a boyfriend...no offence but he's 19 and your 13 thats not good and he will try to get in your pants more then the 15 year old would dont take what i'm saying the wrong way but hes to old for you and yes he could go to jail...and the only people who date younger girls is rapest...sry to be so harsh but its true. I was only 13 when i got raped and the guy was 19 so yes you should dump him...you shouldnt even be with him!
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A 13 year old dating a 19 year old isn't going to get anywhere. Is that why your friends say to dump him? If you really really really like him, I would say wait like, 5 more years, til you're 18, so at least it would be legal. And the older you get, the age difference doesn't matter. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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I know you care about this guy but it really isn't good for you to be dating someone that is so much older. No matter if you do anything or not, it is still illegal for him to date you and if higher powers found out this guy could get arrested. That isn't a good situation for you at all sweetie, been there done that. Plus. I'm not saying this guy will but he is much older than you and well to be honest he has a penis and he's going to want to try things eventually. I'd hate to see you get in a bad situation sweetie. But it's your decision. All I can do is warn you.
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Well first of all...do you really think that since you are only 13 dating a 19 yera old is such a good idea? If you do, then that's totally up to you. But anywayz back to your question...if you really think you love this guy and you think that this relatonship is going to last a long time then you should do whatever you want. It is your life. But your friend Kayla is just looking out for you it sounds like. And that's wat true freinds are. But if you really beleive that this guy is more importnat than your friend than stay with him. If not, then break up with him cuz its not such a good idea to be dating a guy 6 years older than you. It's not only dangerous but a little creepy. Hope I helped
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i know you like him but theres gotta be a place you draw the line with the age thing. hes just way too old for you.plus anyone that old who is looking to go out with anyone six years younger than them has something wrong with them and you dont want them anyways. i know it hurts but you gotta tell him that you dont think that you guys should go out anymore. thats whats best.
hope i helped
~stef~
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