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HELP!! FRIEND VS.BOYFRIEND
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I'm a 13 grl. I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for 5 months.. I really love him and I always want to be with him and he feels the same. We say we r going to get married someday.. well! I have a best friend and we've always kinda've liked each other and our friendship is growing.. my bf is going to high school next year and im going to be stuck behind for a year... he skipped a grade. but he's still my age. well! I don't know wut to do bc i want to kinda give our relationship a break when he goes to high school and get back together when i get there... but he wants to stay together.. and i dont want to break his heart or anything. please help!!!
confused girl
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sometimes its not bad to give you guys a break from high school to middle school.. you guys will still see eachother afterschool, just during school u wont see him, no big deal. x0
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Well... if you feel like you have something speacial with your boyfriend then i'd keep it going but if think you may have more .. waiting between you and your best friend then i would take a chance with that
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well if you love him like you say you do ...stay with him.
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i say try the friend. cause when he gets to high school hes going to mee alot of new grls and probably dump you. so try soeone new your only 13 by the way to stay stuck with someone for so long
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Well if you really feel that you want a break then do it. Just expect taht its probly gonna hurt the guys feelings. But why would you want to risk a perfectly good relationship that you have? Chances are that if you do take this break that he will go to highschool, find another gurl and might forget about you. I really dont think its a good idea but thats just me. Do wat you think is rite and will be the best for you.
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if you love him, why would you want to take a break? and if you really loved you bf, yeah you can have another crush i guess but you cant possibly like someone else...it just doesnt work that way i think....maybe you should take a break with your bf and if you miss him, then that means you really like him , and if u dont miss him- then it wasnt meant to be..
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I don't think you should take a break. You don't want to break his heart! Lol. I think maybe you should like, call him every now and then and not everyday, you know what I mean? Plus, think about how much you'll miss him. If you want to get married, you gotta get used to seeing him all the time! Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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That's a tough spot to be in. You have to stop and think if really love this guy enough to still date this guy while he is hs. Is it really worth it to not see him as much and all that good stuff. If you think you'd be better off taking a break then do it. Do whatever will make you happy but consider his feelings if you decide to break it off for a while. Explain your reasoning so he doesn't think you are blowing him off. I'm sure this boy will be tempted next year by other girls and you not being around and then you might have to worry about if he will like someone elsae, not saying he will. That usually happens though. Personally, I'd tell that you wanted to take a break until you two were in the same school and such so it would be easier to persue a relationship. You could stay the best of friends so that not much would change, just not be dating. Sounds like a plan to me? heh. Best of luck, xo
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