Ok i need help there is this girl in my school that i like but i am afraid to ask her out because we are really good friends and i dont want to ruin our friendship please help me out.
craziichick02 answered Thursday January 27 2005, 4:30 pm: you should tell her how you feel and asks her if she has any feeling for you. you should also tell her that you would never hurt her and no matter what you will always be friends [ craziichick02's advice column | Ask craziichick02 A Question ]
jalaysa answered Thursday January 27 2005, 4:13 pm: Well, from my own expieriance, i will tell you this. I had a friend he was my best friend. We grew up together. I one day thought the same as you, so i told him how i felt. And he was shocked because he felt the same. So we dated we were together for 3 years then we made a big step. We got married, but we had already had our ups and downs. We got married anyway, we noticed in eachother that we were not the same friends as we were all those years before. be carefull [ jalaysa's advice column | Ask jalaysa A Question ]
Splacious answered Thursday January 27 2005, 4:05 pm: This is a tough situation. First of all, you need to be pretty sure she feels the same way towards you. If she doesn't, and you ask her out, it will probably make your friendship awkward. Second of all, you need to ask yourself these questions:
- If this ever developed into a relationship, would it work out?
- Is this worth risking my friendship over?
Be completely honest! If you're confident in the answer to the questions above, and you've looked at the risks of asking a best friend out but decided its worth it, then go ahead.
iggyl27 answered Thursday January 27 2005, 4:04 pm: ummm...if it doesnt work out it doesnt mean ur friendship is over....so i say find the courage and ask her out and make sure that mayb if she does reject you you say that theres no hard feelings betweem you guys....hoped i helped!!! [ iggyl27's advice column | Ask iggyl27 A Question ]
LoveCouldntBeAnyBetter answered Thursday January 27 2005, 3:42 pm: me and my boyfriend's 9 month is on feb.4th and for 2 years before we started dating me and him were bestfriends... i think if you ask her out and try hard to make the relationship work then it will turn out fine... just look at me and my boyfriend... hope i helped *Courtney* [ LoveCouldntBeAnyBetter's advice column | Ask LoveCouldntBeAnyBetter A Question ]
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