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13/f
i like this guy. and we are going out. but see he's the kinda guy who doesnt hold hands, kiss etc. like he wants to but i dont know if hes nervous or just is scared to. anyways ive made some moves but i dotn want to make all the moves. what do i do to make him do all that stuff. so hes not soo slow? ive even talked to him. and he keeps telling me he is going to do something. but he doesnt. im waiting and waiting. what do i do? and i dont want to dump the guy if you think i should.
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do not dump him. he might think that yall are too young! just hold his hand that might be the sign of him being comftoable and him being able to do sexual things if you follow what i am saying! so hold his hand and see his reaction!
((x o ♥ Michelle))
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litteraly, grab the dude's head and make him kiss you
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Totally dont dump him. He might not be ready to make a move cuz its to early in the relationship or he wants to get a better connection to you. Its totally ok if you make all the moves.
~Brina~
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just ask him why he wont or about what time will he be ready to make a move.
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Hey, no sweat. Guys are pretty shy especially around that age. When your together..massage him..give him kisses..and eventually ..hopefully...he`ll feel comfortable and he`ll start making the moves also.
-melissa
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Sweetie, have you ever thought that he may be nervous and probably doesn't know what to do? Why don't you make the first move so he'll be more comfortable about doing it. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Keep this in mind: You have to make sacrifices for the ones you love, or in your case like.
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make the first move, be aggressive orherwise you wont get what you want. Once you make the first move, he will feel comfortable making moves on you by himself. Good luck, hope i helped. -Angel
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you cant just expect him to make the moves because u told to.. but have to teach him-- everyday, tell him wut u want him to do and maybe he'll get the hang of it, and keep doing it more, WITHOUT you having to say sumthing to him-- Maurie
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i have an idea skanky why dont you slip a cold finger into his buttcrack and see if that sparks any romantic passion, hope i helped
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Heh. I had that problem back in the past. I just mentioned it to him. Lets just say he wasnt so slow and he actually made moves cuz he knew i was fed up but wel.. u keep makin the moves and slowly he'll eventually become confertable with it and if he says he will.. he's just nervous to.. he'll warm up to it.. give him a little more time.
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well kiss him, after a while from kissing i think hell be more comfortable with doing more with you, dont rush him into things that he doesn't want him to do, dont make him feel uncomfortable when hes around you all the time. going out isn't all just doing stuff, its about spending quality time with eachother and just having fun! x0
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Well once you kiss him a couple of times he will catch on just keep making some moves but like you said dont make all the moves just always flirt with him and all if you hold his hand all the time it will become a habit for him he just probably nervous
hoped I helped
Megan
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your 13 and hes prob around the same age as you right?...well maybe hes never kissed a girl like by makeing the first move and maybe hes scared to or something...talk to him about it more and try to get it out of him why he doesnt make any moves...some guys make moves on girls and some dont the ones who make all the moves end up trying to get to far with it so i'd say just to talk to him and be careful ...hope i helped-Nikki
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