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hey guys im here to answer problems that you might need help with. i answer questions frequently and hopefully you will like that answer that you get!!!!
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I'm 15 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. Pathetic, I know. The main problem people keep telling me is that when i like a guy i tend to be shy around him. I like this one guy right now and he knows i like him thanks to one of my big mouth friends. We've talked only maybe twice before he found out i liked him but thats the only time we've ever talked. When i see him in the halls he looks at me...what does that mean? How can i get him to like me without coming on to him as a stalker?
it means he may be interested...you could talk to him about alot of stuff when u see him in halls like how was that test or did u hear the homework assignment or what you guys did over the summer
my friend and his band are performing and i was invited to go. i told my friend i liked him and i was wondering should i do anything special for the concert. any suggestions of what i should do?!
mayb when hes done performing go give him a hug and a peck on the lips...i think thatll be sweet!!!tell me how it goes
Ok i need help there is this girl in my school that i like but i am afraid to ask her out because we are really good friends and i dont want to ruin our friendship please help me out.
ummm...if it doesnt work out it doesnt mean ur friendship is over....so i say find the courage and ask her out and make sure that mayb if she does reject you you say that theres no hard feelings betweem you guys....hoped i helped!!!
I wish girls didnt like me becuz of my looks I mean I try to find some I like and I am so popular at my school but they just like me becuz of my looks and the spread stories around that I have sex on the first date and stuff liek that and I do have a girlfriend and we been going out sence 8th grade and we are in the 10th grade now but the other girls always tells my girl friend that I am cheating on her and I am really not please help
tell your girlfriend that you wouldnt stillbe with after 2years if you would be cheating on her..and about your looks and how popular that i cant really help because its not your fought
this kid is trying to set up a relationship between me and my crush! he recently asked my crush are you talking to her? and my crush said yeah! should i be happy he is setting us up? and what's the deal with the whole "talking" thing? (i don't get it)
signed,
Confused-n-in Love
yeah i think you should be happy because he trying to help you guys out..and well are you guys talking??
ok i have this ex who is always trying to get back with me but is also always hitting me and leaving marks. I know it makes me sound stupid but i still keep coming back to him, i cant help it i still like him. Is there any advice someone can give me out there and by the way this is monkeygirls friend not her!!
ok dont ever let a guy hit you again..there no one to do that to you. if they hit you they dont care about you..they might say they do but they dont..its gonna be hard forgetting him but remember your always hurt more than your happy.
well me and my boyfriend have been together 9 months now and everything is great i guess we hang out alot and everything and the first 4 months of our relationship we just talked on the phone alot and hung out a little now we hang out more and were talking on the phoen the same but its kinda like everytime we get on the phone we sit and listen to eachother breath!!! he complains about it alot but i just cant think of anything to talk to him about! i mean i love him alot and i dont want things to end but is this soposto be telling me somthing? do you have anything to tell me? talk topics? anything?
you guys can talk about school, your freinds, what happened that day. problems at home. theres alot of topic that you can talk about. just know how to bring them up. bye
ok well im stuck between 2 realli great guys. Both like me and i like both of them. guy #1 is cute and very poetic i know its kinda bad but he is also my recent ex boyfriend but i have feelings for him still. guy #2 is very cute and sweet but also my boyfriend from last summer. I dont kno which one to choose its very hard!!! there is also another problem, well guy #2 has a goodfriend that has liked me for a long time and i think if i date guy #2 then he and his friend will be fighting and his friend will hate me and of course i dont want that but i realli care about guy #2 he is very special what should i do???
well guy no.2's friend shouldnt be mad at him because he went out with you first. so thats settled hopefully. and and choosing between them...maybe you can make a list of pros and cons. hopefully it will. please keep me informed what happens
are there any ways to enjoy making out with braces? or is it too difficult and bloody?
i had braces before and i didnt make out alot while i had them on. but i think all the stories that tv and other people say arnt true. just try not to make out oddly or anything and you will be fine. hoped i helped byebye
16/f
well, there is this guy that i have known since i was like 4 and he really likes me! but i only like him as a friend and the thing is, is that i REALLY like his cousin! what should i do?
this is kinda hard. but i think what you should do say im really sorry but i dont have the same feelings for you that you have for me. next do not tell him that you have a crush on his cousin becasue then he will tell him. you go and start flirting with his cousin about a week after you told told him that. hope you can understand what im trying to say if not just email me. thanks
okay.. me and this guy have been "talking.." like.. we like each other.. and me and his ex girlfriend DONT like each other.. well.. she IMed me last night.. and she was like.. " i just wanted to tell you im sorry and i dont hate you.. im just jelous of you because you have the one thing i want.. " and then she was being super nice.. well.. today.. he came over to my house.. and she called his cell and was telling him all these lies about me... ( she didnt know he was at my house ) okay.. so i got on the phone and i was like.. "um.. hes busy.. bye!" and then she wrote my advice column saying all this stuff about me.. and i dont know what should i do? should i end things with him?
not at all because that will seem that your giving into her little trick and you cant do that so what you should do is just ignore her and tell your bf or friend that she just want to break apart both of you and you really want to keep this goin with him.
i like this guy. and we are going out. but see he's the kinda guy who doesnt hold hands, kiss etc. like he wants to but i dont know if hes nervous or just is scared to. anyways ive made some moves but i dotn want to make all the moves. what do i do to make him do all that stuff. so hes not soo slow? ive even talked to him. and he keeps telling me he is going to do something. but he doesnt. im waiting and waiting. what do i do? and i dont want to dump the guy if you think i should.
just ask him why he wont or about what time will he be ready to make a move.
