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well, there is this guy that i have known since i was like 4 and he really likes me! but i only like him as a friend and the thing is, is that i REALLY like his cousin! what should i do?
XoCuTiPyOx93 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 11:41 am: What you should do is you explain to him that you only want to be his friend and tell him there is another guy on your mind. When he asks who tell him who it is. If he really truely likes you then he might offer to set you guys up. If he gets jealous then he dosent truely like you..Hope I helped!! [ XoCuTiPyOx93's advice column | Ask XoCuTiPyOx93 A Question ]
iggyl27 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 1:43 am: this is kinda hard. but i think what you should do say im really sorry but i dont have the same feelings for you that you have for me. next do not tell him that you have a crush on his cousin becasue then he will tell him. you go and start flirting with his cousin about a week after you told told him that. hope you can understand what im trying to say if not just email me. thanks [ iggyl27's advice column | Ask iggyl27 A Question ]
sarah0308 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 12:36 am: oh man. well if ya'll have been friends for 12 years and you like his cousin a lot, dont you think that would ruin ya'lls friendship if you dated his cousin and he really likes you? maybe talk to him about the situation and go over some stuff. like how maybe you can date his cousin without dating him. or maybe you can give him a chance and if that dont work out then maybe(?) go for his cousin. i would just be careful of his feelings. well if you were, you would also hurt your feelins. you should see if his cousin likes you, then if he does, go from there.
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angela234 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 12:19 am: tell the boy in a gental way that you don't like him as a boyfriend that you only like him as a friend.after that you should really stick to his cousin.since the boy really likes you and you broke up with him you can tell him about the cousin love thing and tell him to try to get him to meet you. [ angela234's advice column | Ask angela234 A Question ]
Sherry answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 12:14 am: Make it clear to him that even though you love him as a friend, that you dont want to be anything more than that. Thats all you can do...and try to hang out with his cousin more or something. [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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