I don't know whats wrong with me. I've been with my boyfriend for about two years now. I really do love him, and I know he loves me even more. But lately I've felt like things are just kinda drifting between the two of us. Like- it's not how it used to be. I feel like a jerk too because when I ask him if he's been feeling different lately- he always says no and that he never would ever think of breaking it off with me. Then I feel stupid for thinking things aren't working out. I know I love him, he's the cutest guy ever and he treats me pretty good. I am happy with him, but then why am I feeling like something isn't right? Am I just thinking too much or what!? Please, whats my problem?!
i think it might be becasue you guys have been goig out so long that your thinking of where this going...and maybe the best thing is to talk to him and tell how you feel.
I was going out with this guy that i like a lot. He's perfect in my eyes, and i am in his. we were perfect for each other and things were great until my cousin got involved. she's a little more "advanced" and he likes that. he doesnt like her like her at all, but he wouldnt mind getting some. i felt like a bad gf because i wouldnt do that stuff but he understood. anyways, things eventually didnt work out, and i broke up with him. now, hes going out with someone that i used to be friends with. all of my other guy friends talk to him and say that he still loves me, but he has a gf so i dont see how thats possible. i really wish he did because i still love him a lot. so anyway, we flirt a LOT, and lately ive been more in love with him than ever. i dont know what to do because i dont know if he still loves me, or if hes just leading me on. it seems as though he still has feelings for me but i dont know how to tell. what do i do? i really want them to break up, but i dont want them to until he really does still love me. any advice? i'd rly appreciate it. i dont care how incoherant your reponse is, i'll rate you a 5.
ummm....you could start talking to him on the phone as friends and then maybe bring up the subject about your relationship that you guys had and or maybe will have again hoped i helped!!
13/f
Ok so i really dont understand this, im really nice and funny and everything like serioussly. Its not fair that all of these snobby girls have guys like drooling over them. I dont think im pretty and you'll probably say that i am and blah but how do i get guys to like me? I mean, i talk to guys like all the time and its just stupid that they dont see how much of a nice person i am...
yeah you probably are pretty but the guys might think your one of the guys. like the girl that he could tell them who they like and the girl that he could tell them there girl problems. so maybe try to be more of the girls friends and not the guys as much
i am going to the movies with my boyfriend. i was wondering if i should make a move on him? should i kiss him? Im new at this so i dont know what i should do. my friends are coming along too and i dont know if i should make a move because they are also there. would it be weird if i did make a move? please help!
your going to watch a movie so it wouldnt b bad to make a move. because your friends are going to be watching the movie not you. hope i helped!!
ok, well my best friend scott, has been my friend for ever and well i recently got a b/f named Nelson and ever since he has been so weird. Yesterday scott almost started this huge fight with him...2 days ago he came to nelsons b day uninvited....im really sscared of what scott is going to do next....i love nelson but i dont want him hurt...and i try to talk to scott but he pretends nothing happened...wht should i do!
well it seems that scott has feelings for you in more of away like being your bf so you need to tell him that you dont have those feelings for him. IF THATS not it then he might be trying to b protective but then again you need to tell him that he cant be that of protective you forever bc he is gonna mess your relationship up with nelson.
my best friend likes my ex-boyfriend and i still like him too.. but i was the one who broke up with him.. i told her i didnt still like him because she really likes him and he likes her back! but im pretty sure he still likes me because he still acts like it. i am fine with my best friend going out with him because she actually asked me before but i will just be so sad.. i dont know what to do!
you could tell your friend to not b all over him while your around but try not to split then up bc you did give her the ok that she cold go out with him
I just turned 14 and I am wondering how far most people go with a guy at this age? like what would you consider reasonable?? I havent done much with guys so far but if the time was right I want to know my limits!!! whats idea of a 14 yr old?
grls at your age have probably gone far but for my advice dont becasue you will regret it sooner or later. i say go up to making out with a guy you dont need anything else and if the guy doesnt want that then hes not for you.
Okay... Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months... it will be 3 months on the 6th of january..! Well see my friend and her boyfriend have been going out for not even 1 month and they have already kissed (tongue) and held hands and more! Me and my boyfriend have kissed but it seems that we are never alone because of this girl that likes him... she is always there, she won't just leave me and him alone for just a little bit! What should i do? it is bothering me so much that my friends are afraid of me breaking up with my boyfriend over this girl always being there!
well first how old are u guys?? and if you want some alone time have him come over to your house to watch a movie so mayb then you guys will makeout or even just talk over other stuff. hoped i helped